Topic: In need of attention
pinkbutterflykisses's photo
Mon 06/30/08 06:30 PM


Some don't need a picture, Debbie. They paint one with their words. And it aint always pretty.flowerforyou


Are your feet firmly grounded in reality??? So...let's see...to be pretty I have to care anout everybody else's problems...and take care of the entire human race??? Give me a break...what did you do to help someone out today....Miss JUDGEMENTAL??? DId you pray for the families of soldiers that won't ever come home? Did you feed a homeless person? Did you champion a cause? Or did you sit at your computer and lecture me on how I should behave??


All of the above.

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Mon 06/30/08 06:31 PM


Some don't need a picture, Debbie. They paint one with their words. And it aint always pretty.flowerforyou


Are your feet firmly grounded in reality??? So...let's see...to be pretty I have to care anout everybody else's problems...and take care of the entire human race??? Give me a break...what did you do to help someone out today....Miss JUDGEMENTAL??? DId you pray for the families of soldiers that won't ever come home? Did you feed a homeless person? Did you champion a cause? Or did you sit at your computer and lecture me on how I should behave??


who the hell do you think you are, talking to someone, my friend infact like that?? most people do care for people, some dont which is clearly obvious.

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Mon 06/30/08 06:32 PM




AMEN to that! A lot of people here are attention whores, haven't you noticed? "Tell me I am beautiful! Boo woo woooo" "OMG! My heart hearts and I need attention because I think this will work for me (What kind of man is that?!)"

I get sick of that $#!T too! Someone needs to do things for their self esteem.


Weak? Challenge a 5 year old to a game of basketball
Feel ugly? Take a homeless person of the opposite sex out on a date
Want sex? Then pay for it
Want compliments? Then do something constructive with enthusiasts who take interest in the same thing



The answer are out there folks...



AMEN...AMEN


i could be wrong, but he said nothing about prayer threads for sick people and for people who have lost loved ones etc?? which is what you were referring to, he wasnt, as im aware


I didn't say he was...I just agree with him...that's okay...isn't it???


stop being so defensive, and please do not swear at me again.

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Mon 06/30/08 06:33 PM
Edited by debbie1980 on Mon 06/30/08 06:33 PM



Some don't need a picture, Debbie. They paint one with their words. And it aint always pretty.flowerforyou


Are your feet firmly grounded in reality??? So...let's see...to be pretty I have to care anout everybody else's problems...and take care of the entire human race??? Give me a break...what did you do to help someone out today....Miss JUDGEMENTAL??? DId you pray for the families of soldiers that won't ever come home? Did you feed a homeless person? Did you champion a cause? Or did you sit at your computer and lecture me on how I should behave??


All of the above.


yes that proves your point bang on, flowerforyou flowerforyou

Peachiepoohie's photo
Mon 06/30/08 06:34 PM



Some don't need a picture, Debbie. They paint one with their words. And it aint always pretty.flowerforyou


Are your feet firmly grounded in reality??? So...let's see...to be pretty I have to care anout everybody else's problems...and take care of the entire human race??? Give me a break...what did you do to help someone out today....Miss JUDGEMENTAL??? DId you pray for the families of soldiers that won't ever come home? Did you feed a homeless person? Did you champion a cause? Or did you sit at your computer and lecture me on how I should behave??


who the hell do you think you are, talking to someone, my friend infact like that?? most people do care for people, some dont which is clearly obvious.


No...see that's where you are wrong. I do care...just not for everyone. Sorry if that hurts your precious little feelings...grow thicker skin. See I do go feed the homeless..in fact, I go out every Wednesday and Friday nights and give out food, blankets and clothing to homeless teens here. I also work with victims of domestic violence.

However, I'm a realist. People who refuse to take an active role in their own life are powerless to any help I may be willing to give. Read the bible...God hleps those who help themselves.

Peachiepoohie's photo
Mon 06/30/08 06:35 PM
Edited by Peachiepoohie on Mon 06/30/08 06:36 PM





AMEN to that! A lot of people here are attention whores, haven't you noticed? "Tell me I am beautiful! Boo woo woooo" "OMG! My heart hearts and I need attention because I think this will work for me (What kind of man is that?!)"

