Topic: I HATE it when...
Voluptuous's photo
Tue 06/24/08 09:35 AM
...I know a guy is gay before he does. indifferent
It's like they waste their time trying to convince themselves otherwise dating women...ohwell

Just be gay and happy flowerforyou

no photo
Tue 06/24/08 09:36 AM
I hear that.. so true drinker

Voluptuous's photo
Tue 06/24/08 09:37 AM
...Seriously...

Haven't you ladies come across a few guys on this site...?indifferent

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Tue 06/24/08 09:39 AM
why do you suffer for other's pain?
i mean let him be.
unless he was trying to date you.
but then again if you knew he was gay from the beginning.
you are the one who is wasting your time

Voluptuous's photo
Tue 06/24/08 09:40 AM

why do you suffer for other's pain?
i mean let him be.
unless he was trying to date you.
but then again if you knew he was gay from the beginning.
you are the one who is wasting your time


No suffering here!
Just making a point.
...and yes, they are trying to "date" me.

TheLonelyWalker's photo
Tue 06/24/08 09:42 AM


why do you suffer for other's pain?
i mean let him be.
unless he was trying to date you.
but then again if you knew he was gay from the beginning.
you are the one who is wasting your time


No suffering here!
Just making a point.
...and yes, they are trying to "date" me.

well then say no, everytime they try. til they get tired.

ozzy_lover's photo
Tue 06/24/08 09:43 AM
they are confused. hard thing coming out. i have a couple of friends that did that. they weren't really sure of themselves so they experimented... they came to the conclusion of whether they were gay or not on there own. its not for other people to judge or decide.

lilith401's photo
Tue 06/24/08 09:43 AM
Yeah, I know a guy like that. He is the bytchiest drama queen and has a GF actually. But none on this site I've encountered.

baroosie's photo
Tue 06/24/08 09:52 AM
GIRL! UR THO THILLY! flowerforyou

Voluptuous's photo
Tue 06/24/08 09:53 AM

they are confused. hard thing coming out. i have a couple of friends that did that. they weren't really sure of themselves so they experimented... they came to the conclusion of whether they were gay or not on there own. its not for other people to judge or decide.


Not trying to judge, decide or criticize.
I'm not bashing Gay men.noway
I am simply bringing up topic that there are men on this site that have tried "getting to know me better"...through emails and phone conversations my "gaydar" goes WILD.
I'm not saying there is anything "wrong" with gay men- Everyone deserves to be happy- on that note...Isn't it a bit rude for them to "experiment" with women that are looking for a spouse. This problem happens more often than people talk about.

Voluptuous's photo
Tue 06/24/08 09:54 AM

GIRL! UR THO THILLY! flowerforyou

Don't worry baby, I know you aren't one that falls under this topic :wink:

baroosie's photo
Tue 06/24/08 09:55 AM


GIRL! UR THO THILLY! flowerforyou

Don't worry baby, I know you aren't one that falls under this topic :wink:
HEHEHEH flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou