Topic: age restriction
izzie's photo
Mon 06/30/08 04:02 AM



oh my i saw the profile..

cute revealing girl whose talking about stuff she shouldnt be talking about on a online dating site.
omg....

thats jsut wrong.
but the arguement made by said girl was that she clearly states her age in her profile.. so she didnt do anything wrong....
huh



wellll....of course she didnt think so...
probably thinks it is completly harmless too..

but good catch...flowers flowers

hopefully they will deactivate her



i wasnt trying to catch her tho.. i jsut did what a guy in the same thread as i was in didnt do.. i checked the profile before i replied to a catty comment made..
*shrugs* she will be deactivated by tomorow.. the admin are very strict.. ohwell

s1owhand's photo
Mon 06/30/08 04:11 AM
about me only here...

i *was* mature enough to have wine with my meal at 18.
i lived in europe and had been having wine with my meals at 16.

never had a drinking problem. only been drunk say 4 or 5 times in my entire life. so, laws vary from place to place. you know - and from time to time. and a few months and splitting hairs. and getting knowledge. everyone is different. i usually try to err on cutting slack. but it is not for everyone.

-=-=-=-=-

now about the flirting scenario...

if i were concerned about them then i'd just warn him or her.
but i would probably notice their age long before a lot of flirting, im'ing, and emailing took place. of course they could be ummm not actually telling the truth about their age - so you have to factor that in as well...


izzie's photo
Mon 06/30/08 04:14 AM
which is true.. however how many people email you because they didnt carefuly enough read your profile and didnt know that you are married??
huh

s1owhand's photo
Mon 06/30/08 04:19 AM
you know what? it has never happened on here in over a year.
everyone who has emailed me has noted that i am married.

once or twice their email has been "opprobrious"

laugh

but really - izzie. for me, it has not happened even one time.

izzie's photo
Mon 06/30/08 04:24 AM
this is where i call you a liar silly boy..
cuz when i replied to your first email.. i didnt know that you were married for probibly the first 5 reply emails to you...

especialy cuz your profile said "no answer" i dont know if it still does... but it used to..

it was only after we had chatted for about a month that i realized that you were married...
granted we were only chatting as friends..
but it happens..

and it happed to jessie too..
lol
honestly its the only way i remember that it said "no answer" cuz jessie and i got into a huge discussion about it about a year ago. lol

just sayin

s1owhand's photo
Mon 06/30/08 04:33 AM
Edited by s1owhand on Mon 06/30/08 04:37 AM
well i didn't know that you didn't know! laugh
it *is* in my headline. i have been listing it as married in the checkbox...now i have to go back and check....but i have had it no answer

it is redundant. laugh

i did get once that i remember..."i forgot you were married"
but it wasn't jess.

anyway - i'll take your word for it. so it has happened twice that i know of...

laugh

izzie's photo
Mon 06/30/08 04:37 AM
well before she deactivated petete kitten (jess) and i had a conversation about it.. a whole thread in fact.. with daniel putting in his 2 cents.. so he didnt know ether now that i think about it. hahaha.. could prolly find it if i really cared that much. lol... sorry sweets i just dont care that much.. the problem was that back then the headlines didnt show up when someone emailed you. just their name age and location.. lol
wow.. ive been here a long time!!!
hehehe


and i remember odd things.. ohwell ohwell laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Mon 06/30/08 04:42 AM
Women often have a steal trap for memories. I have learned the hard way. Ex always won in brining up the past.

s1owhand's photo
Mon 06/30/08 04:42 AM
THERE WAS A THREAD AND I MISSED IT?! laugh

actually i find i remember funny little things about some of the earlier stuff too. for example, when i used to have the succubus pic, one friend here thought for a while that i was actually female...

laugh

izzie's photo
Mon 06/30/08 04:43 AM

Women often have a steal trap for memories. I have learned the hard way. Ex always won in brining up the past.
*giggles as she remembers all the times she has and will do that*

bigsmile

izzie's photo
Mon 06/30/08 04:45 AM

THERE WAS A THREAD AND I MISSED IT?! laugh

actually i find i remember funny little things about some of the earlier stuff too. for example, when i used to have the succubus pic, one friend here thought for a while that i was actually female...

laugh
omg!!!!
i remmemebr that!!!

you had bry confuzed for a LONG time.. you inspired his chick with the cut up jeans pix.. lol..