I get sick of that $#!T too! Someone needs to do things for their self esteem.


Weak? Challenge a 5 year old to a game of basketball
Feel ugly? Take a homeless person of the opposite sex out on a date
Want sex? Then pay for it
Want compliments? Then do something constructive with enthusiasts who take interest in the same thing



The answer are out there folks...



AMEN...AMEN


i could be wrong, but he said nothing about prayer threads for sick people and for people who have lost loved ones etc?? which is what you were referring to, he wasnt, as im aware


I didn't say he was...I just agree with him...that's okay...isn't it???


stop being so defensive, and please do not swear at me again.


Um, where did I swear??? That was Random Stranger's post...*rme*

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Mon 06/30/08 06:37 PM






AMEN to that! A lot of people here are attention whores, haven't you noticed? "Tell me I am beautiful! Boo woo woooo" "OMG! My heart hearts and I need attention because I think this will work for me (What kind of man is that?!)"

I get sick of that $#!T too! Someone needs to do things for their self esteem.

this is where you swore at me

Seroiusly, I have no effin clue what you're talking about...




Weak? Challenge a 5 year old to a game of basketball
Feel ugly? Take a homeless person of the opposite sex out on a date
Want sex? Then pay for it
Want compliments? Then do something constructive with enthusiasts who take interest in the same thing



The answer are out there folks...



AMEN...AMEN


i could be wrong, but he said nothing about prayer threads for sick people and for people who have lost loved ones etc?? which is what you were referring to, he wasnt, as im aware


I didn't say he was...I just agree with him...that's okay...isn't it???


stop being so defensive, and please do not swear at me again.


Um, where did I swear??? That was Random Stranger's post...*rme*

Peachiepoohie's photo
Mon 06/30/08 06:37 PM

Some don't need a picture, Debbie. They paint one with their words. And it aint always pretty.flowerforyou



and you're a grand example...

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Mon 06/30/08 06:39 PM


AMEN to that! A lot of people here are attention whores, haven't you noticed? "Tell me I am beautiful! Boo woo woooo" "OMG! My heart hearts and I need attention because I think this will work for me (What kind of man is that?!)"

I get sick of that $#!T too! Someone needs to do things for their self esteem.


Weak? Challenge a 5 year old to a game of basketball
Feel ugly? Take a homeless person of the opposite sex out on a date
Want sex? Then pay for it
Want compliments? Then do something constructive with enthusiasts who take interest in the same thing



The answer are out there folks...


that i agree with. but as i have stated and as many others have, asking for thoughts and prayers when someones sick, or someones died isnt attention seeking, its for support. people have done it for me, ive done it for other people when there sick like me. and i like helping others when there poorly our are grieving.



Well yeah, asking for prayers is different, and grieving over a loss. Because we are a community, that is what these forums are for. For support, advice, etc...

When you do this (post in need of real advice or sharing a real pain), those who really care for you are there to support you.

All the other stuff is just...... Ugh! Then again, I cannot govern what people post on here either. I can either sympathize with them, or give them a hard time for wasting the time of others and playing con with their self pity.


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Mon 06/30/08 06:39 PM




Some don't need a picture, Debbie. They paint one with their words. And it aint always pretty.flowerforyou


Are your feet firmly grounded in reality??? So...let's see...to be pretty I have to care anout everybody else's problems...and take care of the entire human race??? Give me a break...what did you do to help someone out today....Miss JUDGEMENTAL??? DId you pray for the families of soldiers that won't ever come home? Did you feed a homeless person? Did you champion a cause? Or did you sit at your computer and lecture me on how I should behave??


who the hell do you think you are, talking to someone, my friend infact like that?? most people do care for people, some dont which is clearly obvious.


No...see that's where you are wrong. I do care...just not for everyone. Sorry if that hurts your precious little feelings...grow thicker skin. See I do go feed the homeless..in fact, I go out every Wednesday and Friday nights and give out food, blankets and clothing to homeless teens here. I also work with victims of domestic violence.

