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I dont mind the whole "shopping" scenario.... unless you start trying it on... I wont be one of many romps in the hay... many men dont get that concept ![]() |
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I have seen where there are so many different opinions of "dating" Dating to me is meeting several new people, some women that can be friends, casual encounters, getting together to just do whatever, so on. I could go rock climbing with one woman this weekend, and next weekend go boating with another woman.... Until I have declared that I am "exclusive" with someone, I see no harm in hanging out with others. It's a total "go with the flow" scenario with me..... TOTALLY agree. I like to keep my options open. Some people term that a "playah" Not in my book. Sorry to tell them. ha |
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Guy's, my ex bf and I stared seeing one another again. Over a month now. He spent the vast majority of this past week with me, overnight's and all. What do you say to this? How interested or serious do you think this is?
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![]() ![]() ![]() What deemed this thread is where I saw others willing to drop "dating" and be exclusive to one they havent even met yet. That makes no sense to me. ![]() Example on why: Lets say I declared myself exclusive to somone online that I havent met yet, only talked to on the phone. And, when I got to the baseball game this afternoon, I just so happen to sit next to a wonderful woman and carry great conversation and we decide to pursue contact after the game. Am I going to say no? Just because I have an "online" g/f? ![]() ![]() I have to agree again. But I think that should be stated to the online person who might think you mean more. I learned the hard way about online dating relationships BEFORE meeting in person. Put my life on hold for an IMAGE. I don't care if it's email, IM's, phone, even webcam. There is no way in h*ll you can KNOW who you think you know until you meet and confirm. I wasted 12 mos of my life once doing that. STUPID me. Never ever again. So altho I may really like someone on line the REAL life works first. Period. |
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Guy's, my ex bf and I stared seeing one another again. Over a month now. He spent the vast majority of this past week with me, overnight's and all. What do you say to this? How interested or serious do you think this is? well that's not what Jim is talking about .. he's talking about online NOT in real life. ![]() |
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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() What deemed this thread is where I saw others willing to drop "dating" and be exclusive to one they havent even met yet. That makes no sense to me. ![]() Example on why: Lets say I declared myself exclusive to somone online that I havent met yet, only talked to on the phone. And, when I got to the baseball game this afternoon, I just so happen to sit next to a wonderful woman and carry great conversation and we decide to pursue contact after the game. Am I going to say no? Just because I have an "online" g/f? ![]() ![]() I have to agree again. But I think that should be stated to the online person who might think you mean more. I learned the hard way about online dating relationships BEFORE meeting in person. Put my life on hold for an IMAGE. I don't care if it's email, IM's, phone, even webcam. There is no way in h*ll you can KNOW who you think you know until you meet and confirm. I wasted 12 mos of my life once doing that. STUPID me. Never ever again. So altho I may really like someone on line the REAL life works first. Period. |
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I have seen where there are so many different opinions of "dating" Dating to me is meeting several new people, some women that can be friends, casual encounters, getting together to just do whatever, so on. I could go rock climbing with one woman this weekend, and next weekend go boating with another woman.... Until I have declared that I am "exclusive" with someone, I see no harm in hanging out with others. It's a total "go with the flow" scenario with me..... TOTALLY agree. I like to keep my options open. Some people term that a "playah" Not in my book. Sorry to tell them. ha ![]() ![]() |
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![]() ![]() ![]() What deemed this thread is where I saw others willing to drop "dating" and be exclusive to one they havent even met yet. That makes no sense to me. ![]() Example on why: Lets say I declared myself exclusive to somone online that I havent met yet, only talked to on the phone. And, when I got to the baseball game this afternoon, I just so happen to sit next to a wonderful woman and carry great conversation and we decide to pursue contact after the game. Am I going to say no? Just because I have an "online" g/f? ![]() ![]() I truly dont see how some declare to "exclusively" be with someone online, for just this reason... people get hurt! Have feelings for and care about someone online is awesome!! but until you have met and spent time together, why put both people in the position of hurting each other if a "real live" person can be there today!!! I wont do it to myself |
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I don't know, but the next date I get, I'm holding onto her for dear life
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I have seen where there are so many different opinions of "dating" Dating to me is meeting several new people, some women that can be friends, casual encounters, getting together to just do whatever, so on. I could go rock climbing with one woman this weekend, and next weekend go boating with another woman.... Until I have declared that I am "exclusive" with someone, I see no harm in hanging out with others. It's a total "go with the flow" scenario with me..... This describes exactly where I am right now. |
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I have seen where there are so many different opinions of "dating" Dating to me is meeting several new people, some women that can be friends, casual encounters, getting together to just do whatever, so on. I could go rock climbing with one woman this weekend, and next weekend go boating with another woman.... Until I have declared that I am "exclusive" with someone, I see no harm in hanging out with others. It's a total "go with the flow" scenario with me..... TOTALLY agree. I like to keep my options open. Some people term that a "playah" Not in my book. Sorry to tell them. ha ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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