It's not hard to figure out . ...you get to know them first then you date them...I don't like blind dates...I'm just saying thats me I can't speak for the male population...but not trying to be mean..just trying to make sense for ya !!..maybe after talk to you you weren't his type

but like i said he kept telling me he liked talking to me that we had alot in common

I like talking to people too (male and female) and have a lot in common with them too from here, but that does not mean that I want to date all of them (specifically the females!!)...some are just meant to be friends!

Because a lot of them are skumbuckets...but then again so are alot of women these days... hmm

sorry I did not read that far..if he did that...I would say he must of heard something he did not like or he's a player....anyway sorry!!....be friends and move on sweety

Thanks sweety

Maybe that's how he wanted it in the first place. I can be a friend to almost anyone who crosses my path, male or female.

Hunny ,I'm sure there's alot of guys that like you, why worry about that one

Don't allow yourself to be angry or hurt with them... Let them move on!
If they felt it wasn't anymore than friendship- at least you didn't walk out empty handed. You have a new friend
There are some men that refuse to have anything to do with a women if they aren't interested in them for more than friendship.
We get up, dust ourselves off and appreciate those that DO stick around

Don't expect to get to meet with everyone who expresses an interest in you. I have talked to women far longer than you did with this man. The once hopeful friendship crumbled away as fast as this one did for you. Some people change mentally when facing an actual meeting. They simply don't want to do it. Why? Beats me.

I have tried to talk to women about their changing but by then it's too late. They believe they are acting logically and do not see a problem. They mentally shut down and begin to place you out of their lives.

The result for you is like walking on ice. You will eventually stumble and fall. The frustration you are feeling is due to a lack of answers. They won't give you the straight scoop because they are not there mentally. If they gave you answers it would not make sense. Eventually your mental state of mind will become as lost as theirs. The result is how you feel now.

Forget them and move on. Just be glad it happened so soon.