Topic: a good fight
Jill298's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:21 AM
lol the funny thing is that this couple I am talking about... fights practically everyday. I think they just don't realize it or somethinglaugh

Totage's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:24 AM

lol the funny thing is that this couple I am talking about... fights practically everyday. I think they just don't realize it or somethinglaugh


That's when it's unhealthy IMO

8607's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:26 AM
I don't think it's healthy. You tend to say things that are not easily forgiven if at all.:smile:

Jill298's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:27 AM


lol the funny thing is that this couple I am talking about... fights practically everyday. I think they just don't realize it or somethinglaugh


That's when it's unhealthy IMO
I totally agree. I try to tell them that but I can only do so much

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Sun 06/22/08 10:29 AM
mmm make up sex devil devil

rainysky39's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:30 AM
Why should people have to fight to have sex? devil devil You can make it interesting without the heartache

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:41 AM

a friend of mine the other day mentioned that her and her husband had not had a "good fight" in a long time, so it's due. She says she thinks fights are healthy for a marriage. Do you agree?


I don't know about that .. but I gotta say make up sex is to die for .....

bigsmile love smokin bigsmile love smokin

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Sun 06/22/08 10:48 AM
Must be all that pent up frustrations!!!explode devil laugh laugh

alexiateigra's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:49 AM
Edited by alexiateigra on Sun 06/22/08 10:50 AM
It isn't necessary to fight to simply clear the air. To clear the air, a couple needs to learn to communicate with one another before it leads to a big blow out.

In addition, just because there is a big fight & great make-up sex afterwards, doesn't always = the air has been cleared between them. Usually what happens, things have been temporary nullified. In most cases, the root cause is still there under the surface because nothing was truly solved.

Good communication is the key!

ledi180's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:50 AM
Me too!



i agree i like being mad sometimes! lol

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Sun 06/22/08 10:51 AM

It isn't necessary to fight to simply clear the air. To clear the air, a couple needs to learn to communicate with one another before it leads to a big blow out.

In addition, just because there is a big fight & great make-up sex afterwards, doesn't always = the air has been cleared between them. Usually what happens, things have been temporary nullified. In most cases, the root cause is still there under the surface because nothing was truly solved.

Good communication is the key!
bigsmile flowerforyou flowerforyou drinker

Peccy's photo
Sun 06/22/08 11:00 AM
Edited by Peccy on Sun 06/22/08 11:01 AM
The sex is always better if she's mad at me..............lol

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Sun 06/22/08 11:02 AM

The sex is always better if she's mad at me..............lol
peccy.....youre weird!!!:wink: laugh laugh laugh jk

rainysky39's photo
Sun 06/22/08 11:03 AM
If I am mad/pi$$ed at anyone, I dont want to speak, see or touch them, much less have sex with them.. So I guess make up sex for me was never good laugh :angry:

Peccy's photo
Sun 06/22/08 11:04 AM


The sex is always better if she's mad at me..............lol
peccy.....youre weird!!!:wink: laugh laugh laugh jk
evidently in your humble canuck ways, you've never been rough!

Jill298's photo
Sun 06/22/08 11:05 AM

If I am mad/pi$$ed at anyone, I dont want to speak, see or touch them, much less have sex with them.. So I guess make up sex for me was never good laugh :angry:
just cuz my man did something to piss me off doesn't mean I'm gonna go without sexlaugh I'm not punishing myself

rainysky39's photo
Sun 06/22/08 11:06 AM


If I am mad/pi$$ed at anyone, I dont want to speak, see or touch them, much less have sex with them.. So I guess make up sex for me was never good laugh :angry:
just cuz my man did something to piss me off doesn't mean I'm gonna go without sexlaugh I'm not punishing myself

LOL I dont have to punish myself..I know what pleases me too! (WEG)

Peccy's photo
Sun 06/22/08 11:07 AM


If I am mad/pi$$ed at anyone, I dont want to speak, see or touch them, much less have sex with them.. So I guess make up sex for me was never good laugh :angry:
just cuz my man did something to piss me off doesn't mean I'm gonna go without sexlaugh I'm not punishing myself
^5's Jill!

No1sLove's photo
Sun 06/22/08 11:16 AM
Edited by No1sLove on Sun 06/22/08 11:35 AM
I don't care for arguing at all. It will happen though, no doubt...but during those discussions I like to remember that I am not with him because he hangs the toilet paper the same way I do. So if he fails to do so, it's not the end of the world.

For bigger issues than fallen souffles and garage doors left open all night, I prefer cooling down and returning to it once the passions are settled down. flowerforyou

If a little hot sex helps to settle them down, then so be it! :tongue:

Jill298's photo
Sun 06/22/08 11:20 AM



If I am mad/pi$$ed at anyone, I dont want to speak, see or touch them, much less have sex with them.. So I guess make up sex for me was never good laugh :angry:
just cuz my man did something to piss me off doesn't mean I'm gonna go without sexlaugh I'm not punishing myself

LOL I dont have to punish myself..I know what pleases me too! (WEG)
I'll take the real thing anytime over just myselflaugh