However, I'm a realist. People who refuse to take an active role in their own life are powerless to any help I may be willing to give. Read the bible...God hleps those who help themselves.


why are you saying that to me, if me not taking the steroids had nothing to do with it like you said?? you got it wrong anyway as i said i will discuss alternative meds.

Peachiepoohie's photo
Mon 06/30/08 06:39 PM





AMEN to that! A lot of people here are attention whores, haven't you noticed? "Tell me I am beautiful! Boo woo woooo" "OMG! My heart hearts and I need attention because I think this will work for me (What kind of man is that?!)"

I get sick of that $#!T too! Someone needs to do things for their self esteem.


Weak? Challenge a 5 year old to a game of basketball
Feel ugly? Take a homeless person of the opposite sex out on a date
Want sex? Then pay for it
Want compliments? Then do something constructive with enthusiasts who take interest in the same thing



The answer are out there folks...



AMEN...AMEN


i could be wrong, but he said nothing about prayer threads for sick people and for people who have lost loved ones etc?? which is what you were referring to, he wasnt, as im aware


I didn't say he was...I just agree with him...that's okay...isn't it???


stop being so defensive, and please do not swear at me again.


and why can't I be defensive...maybe someone should pray for me that I won't be so defensive in the future...

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Mon 06/30/08 06:41 PM



AMEN to that! A lot of people here are attention whores, haven't you noticed? "Tell me I am beautiful! Boo woo woooo" "OMG! My heart hearts and I need attention because I think this will work for me (What kind of man is that?!)"

I get sick of that $#!T too! Someone needs to do things for their self esteem.


Weak? Challenge a 5 year old to a game of basketball
Feel ugly? Take a homeless person of the opposite sex out on a date
Want sex? Then pay for it
Want compliments? Then do something constructive with enthusiasts who take interest in the same thing



The answer are out there folks...


that i agree with. but as i have stated and as many others have, asking for thoughts and prayers when someones sick, or someones died isnt attention seeking, its for support. people have done it for me, ive done it for other people when there sick like me. and i like helping others when there poorly our are grieving.



Well yeah, asking for prayers is different, and grieving over a loss. Because we are a community, that is what these forums are for. For support, advice, etc...

When you do this (post in need of real advice or sharing a real pain), those who really care for you are there to support you.

All the other stuff is just...... Ugh! Then again, I cannot govern what people post on here either. I can either sympathize with them, or give them a hard time for wasting the time of others and playing con with their self pity.




thankyou random, thats what i and others have been sayingflowerforyou flowerforyou

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Mon 06/30/08 06:41 PM
Also, if people need to ask if they are good looking or anything else regarding such insecurities.... Then perhaps a DATING site isn't for you at the moment. Perhaps, people should fix that first before they put themselves out on the market. Just to add to my other comment. Targeting no one, I just speak in general.

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Mon 06/30/08 06:42 PM






AMEN to that! A lot of people here are attention whores, haven't you noticed? "Tell me I am beautiful! Boo woo woooo" "OMG! My heart hearts and I need attention because I think this will work for me (What kind of man is that?!)"

I get sick of that $#!T too! Someone needs to do things for their self esteem.


Weak? Challenge a 5 year old to a game of basketball
Feel ugly? Take a homeless person of the opposite sex out on a date
Want sex? Then pay for it
Want compliments? Then do something constructive with enthusiasts who take interest in the same thing



The answer are out there folks...



AMEN...AMEN


i could be wrong, but he said nothing about prayer threads for sick people and for people who have lost loved ones etc?? which is what you were referring to, he wasnt, as im aware


I didn't say he was...I just agree with him...that's okay...isn't it???


stop being so defensive, and please do not swear at me again.


and why can't I be defensive...maybe someone should pray for me that I won't be so defensive in the future...


the sware word you said must have got took off because i posted it.

and i will pray for you to be less defensive.

