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is too short to date again after a divorce?
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i think it really depends on how the marriage ended and how you're feeling about dating. if it was a long seperation and a drawn out divorce dating right away would be normal
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my divorce will be final july 3,but weve been apart a long time. i think its up to the person
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Its a divorce. Date immediatly.
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is too short to date again after a divorce? as soon as you walk out of the courthouse |
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i think it really depends on how the marriage ended and how you're feeling about dating. if it was a long seperation and a drawn out divorce dating right away would be normal I agree ... sometimes you checked out emotionally long before you left the marriage physically. |
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Until YOUR mind stops seeing THEM in free moments of thoughts each day!
Then Your know your really over THEM..and can maybe find and see another w/o sharing whats still in your heart.... Thats my thoughts anyway,lol GOOD LUCK with feeling free and finding someone to share your dreams with.....   
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Edited by
Peccy
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Sun 06/22/08 06:45 AM
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You need to wait, trust me on this one. When you feel ready
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ummm....errr....some people date BEFORE they are divorced. Are you talking about you or someone you are interested in dating?
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whenever you feel comfortable...it is natural to be cautious
and it is also natural to be reckless. so be careful.
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I don't think there is a time limit, if you are over him and ready to move on start going out.
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We have the 1 yr mandatory separation period before you can file for divorce here, and that helps slow things down a little (not for everyone, I realize, b/c many will still date if just separated). I think Peccy's right, you do need to give yourself proper time and space to really feel all the different stages of the breakup - it's a grieving process of sorts. You want to go into the next relationship with as clean a slate as possible to give it the best chance of success you can. JMO
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Edited by
Neurofriction
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Sun 06/22/08 06:46 AM
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is too short to date again after a divorce? If I had been smart I would have lost the hurt feelings the day she said she wanted one. Date! Life is too short. |
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Edited by
shoesmonkey
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Sun 06/22/08 06:48 AM
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i think it really depends on how the marriage ended and how you're feeling about dating. if it was a long seperation and a drawn out divorce dating right away would be normal I agree ... sometimes you checked out emotionally long before you left the marriage physically. |
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That varies from person to person. If you're still pissed, hurt or harboring feelings of murder then I'd say it's best to get over those feelings before dating because you will wind up most likely judging every man for your ex's faults and you most definitely cannot judge every man for the things an ex has put you through.
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Edited by
Derekkye
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Sun 06/22/08 06:55 AM
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The time it takes for a divorce is quite lengthy so I would say to start dating immediately.
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To me it all depends on your emotions. Even though I was married foe 2 1/2 years, I NEVER should have married him. The best part of my marriage was my wedding day. I was long over him the day I moved out and got my own place. I wish you luck in what your searching for.........
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A lot of people don't even WAIT until the divorce is final!! Some folks just run with the ball the second the locks are changed!!!
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Different strokes, different folks.
Most divorces take so long, if you think the time is right; as long as you are legally seperated; do as you chose. |
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