ok why doesnt guys have the balls to tell a girl they are not interested but instead they like to lead the girls on?
Had a guy on here i started talking to We talked quit a bit but today he tells me hes not interested in dating me that he only wanted to be
friends. Why do guys do that?

good question

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because most of them just want to cyber with you.....and if you asre clear with them and let them know you wont then they move on to the next one!!!!

For the record, sometimes we do just want to be friends. nah that's bulls hit, Ha Ha!! I really don't know though

but why would you join a dating site

Sometimes a guy just don't know ,or perhaps they were just trying to be nice

Same reason someone spoke to me for awehile and made me belive it was real and then just woke up one day and never spoke to me again....butt heads

I don't know what you are talking about, we would never do that

I dont think its just a guy thing

you would think guys have grown up by the time
they hit their 40's but i guess they never do

It's called Just Say Hi...(or it was when a friend told me about it) I'm here to 'mingle'...nothing wrong with making online friends.
I've made some wonderful, sincere, true connections and had some great laughs!!

Perhaps he likes you but can't find the chemistry. Send your new 'friend' a happy email card and keep looking for what you really want.

same as a date ,you get to know a person,then where you go from there is up to both of you

They should change the name to 'Mutual Match'

Keeps you around like an insurance policy. Women do the same stupid $#!T.

Maybe it really wasn't there for him............wouldn't you rather he do this than lead you on, and let you think it's really going somewhere, and ask to meet him for him then to drop the ball? JMO

Women are just as guilty but we claim "womens perogative" and expect men to deal.

Ladies have done the same thing to me.

Lemme just say that some guys are idiots. No feminist interjections, please. Some guys really do just want to be friends with a girl, I would know(my best friend is one, and we are not involved). A lot of guys don't really know if they are leading someone on. They just go on as if you have the same intentions as they do, no matter what those intentions might be. So, pity us poor men. Most women are naturally gifted in conversation to direct their motive at such a level that is right over some guys' heads.

well he kept sending me emails saying im special and when we chatted it was for a couple of hours so the only reason i found out he wanted just to be friends when i asked about dating