My mom don't like the person I was seeing because his skin color and she broke us by calling the police on him now she wants me to get a place with her and I don't want to.I tried telling her this but she just don't get it.She doesn't know that i am having contact with him.if my mom and i lived together and found out she would go nuts.how can i tell her no i don't want to move so she understands.i am heart broken she broke us up and i met him on here help please i have already told her no but she don't get it.all i want is the relationship back with the man i love so much she took from me.

just say NO !

you are a grown woman..do what u want to do.

Ummm. lemme' noodle on this one....hmmmmm....<insert head scratching here> Uhhhh, Hey, I've got it...tell her NO

uhhhhhh your 26, time to move out of the house!!!

explain to her he has lovely coconuts

this is rocket science!!!

Well, I can understand that your mother comes from a an age unlike ours. All I can say is just be straight up and honest with her. Tell her that you do not want to go because you are an adult and want to take a crack at love. Is she going to disown you? No, and if things do work out and she sees how adorable her grand babies are, she will be ready to play nice. Unless you have nowhere else to go if she leaves, then you might not have an option and keep in touch with him until things work out to where you can be with him. I dunno, I never had this problem before. Because I am a racially mixed mutt.

What would you like to tell her?

You are grown, you can make your own decisions...

Bloody hell fire you are 26 get a life.

ummmmmmmm....how long have you known the dude?
are you living with him?
is he a good influence on you?

are there other reasons besides color that your mother does not like him???

3 years we were together

You're 26 years old. That's not a child. You need to stand up for what you believe in. And who you love is your business hon.

I also wouldn't live with anyone so controlling. If she can not respect your 'adulthood' clarify that's why you won't live with her.

Is your mom relying on you for financial support and can't make it on her own, and that is why she is trying to live with you.

You just need to be strong with her, is harder if you are supporting her financially or helping her financially and she can't afford to survive on her own.

Good luck with your decision.

You are a grown woman, tell her no and if she still doesn't get it, tell her NO againa and again until she does

If she could get the police to seperate the two of you, that means you're probably a minor or otherwise not legally capable of being an adult. Maybe she's doing you a favor?

why are you still letting your mother run your life??

I'm not understanding how the police came into the picture... As far as I know, you can't call the cops on someone because they are black. What did he do to warrant the law stepping in? Sounds like there is another issue here.