I originally posted this on the Topic "Story of a Nice Guy" in the
Religion Forum, but I think it goes better here.


I think that a lot of ladies who say they are looking for a "nice guy"
or "prince charming" are looking for a bad ass who is supposedly wild,
crazy and exciting that they think they can change into a "nice guy" or
"prince charming". It never works and they end up getting treated like
dirt, they get hurt mentally and or physically and the relationship
ends. Then they go right back out and look for the same type of person
all over again. Remember "it is foolish to do more of the same thing
and expect different results."

Guys aren't supposed to be nice as the way girls view being nice, we are
wild naturally, that's what we are, i mean how can you rescue your
beautiful princess if you are soft ?...

you gotta have some wildness in you and dangerous, but not to the
beautiful princess, she is what you are protecting whom is worthy
fighting for, if u abuse her then u are wildness is useless.

So say yes to dangerous guys, who knows how to protect their princess ;)

You need to be a nice guy to the ladies and nice to all around, but you
got to be able to drop a laud-mouth to the ground.

I've always been a nice guy, and will die being a nice guy!!

I cannot speak for all the women. I always hear that nice guys finish
last, but I would pick NICE guy!!
Not into being mistreated or anything.
I love being treated with respect, having the door opened
for me, someone honest etc.

who wouldn't want to be treated nice? I myself prefer men who are gentle
yet strong (physically and emotionally). But, how men are like that
nowadays?

There's a difference between "nice" and "doormat." At least that's what
the fortune cookie said.