I am pissed off at a friend of mine who has been there for me through good, bad, and anytime. I don't know what to do. I have tried calling them, e-mailing them, and IMing them (not obssessively, although it seems like it). I apologized for being a lousy friend (because I thought I was being one) in an e-mail. Now, however, I think they are playing games with me on IM. I am pissed off because I am trying to be nice here and trying to fix a mistake that I believe was on my part. I don't know if they really are messing with me and blowing me off, though. I don't want to contact them anymore, though, because I think that I'll just get the same responses I've been getting.

kill em

didnt you ask for it

if they dont call move on.next them.

i agree with etrain just get an AK and kill'em all

And bury them under your stoop.

don't assume anything ..just give it some time !! see if they contact you!

ehhhh barrel full of acid

If they are really important to you,Give them some time but don't give up on them.Good-Luck.

Well if you have apologized and tried to contact them to discuss it, then the ball is their court, so to speak. So I would just be patient and wait until they finally decided to speak to you.

Sometimes the best thing to do is just leave it alone for awhile and let things settle. If they are really your friends, they will be back in the picture later on. If not, you don't really need them anyway.

The worst thing to do is obsess about what other people are thinking about you, or what they're doing. 99% of the time, they're not really too worried about what YOU'RE thinking or doing.

Everybody makes mistakes. A friend will understand that, and forgive. Don't be so quick to blame yourself for everything, either!

Has it ever occurred to any one if the other party is the same sex it is normally referred to as him or her and if it is the opposite sex it is always them . How many of them
Very intriguing gives away they are opposite sex.

sounds like you've made every effort to contact them. You've admitted and apologized for your mistake in an email. It seems like you've done everything you can to try to correct the situation. You can't force them to talk to you or accept your apoligies. If they are unwilling to contact you it might be best if you moved on with your life.

True true. I will do that. The thing is, I know this person well enough and they may not contact me because they've RARELY been the first one to IM or call. But like you said, I'm gonna give it time. And, if they don't wanna be my friend, then fine. I can make new friends.

Thanks

Will do.

Thanks :)

Thanks :)

I'd say it's over and start getting your mindset like that. I hate silent mode. I think it just shows they were never your real friend to begin with.

I'm sorry.

Thanks, me too.

Oh well.