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Topic: All or Nothing..What's Ur Advice
MiamiQ Joined Wed 06/18/08 Posts: 132	Tue 07/08/08 03:34 PM
I haven't been on a date in over a year or even had any offers. Now I meet 2 eligible gents in the same week and have friendly conversations for 2 weeks with both. Now both want to meet face to face and I don't know which to choose . I cannot lie with a straight face so I don't bother trying annnd I only need one cause I don't need the drama of sneaking around. Any good suggestions....I'll take a little humor if you don't know what else to suggest

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Tue 07/08/08 03:36 PM
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Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Tue 07/08/08 03:36 PM
OMG I've been there

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15104	Tue 07/08/08 03:37 PM
I haven't been on a date in over a year or even had any offers. Now I meet 2 eligible gents in the same week and have friendly conversations for 2 weeks with both. Now both want to meet face to face and I don't know which to choose . I cannot lie with a straight face so I don't bother trying annnd I only need one cause I don't need the drama of sneaking around. Any good suggestions....I'll take a little humor if you don't know what else to suggest This is what dating is for...you go out with both a few times before making any decisions. What if you were to turn one down and then you don't like the other one at all? Don't burn your bridges just yet.

julie4781 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 51	Tue 07/08/08 03:37 PM
go on dates ( dinner or whatever) and make your decision after a few dates... the first time you meet im sure its not going to be "hello, im your new boyfriend",,,geeeeeeeee

Urg04es Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 1411	Tue 07/08/08 03:37 PM
Just be honest that you are seeing other people. If things start to develop then let it be known that you are going to be exclusive to that person.

somewhatshy2 Joined Sat 03/29/08 Posts: 1758	Tue 07/08/08 03:37 PM
who says you can't go out with both of them just 1 time to see who you are better suited to???

Serchin4MyRedWine Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 3483	Tue 07/08/08 03:37 PM
I haven't been on a date in over a year or even had any offers. Now I meet 2 eligible gents in the same week and have friendly conversations for 2 weeks with both. Now both want to meet face to face and I don't know which to choose . I cannot lie with a straight face so I don't bother trying annnd I only need one cause I don't need the drama of sneaking around. Any good suggestions....I'll take a little humor if you don't know what else to suggest meet them both....different dates of course...you aren't in a commited relationship yet..so go have fun and you'll see which one if any are right for you...Good Luck

MiamiQ Joined Wed 06/18/08 Posts: 132	Tue 07/08/08 03:37 PM
OMG I've been there Yeah, I need that brick wall, its driving me nuts.

merlin2525 Joined Sun 06/17/07 Posts: 2819	Tue 07/08/08 03:37 PM
Go with the moneyman

dirtyblonde007 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 932	Tue 07/08/08 03:38 PM
I haven't been on a date in over a year or even had any offers. Now I meet 2 eligible gents in the same week and have friendly conversations for 2 weeks with both. Now both want to meet face to face and I don't know which to choose . I cannot lie with a straight face so I don't bother trying annnd I only need one cause I don't need the drama of sneaking around. Any good suggestions....I'll take a little humor if you don't know what else to suggest go on a first date with both and tell them you are trying to decide... be open about it.

Chazster Joined Tue 08/28/07 Posts: 6206	Tue 07/08/08 03:38 PM
Ok, you talked online but haven't met in person right? If thats the case then you can see both. You are not in a relationship with anyone. You can go out with both separately. Find out who is the better match on the actual dates. If a relationship forms with one drop the other.

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15104	Tue 07/08/08 03:38 PM
I SO wish I had this problem!

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5376	Tue 07/08/08 03:38 PM
why choose... theres no ring on your finger have a date with them both and see what happens

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Tue 07/08/08 03:39 PM
You really just have to pic one. You aren't in a relationship with either one so its not like you're cheating. Just pick one, see how the date goes. If its really good and you think more will come out of it... cut the other one loose. Or if it goes bad, give him up and go out with the other one.

AMANDADANIELLE Joined Tue 06/24/08 Posts: 65	Tue 07/08/08 03:39 PM
my advice may not be so good i have been single for about 2 years and i went out with someone and now no cantact i don't get it he was really nice to i am thinking maybe it is me

Maureeno Joined Sat 04/26/08 Posts: 1780	Tue 07/08/08 03:39 PM
wow, it takes that long sometimes? hmmmm... i guess i could find things to do in the meantime, maybe enjoy my single life for now

MiamiQ Joined Wed 06/18/08 Posts: 132	Tue 07/08/08 03:39 PM
Wow thanks everyone for all the great advice. I feel better... I guess I was feeling guilty, right, I should just put it all up front

michiganman3 Joined Mon 10/29/07 Posts: 14521	Tue 07/08/08 03:40 PM
Hey, just have a meet and greet. Its not a marraige proposal. Go out with both for a while. You might not like either one when you get face to face. Its OK to date different people at the same time. And you don't have to tell them that you are seeing someone else, thats up to you. I wish I had two girls wanting to go out with me.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Tue 07/08/08 03:40 PM
Wow thanks everyone for all the great advice. I feel better... I guess I was feeling guilty, right, I should just put it all up front why feel guilty? You haven't done anything wrong.