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Topic: All or Nothing..What's Ur Advice
julie4781's photo
Tue 07/08/08 03:41 PM

Wow thanks everyone for all the great advice. I feel better... I guess I was feeling guilty, right, I should just put it all up front
feeling guilty about what... neither one is your boyfriend right????? dont worry over it,,, enjoy both of them...

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Tue 07/08/08 03:42 PM
honestly, I had one guy that quit speaking to me because I told him I was talking to more than one person at once (all online) I had never even met or spoke to him on the phone and he got all pissy that I wasn't "focusing" on him. Whatever... I cut him loose

Jill298's photo
Tue 07/08/08 03:42 PM
honestly, I had one guy that quit speaking to me because I told him I was talking to more than one person at once (all online) I had never even met or spoke to him on the phone and he got all pissy that I wasn't "focusing" on him. Whatever... I cut him loose

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Tue 07/08/08 03:47 PM
Edited by taboo365 on Tue 07/08/08 03:48 PM
all this talk about you need to pick one. but what about this. Are you sure you like either of them enough, ya know what i mean, maybe you're just being too hasty. is either one what you REALLY want? just my 2 cents

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Tue 07/08/08 03:48 PM
I agree with some of the other gals here. This isn't even remotely a time for dealing with faithfulness. You may meet one and there will be no sparks. You may meet BOTH and there will be no sparks. This is just "meet and greet" time, not a time to have to consider anything more!! Best wishes!! flowerforyou

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Tue 07/08/08 04:05 PM
Go on a date with both of them. You can't fairly decide anything unless you meet them both face to face... and chances are you might not be able to tell what they're like even on just a first date. You don't owe them anything, and it's not wrong to go out with both of them. However, if you are making out with one and telling him how great he is, you shouldn't date the other one. As long as you're not in a committed relationship, you don't owe them anything except a decent date.

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Wed 07/09/08 04:15 AM
Sounds like a plan and everyone seems to be on the same page. Well tonight I meet No 1. Will see how it goes. Thanks again all.

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