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Ya know, I've been around a bit, been married and divorced twice, had my bad relationships and bad dates along the way. What I've come to realize physical attraction and sex draws us together initially and keeps us together for a while, but it's the things about us that touch another's heart, inspires our souls, that ultimately makes us chose a partner. Physical attraction/sex does not sustain us for the long haul. It is the substance in each of us that we have to offer one another that gets us chosen as a keeper. That's what I want now, the substance that lasts the long haul....the good stuff....
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You are so totally rockin right, Sista!!!
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I would like to touch your heart.
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Great post!
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You are so totally rockin right, Sista!!! Thanks, hon! |
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I would like to touch your heart. |
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Great post! (((Littlredhen)))) |
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(((cy))) |
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There's a lot of truth to that!
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There's a lot of truth to that! (((Bronco))) |
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I'm sure many of us have had people in our lives who do it for us in the bedroom, but want I want is someone who also does it for me beyond the bedroom...
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you know I have heard people talk about this alot... there has been so many drunken debates at parties... but might I say I think you hit the nail on top of the head... and put it beautifully too... I agree...
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you know I have heard people talk about this alot... there has been so many drunken debates at parties... but might I say I think you hit the nail on top of the head... and put it beautifully too... I agree... (((grimdude))) Thanks, hon. |
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Ya know, I've been around a bit, been married and divorced twice, had my bad relationships and bad dates along the way. What I've come to realize physical attraction and sex draws us together initially and keeps us together for a while, but it's the things about us that touch another's heart, inspires our souls, that ultimately makes us chose a partner. Physical attraction/sex does not sustain us for the long haul. It is the substance in each of us that we have to offer one another that gets us chosen as a keeper. That's what I want now, the substance that lasts the long haul....the good stuff.... I was thinking about this a couple days ago, and I couldn't have put it better myself....because I spent years in 3-month relationships that were fun initially, but became tedious very quickly. No deeper connection. It took me awhile to figure out that what I was really looking for was something with a bit more substance....!! |
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And I thought the good stuff was the cream filling in the middle of an Oreo...
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Ya know, I've been around a bit, been married and divorced twice, had my bad relationships and bad dates along the way. What I've come to realize physical attraction and sex draws us together initially and keeps us together for a while, but it's the things about us that touch another's heart, inspires our souls, that ultimately makes us chose a partner. Physical attraction/sex does not sustain us for the long haul. It is the substance in each of us that we have to offer one another that gets us chosen as a keeper. That's what I want now, the substance that lasts the long haul....the good stuff.... |
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Ya know, I've been around a bit, been married and divorced twice, had my bad relationships and bad dates along the way. What I've come to realize physical attraction and sex draws us together initially and keeps us together for a while, but it's the things about us that touch another's heart, inspires our souls, that ultimately makes us chose a partner. Physical attraction/sex does not sustain us for the long haul. It is the substance in each of us that we have to offer one another that gets us chosen as a keeper. That's what I want now, the substance that lasts the long haul....the good stuff.... hhmmmmm kewl post... wonder where one finds this good stuff at.. can i buy it on ebay?? |
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I was thinking about this a couple days ago, and I couldn't have put it better myself....because I spent years in 3-month relationships that were fun initially, but became tedious very quickly. No deeper connection. It took me awhile to figure out that what I was really looking for was something with a bit more substance....!! Very well said. It is the stuff that happens beyond the bedroom that gives our relationships strength and character, substance to build upon. Sex is just the icing. |
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Ya know, I've been around a bit, been married and divorced twice, had my bad relationships and bad dates along the way. What I've come to realize physical attraction and sex draws us together initially and keeps us together for a while, but it's the things about us that touch another's heart, inspires our souls, that ultimately makes us chose a partner. Physical attraction/sex does not sustain us for the long haul. It is the substance in each of us that we have to offer one another that gets us chosen as a keeper. That's what I want now, the substance that lasts the long haul....the good stuff.... |
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