Topic: How can a person know?
MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 07/02/08 10:28 PM
:smile: How can a person know he is being taken advantage of by female internet friends that says they want to share their life with you?:smile:

no photo
Wed 07/02/08 10:30 PM
when their not there sharing their life with you!!!!frown

ReddBeans's photo
Wed 07/02/08 10:30 PM
How can u know the same about a man????? It's called get a background check done silly. Full name, SS, and Bdate I can get any info I want. It pays to have been a deputy sheriff. :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

Rzrback's photo
Wed 07/02/08 10:30 PM
Good friggin luck.....

DrX's photo
Wed 07/02/08 10:30 PM
"Internet friends" Nuff said.

Jules0565's photo
Wed 07/02/08 10:31 PM
those are words..what are they exactly taking from you? nothing?

robert1652's photo
Wed 07/02/08 10:31 PM
when she turns and says she believes in the old fashioned way of things in the middle of the first date.
that a man will take care of her totally and by the way would I be thinking marriage?

domination's photo
Wed 07/02/08 10:33 PM
Soooo, what is the "taken advantage" part....? smokin

robert1652's photo
Wed 07/02/08 10:33 PM

How can u know the same about a man????? It's called get a background check done silly. Full name, SS, and Bdate I can get any info I want. It pays to have been a deputy sheriff. :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:


while I have nothing to hide when I find out that she has done that to me regardless of the state of the relationship kick her proverbial good bye

Moondark's photo
Wed 07/02/08 10:34 PM
I don't trust anyone who says that online and I've never met the person. Just a good rule to go by.

ReddBeans's photo
Wed 07/02/08 10:43 PM


How can u know the same about a man????? It's called get a background check done silly. Full name, SS, and Bdate I can get any info I want. It pays to have been a deputy sheriff. :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:


while I have nothing to hide when I find out that she has done that to me regardless of the state of the relationship kick her proverbial good bye


I in the not so long past dated someone who turned out to be a registered sex offender. He had done time for 2 counts of Rape Under The Age of 14. So u better believe I'm gonna look into someone's background before I let them around my kids again. If he has a problem with it then so be it. waving

robert1652's photo
Wed 07/02/08 11:46 PM



How can u know the same about a man????? It's called get a background check done silly. Full name, SS, and Bdate I can get any info I want. It pays to have been a deputy sheriff. :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:


while I have nothing to hide when I find out that she has done that to me regardless of the state of the relationship kick her proverbial good bye


I in the not so long past dated someone who turned out to be a registered sex offender. He had done time for 2 counts of Rape Under The Age of 14. So u better believe I'm gonna look into someone's background before I let them around my kids again. If he has a problem with it then so be it. waving


You do as you please the posting had nothing to do with you personally but if you do take it personally that is not my doing.I am not slightly interested in the particulars of the person involved. Whether criminal or not no woman gets near my kids until I have spent at least 2 or 3 years with them on a part time basis and even then she will have to earn my trust as well as me hers.

ReddBeans's photo
Thu 07/03/08 12:10 AM




How can u know the same about a man????? It's called get a background check done silly. Full name, SS, and Bdate I can get any info I want. It pays to have been a deputy sheriff. :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:


while I have nothing to hide when I find out that she has done that to me regardless of the state of the relationship kick her proverbial good bye


I in the not so long past dated someone who turned out to be a registered sex offender. He had done time for 2 counts of Rape Under The Age of 14. So u better believe I'm gonna look into someone's background before I let them around my kids again. If he has a problem with it then so be it. waving


You do as you please the posting had nothing to do with you personally but if you do take it personally that is not my doing.I am not slightly interested in the particulars of the person involved. Whether criminal or not no woman gets near my kids until I have spent at least 2 or 3 years with them on a part time basis and even then she will have to earn my trust as well as me hers.


