Topic: Looking a certain age.
fjr's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:23 PM


I'm 41 now, but when I was 38, I went to this bar one night cuz they had a really smokin' band playing. When I ordered a drink, the bartender carded menoway I wouldn't have minded but I was waiting to get my ID replaced after losing it. She wouldn't serve me even AFTER I explained I had grey hair older than hergrumble


You would be in the minority then flowerforyou I'm 47 and most guys I run into in my age bracket look so much older!

Wow, you look 30-something.

Winx's photo
Mon 06/23/08 08:32 AM

Yes it is.laugh laugh laugh


Michiganmanlaugh flowerforyou

FETTS61's photo
Mon 06/23/08 11:00 AM
MY HAIR BEING MOSTLY GREY IS A GIVEAWAY FOR ME
BUT IM NOT COMPLAINING! AT 46 ,AS LONG AS I HAVE HAIR, I DONT GIVE A DAMN WHAT COLOR IT ISlaugh laugh laugh

PATSFAN's photo
Mon 06/23/08 11:02 AM
I'm almost 38, but I look a little younger

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Mon 06/23/08 11:03 AM

I've had a few issues when meeting people in their 40's. I can't get over the fact that so many look nearly my father's age. It didn't dawn on me until today that the issue is probably not that they look older.

The problem is that my father looks younger than his age. I get that from him. So this mental issue I'm having with people not that must older than me is something I'm really gonna have to try and get over.


I understand completely!!! IRL I am guessed at being 28!!! noway noway And I hear you on the guys my age looking older.....its not that they look older its just that I look younger!!! noway grumble grumble

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Mon 06/23/08 11:11 AM
My head is shaved, so the thinning and gray aren't there.
But the mustache and goatee are more salt than pepper.laugh

Cambolaya65's photo
Mon 06/23/08 11:24 AM
laugh laugh ha ha ha.we are sooooo old...laugh laugh and we are getting older and creepier laugh laugh laugh

PacificStar48's photo
Mon 06/23/08 11:27 AM
LOL Wait until you are on tne back side of your fifty's like me and have and ageing parent as your charge. THEN a decent but maybe not so pretty 55 to 65 year old guys will start looking a whole lot better. Not all but some of that young 30 Something (really 40) that are trying their best to prove they still got it and whine and crying when it makes them sore as heck or cheat when some skinny desperate 20Something that has a couple of hungry kids gives them somethin somethin to get into their wallet or a promotion at work won't look near as good. Not saying you have to date the spitting image of dear old Dad or retire to the rockin chair but just cuz a guy has worked hard all his 20 =40 years and looks it doesn't make him a bad deal. You will see age sneak up on you here real soon so I wouldn't get too choicy or you might end up alone.

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Mon 06/23/08 11:29 AM
<---I like to keep them guessing.......with OIL OF OLAY!!!bigsmile

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Mon 06/23/08 11:49 AM

<---I like to keep them guessing.......with OIL OF OLAY!!!bigsmile

Its the best, isn't it! I have used it for close to 15 years.

chuck366's photo
Mon 06/23/08 11:50 AM
any other oils?:wink:

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Mon 06/23/08 11:52 AM
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Mon 06/23/08 05:57 PM
43 here,when i hang out with my 19 year old daughter everyone thinks we are boyfriend and girlfriend she hates it but i love itlaugh

mscherbear's photo
Mon 06/23/08 06:04 PM
Edited by mscherbear on Mon 06/23/08 06:04 PM

43 here,when i hang out with my 19 year old daughter everyone thinks we are boyfriend and girlfriend she hates it but i love itlaugh


^^^^Very fine exception to the rule here love love

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Mon 06/23/08 06:07 PM


43 here,when i hang out with my 19 year old daughter everyone thinks we are boyfriend and girlfriend she hates it but i love itlaugh


^^^^Very fine exception to the rule here love love
thanks bear and you certainly dont look your age wowflowerforyou flowerforyou

mscherbear's photo
Mon 06/23/08 06:11 PM



43 here,when i hang out with my 19 year old daughter everyone thinks we are boyfriend and girlfriend she hates it but i love itlaugh


^^^^Very fine exception to the rule here love love
thanks bear and you certainly dont look your age wowflowerforyou flowerforyou

smooched flowerforyou


ladyliz1417's photo
Thu 11/27/08 07:32 AM
No one EVER believes I'm 53. Most ppl guess late 30's to early 40's. Of course that works for me:wink:

krupa's photo
Thu 11/27/08 07:56 AM

I've had a few issues when meeting people in their 40's. I can't get over the fact that so many look nearly my father's age. It didn't dawn on me until today that the issue is probably not that they look older.

The problem is that my father looks younger than his age. I get that from him. So this mental issue I'm having with people not that must older than me is something I'm really gonna have to try and get over.




I am 40...still get carded occasionally.

Personally, I have been able to overcome my former issues with age differentials. I know completly immature older people....I know very level-headed younger people. My one remaining bias is know that the older ladies are waaaayyy more fun in the sack...just my personal experience.

Jodi22's photo
Thu 11/27/08 08:07 AM
I truely hate the thought of getting old and looking old is oh so much worse!!! I can not believe 39 is just around the corner!!!! I need some major crack filler, and some high grade sand paper!!!! Any drywall men out there willing to help a girl our? ohwell

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Thu 11/27/08 08:43 AM
I will be 50 in January. A co-worker told me last weekend she thought I was in my 30's! rofl *She is now my new best friend!:laughing: *