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Topic: Help me mend my heart
FaithfulOne78's photo
Wed 07/09/08 04:34 PM


Sorry to hear that, It's just as hard & sometimes harder for big guys like myselfflowerforyou


big teddy bear guys are sexy!! flowerforyou smooched


They are...aren't they! better than cuddiling up to a stack of bones!:tongue:

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 07/09/08 04:35 PM



Sorry to hear that, It's just as hard & sometimes harder for big guys like myselfflowerforyou


big teddy bear guys are sexy!! flowerforyou smooched


They are...aren't they! better than cuddiling up to a stack of bones!:tongue:






blushing flowerforyou smooched

FaithfulOne78's photo
Wed 07/09/08 04:36 PM




Sorry to hear that, It's just as hard & sometimes harder for big guys like myselfflowerforyou


big teddy bear guys are sexy!! flowerforyou smooched


They are...aren't they! better than cuddiling up to a stack of bones!:tongue:






blushing flowerforyou smooched


:tongue: :wink: smooched

grneyedldy1967's photo
Wed 07/09/08 04:36 PM
Edited by grneyedldy1967 on Wed 07/09/08 04:38 PM




Sorry to hear that, It's just as hard & sometimes harder for big guys like myselfflowerforyou


big teddy bear guys are sexy!! flowerforyou smooched


They are...aren't they! better than cuddiling up to a stack of bones!:tongue:

blushing flowerforyou smooched

I prefer men with meat on their bones too.. can't stand a skinny man ICK




bastet126's photo
Wed 07/09/08 04:36 PM
Edited by bastet126 on Wed 07/09/08 04:38 PM



Sorry to hear that, It's just as hard & sometimes harder for big guys like myselfflowerforyou


big teddy bear guys are sexy!! flowerforyou smooched


They are...aren't they! better than cuddiling up to a stack of bones!:tongue:


laugh gather up the kindling wood...laugh

okay...that really didn't make sense...lol...for some reason i read val's post as stack of sticks...oh well...laugh :tongue:

lov2fish's photo
Wed 07/09/08 04:37 PM

tell ya what, im a big fella, and i wont date a little framed woman, i like em healthy, and happy with the way that they are. dont stress what a f*cktard that wants to tear you down thinks, find you a decent man and be happy with yourself that way. find the one that completes you both spiritual and mentally, the physical part will come later. and you look good to me, might not mean much since you dont know me, but i dont sugar coat.

Very well said!.. It just goes to show you how ignorant and cruel some people can be. Im sorry for you and like the rest said.. Keep your chin up.. they'll get theres in due time!flowers

no photo
Wed 07/09/08 04:37 PM
Edited by moonie77 on Wed 07/09/08 04:47 PM
I am sorry you had to go through that hun.
They are probable not happy with their own life and it makes them feel better to bring others down.
Just try not to let it bring you down since you know you are better then them.

Best of luck in finding that special someone....

Urg04es's photo
Wed 07/09/08 04:38 PM
HELL- we are supposed to be swelling on my sorrow-not trying to get into Patfans pajamas. LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks everybody-I am feeling better-you are all the BEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Wed 07/09/08 04:40 PM

HELL- we are supposed to be swelling on my sorrow-not trying to get into Patfans pajamas. LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks everybody-I am feeling better-you are all the BEST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh



LOL....
it is true tho about big ole' teddy bears

boneyjoe's photo
Wed 07/09/08 04:40 PM
an just when you think it's safe to go out side

anthsm22's photo
Wed 07/09/08 04:40 PM
HOLY CRUD!!!!!!!!! That is a new low for me to hear. ya know what? They are so miserable with themselves that they have to try to abuse others to try to justify their own existance. Screwwwww them. Dont you spend one more minute on thinking that he was worth any more of your time or feelings. if you want I will go beat him up for you!flowerforyou

