No...to each their own. But they are surely aware, when they proposition people whose profile states they are looking for "A" man or woman and says nothing about threesomes or whatever, that they are going to upset those who do not like the idea or believe in their practices.

Why would I be bothered by a married couple on this site?

Sure, if that's the only reason they were here, then they would just disappear. But say the couple were both here to meet friends more than anything and have created some connections that they want to stay and continue to enjoy in the forums. I think it would be nice to see them here as a couple.

Only if they invited me into their bedroom would I........

I would hope people would not be, but it came up in a conversation, so I thought to find out. I mean, I was only here for friends, so what is the difference really?

That was just my opinion....
I get creeped out when I get emails asking me to be a third party.

((Shadow)) How is your precious bundle?

Its no problem to me!! They are individuals and have made friends here......why should they be omitted???

If you are in a relationship there needs to be basic trust....or there isnt anything is there?

well, if they are cool and funny and post interesting threads, I want them to stay. Otherwise, I don't care.

I see nothing wrong with it at all, though. Just like still belonging to a club or going to a bar or whatever it is people do IRL

I like that answer! (((Hiker)))

If there is no trust, you'd not only want to discourage your partner from going on a site, but reevaluate the relationship, me thinks.

I like all of your answers, Love.

I just got an email! I guess that now, I will need to start mentioning at the top of all my topics when it is not about ME!

not a problem.

so they post in the forums to stay in touch with other people they know? Big deal.

Why shouldn't they be allowed to keep in touch with those people?

Oh jeez. That doesn't bother me at all. I was thinking along the lines of if they wanted to be more than a twosome...

hello im married and have been for almost 40 years now i enjoy people and find this site is just clean fun for all young older married singel

I figure that's their business, not mine. As long as neither one is giving me any problems, and not trying to con anybody, I really have no particular opinion either way.

I have asked this and viewed many replies and my own thoughts are,,
If two meet here and become GREAT and move in to share life together, then they should show that as a pic with BOTH in it, and should always talk as one,,in other words NOT be on single in the forums flirting or VIEWED as flirting with anyone..
If I felt I was in-love then EVERYONE would know this and feel and see this in any and all my replies here and my partner would have my password to my account and I would never delete any of my emails for her to read if she felt a desire..
But THATS my truth and not many would want to be that open..
But if YOUR convicted to any relationship then BOTH should act in all ways that YOUR BOTH AN ITEM,,,that simple,, to me.....

If anything I think it would be cool to met someone that actually got married with the help of jsh. No It would bother me if they kept their friends.. Im assuming the other party would let everyone know that they are happliy married

I guess I have been single too long because I don't even understand why a question like this needs to be asked. Aren't you still a person after you get married? Why would you have to change anything about yourself?

As far as only having one pic and only being online at the same time and sharing passwords...can you say too close for comfort? Even married people need a separate identity..