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Topic: arrrgh!
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Tue 07/08/08 08:19 AM
ok so i need to vent a little...
my soon to be ex is lying to me again! last week he said he had the papers printed and ready to go and now he is saying he doesn't have them! what is the deal?! its either one or the other.... he has no reason to lie to me anymore....
golly.... i feel like choking the poor man. i have always had to stay on him about papers and deadlines in general.... glad i am not in that relationship anymore!!!! i'm tired of playing his momma.....

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Tue 07/08/08 08:20 AM
Chill. Have another beer. drinker

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Tue 07/08/08 08:20 AM
noway He sounds very immatureflowerforyou

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Tue 07/08/08 08:21 AM

Chill. Have another beer. drinker


another? i haven't even gotten started yetdrinker

Etrain's photo
Tue 07/08/08 08:21 AM
ummm...why don't you file the papers...then you can be rid of him

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Tue 07/08/08 08:21 AM

noway He sounds very immatureflowerforyou

he was worse than i was but my excuse was i was 19 and naive..... what was his?laugh

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Tue 07/08/08 08:22 AM
I am sorry, maybe you need to file the paper work that way you know that it has been done. I wish you the best of luck.flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Tue 07/08/08 08:22 AM

ummm...why don't you file the papers...then you can be rid of him


don't have the money... he is the one making a whole lot more than me....

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Tue 07/08/08 08:23 AM


noway He sounds very immatureflowerforyou

he was worse than i was but my excuse was i was 19 and naive..... what was his?laugh
laugh he's an idiotlaugh

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Tue 07/08/08 08:23 AM

ummm...why don't you file the papers...then you can be rid of him

great minds think alike...tis what I did...

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Tue 07/08/08 08:24 AM


ummm...why don't you file the papers...then you can be rid of him

great minds think alike...tis what I did...


again i can't because i don't have the funds and he does...... besides he did me wrong and he owes it to me to pay for it.

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Tue 07/08/08 08:24 AM


ummm...why don't you file the papers...then you can be rid of him


don't have the money... he is the one making a whole lot more than me....


And he is using this to his advantage...and still being immature.

Okay. Go and steal his wallet, grab a credit card, pay for the divorce (well, he will) and then be done with it.:wink: laugh

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Tue 07/08/08 08:25 AM
So what do you want us to do? Just go Aaarg with you?

AAArrrrrrgh! drinker

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Tue 07/08/08 08:25 AM
chec your court system, I know here you can go to the library and print the papers, and file yourself at the courts house for very little money....and you can also find attorneys that will wait to be paid, normally if you file...they pay...just a couple of options....good luck

Etrain's photo
Tue 07/08/08 08:25 AM



ummm...why don't you file the papers...then you can be rid of him

great minds think alike...tis what I did...


again i can't because i don't have the funds and he does...... besides he did me wrong and he owes it to me to pay for it.

I have a feeling your gonna be married for a long timelaugh laugh

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Tue 07/08/08 08:26 AM
google pro se services in your area for cheap divorces that you can do yourself. All you would have to pay is the filing fee which is very reasonable. Good Luck flowerforyou

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Tue 07/08/08 08:27 AM



ummm...why don't you file the papers...then you can be rid of him


don't have the money... he is the one making a whole lot more than me....


And he is using this to his advantage...and still being immature.

Okay. Go and steal his wallet, grab a credit card, pay for the divorce (well, he will) and then be done with it.:wink: laugh


kinda hard when he is all the way in norway.......

and ya'll he is getting the papers without a lawyer and we are doing it on our own... we have nothing to fight over material wise.

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Tue 07/08/08 08:28 AM


ummm...why don't you file the papers...then you can be rid of him

great minds think alike...tis what I did...


Ditto I made less also and had two kids to support but you can bet your sweet arse I had talked to a lawyer and had the papers being drawn up before he was told to get out.

I don't believe in waiting around when it is time to cut the ties. It's see ya later enjoy the mess you got yourself into.waving

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Tue 07/08/08 08:29 AM
That is how me and my ex did it. No lawyers, which saves you a ton of money. We walked through our house and split things up by doing the, "I want to keep that, if you don't mind."...and it actually worked.

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Tue 07/08/08 08:29 AM
all i wanted to do was vent..... and i get advice i already had long before divorce was in question....

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