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 07/09/08 05:19 PM





Sorry to hear that, It's just as hard & sometimes harder for big guys like myselfflowerforyou


big teddy bear guys are sexy!! flowerforyou smooched


They are...aren't they! better than cuddiling up to a stack of bones!:tongue:

blushing flowerforyou smooched

I prefer men with meat on their bones too.. can't stand a skinny man ICK












love blushing flowerforyou

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Wed 07/09/08 06:20 PM

I consider myself a very honest person almost to a fault. I had met someone one this site-I won't say names-he ain't here anymore anyway. We talked non stop for two weeks and were even starting to flirt with the love words. He had told me he was widowed and then today his WIFE came on line to tell me they were just playing with me-they like to find fat people and bring them up to break them down. Yeah-I am over weight but my weight doesn't rule my life and it surely doesn't make me everything I am. I wear my heart on my sleeve and these people hurt me bad. Any advice on how to be a little harder and not trust so easily?:cry:


Well, it never ceases to amaze me the cruel, haneous things folks are capable of inflicting on one another.

As you can see from the posts here in this thread, there are some truly wonderful, caring people on this site. That couple is not worth the oxygen it's takes to talk about them. Don't allow the actions of a couple of idiots sway you from joining-in here the forums and making friends. flowerforyou

BlueskyJ's photo
Wed 07/09/08 06:29 PM

I consider myself a very honest person almost to a fault. I had met someone one this site-I won't say names-he ain't here anymore anyway. We talked non stop for two weeks and were even starting to flirt with the love words. He had told me he was widowed and then today his WIFE came on line to tell me they were just playing with me-they like to find fat people and bring them up to break them down. Yeah-I am over weight but my weight doesn't rule my life and it surely doesn't make me everything I am. I wear my heart on my sleeve and these people hurt me bad. Any advice on how to be a little harder and not trust so easily?:cry:


Wow! Wow! I can't believe somebody could be so cruel...I'm so sorry that happened to you...you deserve better than that....
How can people be so heartless?

flowerforyou flowerforyou for you

thumper95's photo
Thu 07/10/08 06:50 AM
alot of people think its fun to take and tear someone down, to make themselves feel better about their own shortcomings. he may be hung like a hamster or something. i dont know. but as far as the original poster goes, if she wants to feel better, just remeber, if the wife is like that, the dude is probably a henpecked wore down beat up punk. dont listen to stupid people and get you some real people who will say whats on their mind and dont mind kicking off in someones ass that wants to hurt your feelings. i guess thats the good part of being me. i dont care what people think of me. i know im big, and i like being big. if i was small i wouldnt be the person that i am right now. so tell them to take a flying f*ck at a rolling doughnut cause you dont need some wanna be waste of skin like them.

franshade's photo
Thu 07/10/08 06:53 AM
Sorry you went thru that, but karma is a b!tch.

stay positive and ignore the ignorant.

good luck!

No1sLove's photo
Thu 07/10/08 07:14 AM
That is one of the worst stories of fakes I have heard yet. I know of a group of teenage girls who made profiles to see if they could attract grown men, which is horrid and inconsiderate of peoples feelings, but they were kids not thinking they might hurt someone, but only thinking of themselves.

It is so much worse to think that grown adults would play games with the GOAL of hurting others for sport. What the devil is wrong with people? :angry:

I'm so sorry you had to go through that. flowerforyou

I know there are good people here...after all YOU are here. happy

That's what I remind myself of every time I hear a horror story about online connections that might scare me away. I just say, I am here, so I know there are others like me here too. :heart: flowerforyou

ColinMiller's photo
Thu 07/10/08 07:16 AM

I consider myself a very honest person almost to a fault. I had met someone one this site-I won't say names-he ain't here anymore anyway. We talked non stop for two weeks and were even starting to flirt with the love words. He had told me he was widowed and then today his WIFE came on line to tell me they were just playing with me-they like to find fat people and bring them up to break them down. Yeah-I am over weight but my weight doesn't rule my life and it surely doesn't make me everything I am. I wear my heart on my sleeve and these people hurt me bad. Any advice on how to be a little harder and not trust so easily?:cry:



People like that can **** off. It's my belief that if you are a great person on the inside, that's what counts. If you happen to be very attractive then that's a plus. So don't let people like that bring you down.:smile:

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