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THAT I COULDNT GET PAST HER INFEDELITY
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THAT I COULDNT GET PAST HER INFEDELITY 
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Edited by
moofooga
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Sat 06/28/08 09:55 PM
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 What is your biggest regret about your previous relationships ?
Sometimes, I regret ever getting into them in the first place. Whoever said "it is better to have loved than lost than to never have loved at all" must've been smokin' some serious doobage, there. That goes especially for the one who had a penchant for wanting to commit bodily harm to me when she was in a less-than-good mood... which was most of the time. |
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that I got used and didnt even see it coming
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I don't know if it's a regret so much as just that we should have split sooner. Getting too comfy in a relationship that we both know is just not "IT", has been a downfall for me. I can luligag in a comfortable role and become so content there, it's just hard to walk away. My bad.
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I stayed in an abusive marriage 6 years, cuz he threatened to hurt my family if I left!!  I later found out he couldn't do that, he just wanted a "punching bag", so I left him finally!! I am much happier now!
Thankfully, there wern't any kids to witness that. |
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THAT I COULDNT GET PAST HER INFEDELITY You're supposed to? 
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I don't know if it's a regret so much as just that we should have split sooner. Getting too comfy in a relationship that we both know is just not "IT", has been a downfall for me. I can luligag in a comfortable role and become so content there, it's just hard to walk away. My bad. It took a few years to recognize a pattern in wife #2. For her, there was always a winter of discontent, in the winter time. Last year, I knew I was done when I predicted how long it would last and said, "I'm not going to try for even 1 moment of happiness". That extended the discontent by 3 months, but absolutely no regrets. She taught me how to be a friend even to people who aren't capable of being one in return. |
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Still assessing the damage, can't say yet. If memory serves, there was one thing you probably value more than the marriage that you didn't have to give up. That has to be an inspiration for others. This is one of those times where a liability is converted into an asset, as promised. |
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