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Control...environment of fear used to control someone else. Grew up with it...won't tolerate it. Any man to try it on me as an adult had better make the 1st one count...there will not be a 2nd. Sorry, shouldn't have posted - too close to the bone... Don't worry, LouLou......mine did and and I did hit back and then................well check out the other thread on hitting your man... Wiped the floor with him, seahawks......five brothers and an Irish temper, he wasn't gonna win. And Faust.....he would hit for no reason, like if I was doing dishes and he wanted me to sit and watch tv with him, or if I was doing bills and he wanted me in bed.... Whoa, I am not saying it is okay. I do not like hearing about men Beating on women. But if a man caught his wife blowing his best friend, gets mad and is forced to leave his own house because they are in there, and the woman is talking crap to him and he gets mad and punches something and she says something like "What? You think that scared me? You are a little punk %$#@ and you ain't $#!T! You wanna hit me? Hit me then! C'mon!" Then I believe that is messing with someone who may not be emotionally stable at that moment, so when he lands one punch to the face, and she is in shock that he did that..... I am just saying... I can understand that (Again, not saying it is ok) and that could have been seen coming like a mile away. On the other hand. I am glad that bastard got his ass beat. You don't strike me as a bad lady who would try to start something. Shame on him. |
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I later found out he was having the affairs.......but I only hit back in self-defense. ANYBODY goes to hit me, they will get it back.
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Edited by
Random_Stranger
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Sun 06/29/08 07:01 PM
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I later found out he was having the affairs.......but I only hit back in self-defense. ANYBODY goes to hit me, they will get it back. Agreed, and again, I am sorry that you had to endure that. Thanks Seahawks, sometimes women don't get it either. |
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ugh...cant stand men who hit women..
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Men that hit woman are mentally weak, and lack the will to find better solutions.
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Why do some men hit women ? Because they have overtly small penises. It is a control issue But i like your version better |
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I later found out he was having the affairs.......but I only hit back in self-defense. ANYBODY goes to hit me, they will get it back. Agreed, and again, I am sorry that you had to endure that. Thanks Seahawks, sometimes women don't get it either. Thanks, but what doesn't kill us only makes us stronger, so I have grown and learned from that.....and I do see where you are coming from with your opinion..........nice to see you posting again, by the way. |
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Control...environment of fear used to control someone else. Grew up with it...won't tolerate it. Any man to try it on me as an adult had better make the 1st one count...there will not be a 2nd. Sorry, shouldn't have posted - too close to the bone... Don't worry, LouLou......mine did and and I did hit back and then................well check out the other thread on hitting your man... Wiped the floor with him, seahawks......five brothers and an Irish temper, he wasn't gonna win. And Faust.....he would hit for no reason, like if I was doing dishes and he wanted me to sit and watch tv with him, or if I was doing bills and he wanted me in bed.... Whoa, I am not saying it is okay. I do not like hearing about men Beating on women. But if a man caught his wife blowing his best friend, gets mad and is forced to leave his own house because they are in there, and the woman is talking crap to him and he gets mad and punches something and she says something like "What? You think that scared me? You are a little punk %$#@ and you ain't $#!T! You wanna hit me? Hit me then! C'mon!" Then I believe that is messing with someone who may not be emotionally stable at that moment, so when he lands one punch to the face, and she is in shock that he did that..... I am just saying... I can understand that (Again, not saying it is ok) and that could have been seen coming like a mile away. On the other hand. I am glad that bastard got his ass beat. You don't strike me as a bad lady who would try to start something. Shame on him. Wow...is it just me, or does this sound like justification??? Look, under NO circumstances is it in any way, shape or form justifiable for domestic violence to happen...man to woman or woman to man. I've been there...and what could I have possibly said or done to justify bruised kidneys, both eyes blacked and a concussion? What taunt in the entire effin' world could justify one person doing that to antoher than they CLAIM to LOVE??? Explain that to me...cause I just don't get it. I grew up a FAT little girl...and I've been taunted and teased for a GREAT part of my life...and NEVER...and I mean NEVER did it cross my mind to beat someone into a bloody pulp because of WORDS. Geez, even children learn "stick and stones may break my bones...but words can never hurt me." Fisyts can though... |
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Edited by
LouLou2
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Sun 06/29/08 07:09 PM
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Whoa, I am not saying it is okay. I do not like hearing about men Beating on women. But if a man caught his wife blowing his best friend, gets mad and is forced to leave his own house because they are in there, and the woman is talking crap to him and he gets mad and punches something and she says something like "What? You think that scared me? You are a little punk %$#@ and you ain't $#!T! You wanna hit me? Hit me then! C'mon!" Then I believe that is messing with someone who may not be emotionally stable at that moment, so when he lands one punch to the face, and she is in shock that he did that..... I am just saying... I can understand that (Again, not saying it is ok) and that could have been seen coming like a mile away. On the other hand. I am glad that bastard got his ass beat. You don't strike me as a bad lady who would try to start something. Shame on him. i hear what yur sayin bro.!! Wow...is it just me, or does this sound like justification??? Look, under NO circumstances is it in any way, shape or form justifiable for domestic violence to happen...man to woman or woman to man. I've been there...and what could I have possibly said or done to justify bruised kidneys, both eyes blacked and a concussion? What taunt in the entire effin' world could justify one person doing that to antoher than they CLAIM to LOVE??? Explain that to me...cause I just don't get it. I grew up a FAT little girl...and I've been taunted and teased for a GREAT part of my life...and NEVER...and I mean NEVER did it cross my mind to beat someone into a bloody pulp because of WORDS. Geez, even children learn "stick and stones may break my bones...but words can never hurt me." Fisyts can though... tyvm for saying it!!! |
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