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found out today from my "soon" to be ex's new gf that he abused her too and is in jail. She regrets putting him there because he "needs" her. I finally just emailed her the truth whether she wanted to hear it or not. Did I do the wrong thing?
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nope. you did your part, now what happens to her past this point is up to her.
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I cant believe you two are talking! Since you are ,speak the truth
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You did the right thing, now it is up to her from this point.
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Good for you
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Amazing how guys like that get women. Just amazing.
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good move
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He's were he belongs then.
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The truth hurts... but can also enlighten... maybe she will learn from it and get rid of the jerk as you were smart enough to do
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I cant believe you two are talking! Since you are ,speak the truth I am like that. I have told her the truth all along and have the paperwork to back it up. I told her she has children the choice is hers. Well he threatened her life and her sons. I dont hold anything against her, she seems nice and has never given me a hard time. I just want her and the kids to be safe. |
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Yes. It is always the right thing to warn someone of an abuser. "Needing" someone is a way an abuse uses to get in with someone.
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found out today from my "soon" to be ex's new gf that he abused her too and is in jail. She regrets putting him there because he "needs" her. I finally just emailed her the truth whether she wanted to hear it or not. Did I do the wrong thing? You did the right thing Hopefully she'll listen... I've been where you are, the "new girl" didn't listen...Much to her detriment I'm afraid... |
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I just reread her email again. He did this to her on her birthday and their 2 month anniversary. I know 2 months isnt a long time, but for a single disabled mother who technically has no life its a lifetime to her. Sad part is, I saw her pics and she is a beautiful woman. Way to pretty to have to deal with a loser like him.
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Sometimes hearing the truth from the "EX" before it becomes YOUR reality...sounds like sour grapes.
Sounds like you choose your moment well, hope she takes heed, it may save her life. WTG
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You absolutely did the right thing ! Good for you
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Thanks guys. I feel better about trying at least. I just pray that she can find her way to understand she doesnt need to be beaten, kicked, bitten, or all the other things he does in order to have a man. No one deserves that
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Thanks guys. I feel better about trying at least. I just pray that she can find her way to understand she doesnt need to be beaten, kicked, bitten, or all the other things he does in order to have a man. No one deserves that Too effin' right!!!!!!   I hope he ROTS in prison, hey ,who knows? Maybe he'll get a taste of his own medicine |
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She will not listen til she is ready
I spoke to my ex's girlfriend before they got married - warned her about EVERYTHING. She did not believe me. Married him. Had a kid. divorced him within 2 years. Guess she should have listened 
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found out today from my "soon" to be ex's new gf that he abused her too and is in jail. She regrets putting him there because he "needs" her. I finally just emailed her the truth whether she wanted to hear it or not. Did I do the wrong thing? My honest opinion is : Once you are finished with someone just keep away from his or her life . That way you get less trouble and less headaches . I can be wrong . This is me ....!. |
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Thanks guys. I feel better about trying at least. I just pray that she can find her way to understand she doesnt need to be beaten, kicked, bitten, or all the other things he does in order to have a man. No one deserves that Too effin' right!!!!!! I hope he ROTS in prison, hey ,who knows? Maybe he'll get a taste of his own medicine Thanks Pete. You are a sweetie..I honestly hope he rots there and for me to say that about another person takes alot
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