Topic: Children big change!!!!!!!!!
Queene123's photo
Sat 07/05/08 06:34 AM
my daughter is 25yrs old with 3kids and is eventually going to be getting a divorce she started the paper work last yr but she didnt complete it and has to redo it again.
well any how my daughter told me something last nite, which didnt suprise me, as she has a friend that she has known for yrs thats gay, and i did question that a few times to myself.. but any how my daughter told me that she met someone that she really liked and it was someone that she met through the other friend, and i stated do you think your gay. she didnt say anything... im not against it, i have family that are gay and a good friend that i have known for about 27yrs thats gay.. it dont bother me.. my daughter did mention to her son(my grandson) about it and he just looked at her like she was crazy.... i guess she at the point for her own change of life, as she always searching for something differnt in her life. and this would be a big change.. she even ask me what would grandma(my mom) think.. im not sure but i know she has accepted my cousins..but i did tell my daughter that she needed to talk to her about it.

we are only human, and we can have differnt feelings towards others.. im sure we all have in certain ways.... no matter what we have done in our lifes .. they are still our children. as well we are gods growth and children.. we were created for reasons not only for, love, but to learn about others and watch each grow and understand.....

both my kids are my growthflowerforyou :heart:

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Sat 07/05/08 06:40 AM
I fully agree, living your life to the fullest and being happy in doing so are the main points in life, and finding love is wonderful, no matter the gender. My best friend in the world is gay and I wouldn't trade her for anything, her sexuality has nothing to do with the person that she is...and to me...she is awesomebigsmile

RJR1's photo
Sat 07/05/08 06:45 AM
Some sound advice you gave her. Children are a growing process. I learn something new almost every day.laugh tears :heart:
Wouldn't trade it for the world.

Queene123's photo
Sat 07/05/08 06:51 AM

Some sound advice you gave her. Children are a growing process. I learn something new almost every day.laugh tears :heart:
Wouldn't trade it for the world.


i would rather for my daughter to be happy in a relationship, than being miserable in one.... dont you think

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sat 07/05/08 06:54 AM


Some sound advice you gave her. Children are a growing process. I learn something new almost every day.laugh tears :heart:
Wouldn't trade it for the world.


i would rather for my daughter to be happy in a relationship, than being miserable in one.... dont you think

my daughter is bisexual though now she is married with children.your a good mom Queene for giving your daughter love and support instead of judgement.kudos.

robert1652's photo
Sat 07/05/08 06:58 AM

Some sound advice you gave her. Children are a growing process. I learn something new almost every day.laugh tears :heart:
Wouldn't trade it for the world.
flowerforyou

somewhatshy2's photo
Sat 07/05/08 06:59 AM
We should all love our children unconditionally....you are doing just that....it would hurt me to think my son was gay, but I would love him none the less and support his every decision....you gave her good advice...flowerforyou flowerforyou

Queene123's photo
Sat 07/05/08 07:01 AM



Some sound advice you gave her. Children are a growing process. I learn something new almost every day.laugh tears :heart:
Wouldn't trade it for the world.


i would rather for my daughter to be happy in a relationship, than being miserable in one.... dont you think

my daughter is bisexual though now she is married with children.your a good mom Queene for giving your daughter love and support instead of judgement.kudos.


why would i want to judge my kids... we all make our mistakes or questions what we have in mind.... my daughter had her son when she was 14, she had her 2nd(my granddaughter) at 17 she graduated 1yr early and she married there dad 2yrs ago but they split up during there first annerversary.. the baby she is 2/2yrs old and real sweet heart... i didnt judge my friend that i have known for 27yrs when she told me she getting married to her lover, i just question her, on asking dont you think its to soon.

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Sat 07/05/08 07:18 AM
:smile: your'e a good mother ..your understanding and acceptance is a part of love:smile: flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Sat 07/05/08 07:18 AM
:smile: your'e a good mother ..your understanding and acceptance is a part of love:smile: flowerforyou flowerforyou

missy51970's photo
Sat 07/05/08 08:26 AM
Your a wonderful Mom for being "ok" with it.. Someone asked me once what I would do if one of my children told me they were gay..I told them who cares ...As long as your daughter is happy it shouldnt matter if she finds that happienss from a man or woman.. Good for you darling!!!

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Sat 07/05/08 06:56 PM
your a great mom!..flowerforyou

oldsage's photo
Sun 07/06/08 06:57 AM
I have family that are gay, I don't understand it.
I think "what a waste of some very pretty ladies",
but did get in an altercation with a guy that called her a nasty name. She is my family & I love her as she is.

H_ll some people say I am VERY different.
Might be right.
I go by the old "judge not, least you be judged."
Gay or straight, just keep it under control in public.

kat208's photo
Sun 07/06/08 09:03 AM
My baby brother is gay and my Daddy is a very religous man. My Dad spoke with the Pastor and the church and was silent for days, when my brother first made the annoucement. After several days of tension my Dad finally said, I am not throwing the baby out with the bath water. That's my son. Good or bad, that's my boy.
As a mother, I get that.

scttrbrain's photo
Sun 07/06/08 10:49 AM

I have family that are gay, I don't understand it.
I think "what a waste of some very pretty ladies",
but did get in an altercation with a guy that called her a nasty name. She is my family & I love her as she is.

H_ll some people say I am VERY different.
Might be right.
I go by the old "judge not, least you be judged."
Gay or straight, just keep it under control in public.


You think it is a waste of time because she is pretty??? Hello....helloooooo. What does looks have to do with it? Man or woman? Have you seen some of these gay guys? Woo hoo...
I know...I am not misunderstanding you. You are a lovely man. It just sounded so shallow.

I applaud you ma'am. That is what a parent should do. Love unconditionally.

Kat