*thinks silently to self just how much she needs a lifelaugh *

no photo
Mon 06/30/08 04:45 AM
Edited by Random_Stranger on Mon 06/30/08 04:46 AM
The young girl I reported has been deactivated now. "RIP" Amber Dee. For proof, look at the rate profile category and see she replied to something I said and click her profile..... Deactivated.


Rate Me "What do the ladies think about me?"

adj4u's photo
Mon 06/30/08 04:46 AM
beware that beautiful person may be a blue lookin fer you

i know a couple cyber cobs personally

they just love getting child predators

granted this may not directly relate

but it does indirectly for sure

and remember they will say it does not matter what you think

what matters is what you do

best to get age stated in your communications as often as possible b4 meeting them

and meeting in public well lit area is best the first time

then you will be able to make a better assessment of the situation (i have actually had people refuse to meet in public first -- can anyone say red flags)

just a thought

but hey

what do i know

izzie's photo
Mon 06/30/08 04:47 AM
Edited by izzie on Mon 06/30/08 04:50 AM
i saw that...
went to reply to the nasty gram she sent me.. and the sniff sniff thread... and she was gone..
ohwell
dont feel bad.. you didnt have to report her.. there were already 4 other reports before i even started the thread..


sorry.. that wasnt my intention...
jsut trying to get her to see.....
ohwell
shrugs*

izzie's photo
Mon 06/30/08 04:48 AM
((aj))

definetely relates...
flowerforyou

beware that beautiful person may be a blue lookin fer you

i know a couple cyber cobs personally

they just love getting child predators

granted this may not directly relate

but it does indirectly for sure

and remember they will say it does not matter what you think

what matters is what you do

best to get age stated in your communications as often as possible b4 meeting them

and meeting in public well lit area is best the first time

then you will be able to make a better assessment of the situation (i have actually had people refuse to meet in public first -- can anyone say red flags)

just a thought

but hey

what do i know

no photo
Mon 06/30/08 04:48 AM

i saw that...
went to reply to the nasty gram she sent me.. and she was gone..
ohwell



She sent you a nasty message? She didn't say anything mean to me. She messaged me, I looked at her profile and this topic came up and I did what was right.

izzie's photo
Mon 06/30/08 04:51 AM

i saw that...
went to reply to the nasty gram she sent me.. and the sniff sniff thread... and she was gone..
ohwell
dont feel bad.. you didnt have to report her.. there were already 4 other reports before i even started the thread..


sorry.. that wasnt my intention...
jsut trying to get her to see.....
ohwell
shrugs*
sorry i was editing while you were typing.

DirkGently's photo
Mon 06/30/08 04:52 AM
i found whom you speak of. she should be deactivated immediately, just on the legal basis. if something happened to her because she was on this site someone could try to make justsaymingle liable.

no photo
Mon 06/30/08 04:52 AM
Okay I see, it was in a thread. I just came upon that one. Now I get it.

adj4u's photo
Mon 06/30/08 04:52 AM

((aj))

definetely relates...
flowerforyou

beware that beautiful person may be a blue lookin fer you

i know a couple cyber cobs personally

they just love getting child predators

granted this may not directly relate

but it does indirectly for sure

and remember they will say it does not matter what you think

what matters is what you do

best to get age stated in your communications as often as possible b4 meeting them

and meeting in public well lit area is best the first time

then you will be able to make a better assessment of the situation (i have actually had people refuse to meet in public first -- can anyone say red flags)

just a thought

but hey

what do i know



thanks izzie

and by the way i still have not meet any of them red flags work for me