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Mon 06/30/08 06:42 PM

Also, if people need to ask if they are good looking or anything else regarding such insecurities.... Then perhaps a DATING site isn't for you at the moment. Perhaps, people should fix that first before they put themselves out on the market. Just to add to my other comment. Targeting no one, I just speak in general.


i agree

Peachiepoohie's photo
Mon 06/30/08 06:45 PM





Some don't need a picture, Debbie. They paint one with their words. And it aint always pretty.flowerforyou


Are your feet firmly grounded in reality??? So...let's see...to be pretty I have to care anout everybody else's problems...and take care of the entire human race??? Give me a break...what did you do to help someone out today....Miss JUDGEMENTAL??? DId you pray for the families of soldiers that won't ever come home? Did you feed a homeless person? Did you champion a cause? Or did you sit at your computer and lecture me on how I should behave??


who the hell do you think you are, talking to someone, my friend infact like that?? most people do care for people, some dont which is clearly obvious.


No...see that's where you are wrong. I do care...just not for everyone. Sorry if that hurts your precious little feelings...grow thicker skin. See I do go feed the homeless..in fact, I go out every Wednesday and Friday nights and give out food, blankets and clothing to homeless teens here. I also work with victims of domestic violence.

However, I'm a realist. People who refuse to take an active role in their own life are powerless to any help I may be willing to give. Read the bible...God hleps those who help themselves.


why are you saying that to me, if me not taking the steroids had nothing to do with it like you said?? you got it wrong anyway as i said i will discuss alternative meds.


First off, I could care what you do or don't do...it's not up to me and whatever "alternative meds" you keep referring to don't matter to me. Do whatever you want to do about whatever is going on with you. I'm talking about me original post and about your little comment, "most people do care for people, some dont which is clearly obvious."

Just stating my point of view...

msmyka's photo
Mon 06/30/08 06:45 PM
No one is paying attention to me tears tears tears tears tears

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Mon 06/30/08 06:46 PM
Cant we all just get along??happy flowerforyou flowerforyou

Peachiepoohie's photo
Mon 06/30/08 06:47 PM







AMEN to that! A lot of people here are attention whores, haven't you noticed? "Tell me I am beautiful! Boo woo woooo" "OMG! My heart hearts and I need attention because I think this will work for me (What kind of man is that?!)"

I get sick of that $#!T too! Someone needs to do things for their self esteem.


Weak? Challenge a 5 year old to a game of basketball
Feel ugly? Take a homeless person of the opposite sex out on a date
Want sex? Then pay for it
Want compliments? Then do something constructive with enthusiasts who take interest in the same thing



The answer are out there folks...



AMEN...AMEN


i could be wrong, but he said nothing about prayer threads for sick people and for people who have lost loved ones etc?? which is what you were referring to, he wasnt, as im aware


I didn't say he was...I just agree with him...that's okay...isn't it???


stop being so defensive, and please do not swear at me again.


and why can't I be defensive...maybe someone should pray for me that I won't be so defensive in the future...


the sware word you said must have got took off because i posted it.

and i will pray for you to be less defensive.


well goody...

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Mon 06/30/08 06:47 PM






Some don't need a picture, Debbie. They paint one with their words. And it aint always pretty.flowerforyou


Are your feet firmly grounded in reality??? So...let's see...to be pretty I have to care anout everybody else's problems...and take care of the entire human race??? Give me a break...what did you do to help someone out today....Miss JUDGEMENTAL??? DId you pray for the families of soldiers that won't ever come home? Did you feed a homeless person? Did you champion a cause? Or did you sit at your computer and lecture me on how I should behave??


who the hell do you think you are, talking to someone, my friend infact like that?? most people do care for people, some dont which is clearly obvious.


No...see that's where you are wrong. I do care...just not for everyone. Sorry if that hurts your precious little feelings...grow thicker skin. See I do go feed the homeless..in fact, I go out every Wednesday and Friday nights and give out food, blankets and clothing to homeless teens here. I also work with victims of domestic violence.

However, I'm a realist. People who refuse to take an active role in their own life are powerless to any help I may be willing to give. Read the bible...God hleps those who help themselves.


why are you saying that to me, if me not taking the steroids had nothing to do with it like you said?? you got it wrong anyway as i said i will discuss alternative meds.


First off, I could care what you do or don't do...it's not up to me and whatever "alternative meds" you keep referring to don't matter to me. Do whatever you want to do about whatever is going on with you. I'm talking about me original post and about your little comment, "most people do care for people, some dont which is clearly obvious."

Just stating my point of view...



fine, calm down.