Topic: Are you a good conversationalist? | |
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I am an excellent conversationalist. The key is to ask questions and let the other person go. Everyone has a story and everyone (general speaking) likes to talk about themselves. Ask opened ended questions. You will learn things about the other person, and they will walk away saying, "man it was GREAT to talk to her!"
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Tried that, it was a no-go.
Tell me about your family? All dead. What's your favorite type of food and where do you go? Doesn't matter. |
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Omg, talking has never been one of my problems well that is not true. I was a very quiet person growing up hit 18 and the flood gates open for the gift of gab. I'm totally a talker and anyone I have talked to on the phone would surely know that I'm. Sorry but if they can not carry a conversation on with me. Then I get bored with them fast. I don't mind talking about anything. Posts: 26735 Heheheh you do the math on the length of time we both have been here and tell me we are not running pretty close on posting lmao |
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Omg, talking has never been one of my problems well that is not true. I was a very quiet person growing up hit 18 and the flood gates open for the gift of gab. I'm totally a talker and anyone I have talked to on the phone would surely know that I'm. Sorry but if they can not carry a conversation on with me. Then I get bored with them fast. I don't mind talking about anything. Posts: 26735 Heheheh you do the math on the length of time we both have been here and tell me we are not running pretty close on posting lmao It should be a pre-requisite to talking to someone! |
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Ya know there is nothing worse then either in person on the phone IM ect... and your the only one carrying a conversation. While you get a humm, yeah, I know, for sure, wow, I see ect from the other end.
You end up not knowing anymore about them then you did in the beginning. Myself I find myself getting very bored does not matter if it is in a relationship or just a friendship. If they can not capture my mind and hold my attention as well as I do theirs then what is there? |
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To be honest,I was a only child[only had a dog to talk to] even in school,I was alone,raised 5 kids and was still lonely. Today I think that I bore people because I don't know what to talk about,But mostly it is hard to talk to people when you can't hear everything that they are saying due to a 50% hearing loss.I do love my computer because it helps me to get to know you by your posts and profiles. Thanks You All
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