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Topic: it is hard to get a date
franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Fri 06/27/08 12:39 PM
I tend to find it very easy to find a date, just no one worth hanging onto. Where is "the one"? normally follows the zero and before the two just kidding

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Fri 06/27/08 12:39 PM
its not hard for me to get a date...its hard for me to get them to show up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is the real killer Drive 2 hours and then Nada

Rzrback Joined Wed 04/11/07 Posts: 368	Fri 06/27/08 12:40 PM
I tend to find it very easy to find a date, just no one worth hanging onto. Where is "the one"? normally follows the zero and before the two just kidding

poohbearface19 Joined Wed 04/23/08 Posts: 1847	Fri 06/27/08 12:42 PM
u complaining i been on no dates in a year

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Fri 06/27/08 12:42 PM
If I walk into a cafe' to meet him and there's just a laptop on the table, I'm gonna be pretty disappointed for sure!

Anyliz Joined Tue 05/06/08 Posts: 223	Fri 06/27/08 12:47 PM
email me!

Anyliz Joined Tue 05/06/08 Posts: 223	Fri 06/27/08 03:09 PM
I tend to find it very easy to find a date, just no one worth hanging onto. Where is "the one"? here honey, HERE!

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Fri 06/27/08 03:19 PM
it is very hard to find anyone that want to go out or meet or anything. Well, everybody's experiences will be different. I know people who have met their soulmates on here. Me, on the other hand -- I could send out a million e-mails every day for a million years, and I still would never hear from anyone who lived closer than 897,000 miles. Not that I would actually do that -- who has the time? -- but just to overexaggerate a point with silly numbers. (How often does anyone underexaggerate anything?) My point, whatever it is, is that some things work better for some people than others, or better for people who don't live in Illinois, to cite one specific problematic example. I finally came to the realization that I can't rely on dating sites to find people. It just doesn't work for me. But I gave it a fair shot, just to be sure. Your mileage may vary....

Sir_Galahad Joined Tue 05/27/08 Posts: 600	Fri 06/27/08 03:26 PM
it is very hard to find anyone that want to go out or meet or anything. I've set up three dates. After AGRREEING to the date in the first place....all three cancelled. I hope that doesn't happen at the "Florida Get Together". Since I'll have to drive an hour to get there. I don't even care who all's going to be there, I can start friendships with whoever IS there. Maybe bringing food helps.

Random_Stranger Joined Wed 05/02/07 Posts: 2409	Fri 06/27/08 05:39 PM
Patience can land you just the right date, or you can lower your standards for half the wait.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 06/27/08 05:47 PM
For me yes, But I'm my own worst enemy as well!!

Brandon24721 Joined Sun 03/09/08 Posts: 871	Fri 06/27/08 05:48 PM
just be a cocky asshole... it'll get you a date! lol.. trust me!

DestinysDream Joined Wed 02/20/08 Posts: 4805	Fri 06/27/08 05:49 PM
Sorry you are having bad luck but I have to ask. Does posting this help you get a date? If it does let me and the other guys know about it K? Friday is more than about getting drunk and posting your woes. You want to attract women then start talking to them on the forums. (Unless this is actually how you do get someone because then I will post too!) why cant i find love Wed 06/25/08 07:49 AM I want to know why Sat 06/21/08 04:58 PM i guess i will be gay Sat 06/21/08 04:54 PM im looking for a date Fri 06/20/08 05:09 PM

willy_cents Joined Sat 07/14/07 Posts: 4471	Fri 06/27/08 05:53 PM
Patience can land you just the right date, or you can lower your standards for half the wait. Is there a way to lower your standards? I thought that mine were as low as they could be....has a pulse and female

DestinysDream Joined Wed 02/20/08 Posts: 4805	Fri 06/27/08 05:54 PM
just be a cocky asshole... it'll get you a date! lol.. trust me! This guy seems to know something we don't!C'mon fess up!

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 06/27/08 05:56 PM
just be a cocky asshole... it'll get you a date! lol.. trust me! So True!!

lifestooshort6 Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 6667	Fri 06/27/08 06:04 PM
just be a cocky asshole... it'll get you a date! lol.. trust me! So True!! yeah and the mean b!tches get the men, too

Brandon24721 Joined Sun 03/09/08 Posts: 871	Fri 06/27/08 06:17 PM
It's true listen to me! You gotta play it like this... my way or the highway! but then let them know your that sweet guy too!

Sir_Galahad Joined Tue 05/27/08 Posts: 600	Sat 06/28/08 02:58 PM
Sorry you are having bad luck but I have to ask. Does posting this help you get a date? If it does let me and the other guys know about it K? Friday is more than about getting drunk and posting your woes. You want to attract women then start talking to them on the forums. (Unless this is actually how you do get someone because then I will post too!) why cant i find love Wed 06/25/08 07:49 AM I want to know why Sat 06/21/08 04:58 PM i guess i will be gay Sat 06/21/08 04:54 PM im looking for a date Fri 06/20/08 05:09 PM Working overnights doesn't help much either...I'm at work by 8:30 p.m., usually a bit before. The night, for a lot of people, is just getting started then.

sweetinwv Joined Wed 05/23/07 Posts: 3	Sat 06/28/08 03:05 PM Edited by sweetinwv on Sat 06/28/08 03:08 PM