Didn't take it personally. Just wanted to make the point that u can never be to careful, especially where children are involved. U can't always go by a person's word unfortunately. Friends? flowerforyou

boneyjoe's photo
Thu 07/03/08 12:22 AM
to a point i can understand why you would want to do a back ground check,,,,,,,,but when you ask about my bank account,,,,,you want need to check any futher,,,,,,,,theres this thing called trust an honer,,,,,,,i would feel violated by your request,,,,,,,,,,,an to me,,,,i don't feel like th relationship should continue,,,,,,but at my age,,,,,i'm not rasing no more kids,,,,,,,end of story,,no way enough is enough

ReddBeans's photo
Thu 07/03/08 12:29 AM

to a point i can understand why you would want to do a back ground check,,,,,,,,but when you ask about my bank account,,,,,you want need to check any futher,,,,,,,,theres this thing called trust an honer,,,,,,,i would feel violated by your request,,,,,,,,,,,an to me,,,,i don't feel like th relationship should continue,,,,,,but at my age,,,,,i'm not rasing no more kids,,,,,,,end of story,,no way enough is enough


I meant a criminal background check. I would never look into someone's financial records. It ain't none of my business. And I could honestly care less if he's richer than Rockefeller or some poor joe.
I apologize if I have offended anyone. It wasn't meant to be taken that way. I simply wanted to make a point that u can never be to careful especially when u have children. I had an unfortunate circumstance in the past which has made me very cautious.

no photo
Thu 07/03/08 01:22 AM
You know.......life is funny!!! You dont know!!! You can be taken by your best friend or neighbour too!!!

Do you think that life is completely 100% safe???? I think most have been "taken" in some form or another.........whether it be emotionally, physically, mentally or even financially!!!


The only thing we can do is go into things with an open mind but a smart head......be smart!!!! But dont be so overly overprotective of your "stuff" because stuff is just "stuff"noway

ReddBeans's photo
Thu 07/03/08 01:28 AM

You know.......life is funny!!! You dont know!!! You can be taken by your best friend or neighbour too!!!

Do you think that life is completely 100% safe???? I think most have been "taken" in some form or another.........whether it be emotionally, physically, mentally or even financially!!!


The only thing we can do is go into things with an open mind but a smart head......be smart!!!! But dont be so overly overprotective of your "stuff" because stuff is just "stuff"noway



That's all I was tryin to say. Be smart. Thank u for that. And ur right stuff is just stuff. U can lose it all and gain it all back over time. I've done it twice myself.

no photo
Thu 07/03/08 01:38 AM


You know.......life is funny!!! You dont know!!! You can be taken by your best friend or neighbour too!!!

Do you think that life is completely 100% safe???? I think most have been "taken" in some form or another.........whether it be emotionally, physically, mentally or even financially!!!


The only thing we can do is go into things with an open mind but a smart head......be smart!!!! But dont be so overly overprotective of your "stuff" because stuff is just "stuff"noway



That's all I was tryin to say. Be smart. Thank u for that. And ur right stuff is just stuff. U can lose it all and gain it all back over time. I've done it twice myself.
Me too!!! and all that stuff is meaningless!!! does it give us more happiness owning all that crystal??noway Stuff doesnt make us happy........we make our selves happy. I used to have a whole houseful of stuff and pretty things.....do these things make us more???huh noway Im the same person with or without all this "stuff" and Im glad that I can say that I can live without.

lov2fish's photo
Thu 07/03/08 05:20 AM

You know.......life is funny!!! You dont know!!! You can be taken by your best friend or neighbour too!!!

Do you think that life is completely 100% safe???? I think most have been "taken" in some form or another.........whether it be emotionally, physically, mentally or even financially!!!


The only thing we can do is go into things with an open mind but a smart head......be smart!!!! But dont be so overly overprotective of your "stuff" because stuff is just "stuff"noway


you have that right (about the best friend)!!
27 yr friendship. Tried to sleep with my ex g/f, used me for money! grrrrrrrrrrr... dont even get me started on that one.rant mad mad