all night last night i cried
it just hurt so bad.
i can't get over you and the love i thought we had.if i have to feel this pain i know love sounds like thunder but it's cold like rain.
if i had to have love id rather sleep in the dark
then be with you and u crush my broken heart
i cried and i looked above i called out loud and said please lord no more love...
no more love.

I guess that means more for me.

We aLL need love. I like it when it feels like thunder, and it shouldnt feel like cold rain, no way! Get passed the love hurts! Life is not always gentle. But it's all part of the growing process. So you get up and do it again and again.

some one broke my heart last night
i no one will ever brake my heart again.

I tell you what....I'd rather have my heart broken a hundred times than never open my heart to it ever again.

yup

Dude, do you have contact with your dad? If so, I would talk to him about this. And it sounds like you got hurt pretty bad, but ugh.... This will come to pass and stuff. Men, usually don't cry about this stuff or let it get to them, but we live in a different day and age where we have all kinds of %$#@!@ up silliness going on. Just pull yourself together and keep yourself busy. Love will find you when you least expect it.

If you get down that easily, then maybe it is best you build yourself up stronger so when the next chick doesn't work out (hopefully she will), you don't fall apart again. You want to be like a Fortified Castle! Not a house made out of toothpicks.

Now C'mon man! Man up! You can do this!


I know Old ladies that will never get to see another penis in their life! I don't hear them crying about it! C'mon!

sorry maybe it's just me but i have no prob. with out love i'v done it this long.

Newsflash.

Men cry about this stuff.

Dude, you may get mad at me for saying this. And other men as well, but as a man you learn not to cry anymore, because crying gets you no where. Crying is for mourning of the dead. A man knows he can either fix something and be happy, or let it go and be done. I have cried many times over crap like this, and then one day I couldn't cry anymore. That's when I confronted my dad about it and he said "Son, that means you are a man now". And now I understand what it means when they say "Men don't cry".

a "REAL" man is not scared to show his true emotions...good bad or indifferent

Life without love is not worth living....and you will love again...all happens for a reason....meaning the next time...and there will be another,a t your age...it will be evn more perfect for you....hurt comes throughout life...makes you stronger and makes you realize the things you DON'T want in life...it feels aas though it's crippling you...but this is momentarily...and you will find another to make you smile.

I'm not mad, but in my young opinion, the trick is to control your emotions rather than not have them, and express them when it's the right time and place. Maybe when you stopped crying was when you got over it, or maybe you reached that point where you cry until you can't cry anymore. I think it's more correct to say that men don't express negative emotions in front of other people because it makes others view them as less strong or confident.

I agree

I find it very important for me to show my feelings if that means I have to cry then that is what I do. I find sharing my feelings(good or bad) with family and friends makes me a stronger person.

a man is a empty shell if he doesnt cry...real men do cry

That was the best response I have ever came upon in disagreement with me. Seriously, you serve a good point.

I want to comment more, but I am afraid I will upset the Dandelions here rather than the Lions. Your ancestors believed in an old fashioned sense and were just fine. Times appear worse or the same, yet we claim it helps.

Real men cry...... And I suppose one day we will hear "Real men wear skirts and give live birth".

Mend your hearts and be strong.


Now, I know men can cry. But when you announce it to the world over a silly breakup... C'mon. 18+ years didn't teach you that your counterparts come and go? You know better than that.

Someone likes pain

i agree, i like a man to show is emotions