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Topic: What on earth do I do....
redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Sat 06/21/08 11:31 AM
well.... me an my b/f have been together for a little over 3months now and it just seems like he does not have time for me, he works 2 jobs. We get to see each other maybe once ever 2 weeks. I can't take it anymore, I just don't really feel the same about him anymore, the real him is coming out an well he is kinda mean, I know I should break things off with him but I just cant find it in me to. an to add to my probs my friend Jeff wants to start dating me, I told him that we would have to take things slow cause I will need time to get out my b/f an it would not be fair to him to just jump into the relationship. I do love my b/f now an he can be very sweet to me, he is not all that bad, just somethings bug me an Im afraid to talk to him about it cuz he gets mad easy an I dont wanna make him mad. Im just so lost, do I stay with my b/f an see if things get better or break it off an hang with jeff an see where that goes?

DREAMZ Joined Sat 05/31/08 Posts: 1775	Sat 06/21/08 11:33 AM
dump the boyfriend.....get with jeff

Smokee Joined Thu 03/06/08 Posts: 584	Sat 06/21/08 11:36 AM
Get rid of the b/f....you don't need an angry person in your life. Most important!!! If you decide Jeff is the one....end your current relationship!

jonny63 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 5229	Sat 06/21/08 11:40 AM
1nce every 2 weeks is not a boyfriend. If he's getting madd at you for anything at all tell him Gbye. Take your time getting into relationships in the future. Get to know them like you know this guy long before ever sleeping with them. If you want long term.JMO

bluesunflower Joined Thu 05/15/08 Posts: 1163	Sat 06/21/08 11:41 AM
you anwered it yourself when you said you dont feel the same about him anymore. let him go you will feel much better. good luck with your friend jeff.

Jules0565 Joined Fri 06/06/08 Posts: 4485	Sat 06/21/08 11:41 AM
Why would you want to stay in a relationship with someone that is mean? If he get's mad over discussing things now.. it won't change later on in the relationship and will more than likely get worse, not better. It's best just to end that relationship now before too much time is invested.

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Sat 06/21/08 11:44 AM
I have known jeff for a couple years now... we havent hung out alot...

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Sat 06/21/08 11:45 AM
you anwered it yourself when you said you dont feel the same about him anymore. let him go you will feel much better. good luck with your friend jeff. but when Im with him in person Im soo head over heals for him.. when Im away I just dont care

bluesunflower Joined Thu 05/15/08 Posts: 1163	Sat 06/21/08 11:54 AM
you anwered it yourself when you said you dont feel the same about him anymore. let him go you will feel much better. good luck with your friend jeff. but when Im with him in person Im soo head over heals for him.. when Im away I just dont care i was that way with someone as well in the end i just realized that he wasnt the one. so i completly understand the torn feelings on the situation

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Sat 06/21/08 02:44 PM
I am gonna break up with him... hes just completely changed

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Sat 06/21/08 11:04 PM
take things slow cause I will need time to get out my b/f an it would not be fair to him to just jump into the relationship. I do love my b/f now an he can be very sweet to me, he is not all that bad, just somethings bug me an Im afraid to talk to him about it cuz he gets mad easy an I dont wanna make him mad. Im just so lost, do I stay with my b/f an see if things get better or break it off an hang with jeff an see where that goes? <=- nuking popcorn. Bouncy bouncy bouncy. Don't mind me, I'm just the guy in the back making smarta$$ comments while the movie's playing.