Topic: AA
BeccaP258's photo
Fri 06/20/08 09:33 PM
this past week has been hecktick
my sister came home drunk..
my dad sent her away to rehab.
she has been gone for a week
and i'm about ready to crack
she is my BEST friendsad sad sad

my parents are now getting a divrce cause of this.
but they don't think about me.
or my little brother
just about their stupid lives.


ugh

help??


Tankk's photo
Fri 06/20/08 09:36 PM
I think you're the only sane one...get away till they all get better.

no photo
Fri 06/20/08 09:38 PM
They just had this subject on Oprah today, about kids in divorces, the need to communicate to the kids that it's not about them, etc.
I'm so sorry you are going through such turmoil and insanity. Sounds like the poops been hitting the fan for quite a while. Bless you heart!! :heart:

no photo
Fri 06/20/08 09:38 PM
hope all works out for you.

Winx's photo
Fri 06/20/08 09:41 PM
Maybe go to an Alanon meeting.flowerforyou

precious5903's photo
Fri 06/20/08 09:55 PM
Good Advice about the Alanon meeting. I'm not sure if there's an age limit to the Alateen meetings, but I know they really helped my daughter, you may want to check into them also.

BeccaP258's photo
Fri 06/20/08 10:09 PM
thank you all for your support.
i did watch opra today
it was AMAZING

BeccaP258's photo
Fri 06/20/08 10:09 PM
thank you all for your support.
i did watch opra today
it was AMAZING

no photo
Sat 06/21/08 05:11 AM
"Courage faces fear and thereby masters it"
- Martin Luther King, Jr

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Citizen_Joe's photo
Sun 06/22/08 02:19 AM

this past week has been hecktick
my sister came home drunk..
my dad sent her away to rehab.
she has been gone for a week
and i'm about ready to crack
she is my BEST friendsad sad sad

my parents are now getting a divrce cause of this.
but they don't think about me.
or my little brother
just about their stupid lives.


ugh

help??




Http://www.adultchildren.org might be a good place to start.

nyquil73's photo
Sun 06/22/08 08:51 PM
http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/ helps alot with getting you in the right frame of mind.

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 06/22/08 09:03 PM
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livelife68's photo
Sun 06/22/08 09:40 PM
Good suggestions from everybody Al-anon/alateen and adult children are great places to go. Remember it's not your fault. when it comes to alcoholism especially with others remember you can't control it, you can't cure it, and your not the cause of it. best wishes flowerforyou

hikerchick's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:10 PM
your parents are getting a divorce because your sister came home drunk?

There must be more to it.

And they are not bad people for thinking about their lives. We all have to think about our own lives. It doesnt' mean they are not thinking about you too.

brooke007's photo
Sun 06/22/08 10:15 PM
Edited by brooke007 on Sun 06/22/08 10:16 PM
if she comes home drunk she probably needs some rehab..

and maybe you should try having a heart to heart with your mother..and father


and i would also suggest rewording some things in that profile..
there can be some serious crazies online honey
and you are very pretty

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baroosie's photo
Sun 06/29/08 12:10 PM

Maybe go to an Alanon meeting.flowerforyou
... or Alateen if youre young enough.