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Topic: Love and Respect
Nursenell76 Joined Mon 06/09/08 Posts: 630	Fri 06/20/08 09:09 PM
I could never fall in love with someone I do not respect. What attracted me to my last love was the size of his hands and the feeling of being safe in his arms. Sense of humor has a large role to play also. It did not work out for me though.

lov2fish Joined Wed 06/11/08 Posts: 549	Fri 06/20/08 09:09 PM
I respect everyone until they prove they dont deserve it. now thats a loaded question for me.. so I have to answer no.. I always respect each and every person I meet.

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 06/20/08 09:11 PM
funny you ask that ,i had someone i disrespected but i kept seeing her cause she was a freak in bed, now she is still just a booty call

willy_cents Joined Sat 07/14/07 Posts: 4471	Fri 06/20/08 09:12 PM
Respect and love must go hand in hand. one cannot exist without the other. Also, respect and trust are tangibly inter-twingled.

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Fri 06/20/08 09:12 PM
Have you ever fallen for someone whom you did not respect? What was it that attracted you to them despite this? And how did that work out for you? badly she was very beautiful and curvy. that would be lust not love sorry and you dont need no respect to lust someone then it was 8 months of lust with 3 months of heart ache getting over her. I suppose you can fall in love with certain aspects of a person, and not even realize the respect is not there until later? Or did you think there was respect which turned out to be a deception? please explain what aspects is that makes you love someone when you think he is a piece of s##t

maxxximus007 Joined Mon 11/13/06 Posts: 6082	Fri 06/20/08 09:12 PM
Have you ever fallen for someone whom you did not respect? What was it that attracted you to them despite this? And how did that work out for you? badly she was very beautiful and curvy. that would be lust not love sorry and you dont need no respect to lust someone then it was 8 months of lust with 3 months of heart ache getting over her. I suppose you can fall in love with certain aspects of a person, and not even realize the respect is not there until later? Or did you think there was respect which turned out to be a deception? i wanted to be in love when i meet her every thing was just right. but like they say you don't know a person untill you spend quality time together. well in that time my respect for her faded.

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Fri 06/20/08 09:13 PM
funny you ask that ,i had someone i disrespected but i kept seeing her cause she was a freak in bed, now she is still just a booty call That is exactly what I mean lust does not need respect love does

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Fri 06/20/08 09:13 PM
Respect comes before love in my book. Right on... i don't think that you can have true love without respect & trust the very big prerequisites... <<<<< Wyatt >>>>>

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Fri 06/20/08 09:13 PM
Respect and love must go hand in hand. one cannot exist without the other. Also, respect and trust are tangibly inter-twingled. you are almost there

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Fri 06/20/08 09:15 PM
Have you ever fallen for someone whom you did not respect? What was it that attracted you to them despite this? And how did that work out for you? badly she was very beautiful and curvy. that would be lust not love sorry and you dont need no respect to lust someone then it was 8 months of lust with 3 months of heart ache getting over her. I suppose you can fall in love with certain aspects of a person, and not even realize the respect is not there until later? Or did you think there was respect which turned out to be a deception? i wanted to be in love when i meet her every thing was just right. but like they say you don't know a person untill you spend quality time together. well in that time my respect for her faded. Are you saying that in the first date before you know the person you decide you will fall in love first and then go to the date?

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Fri 06/20/08 09:16 PM
I could never fall in love with someone I do not respect. What attracted me to my last love was the size of his hands and the feeling of being safe in his arms. Sense of humor has a large role to play also. It did not work out for me though. Again in round about way you are explaining lust not love

Rapunzel Joined Tue 08/22/06 Posts: 16246	Fri 06/20/08 09:18 PM
Respect and love must go hand in hand. one cannot exist without the other. Also, respect and trust are tangibly inter-twingled. Yes, very true... <<< Hi Sherman >>>

maxxximus007 Joined Mon 11/13/06 Posts: 6082	Fri 06/20/08 09:19 PM
Have you ever fallen for someone whom you did not respect? What was it that attracted you to them despite this? And how did that work out for you? badly she was very beautiful and curvy. that would be lust not love sorry and you dont need no respect to lust someone then it was 8 months of lust with 3 months of heart ache getting over her. I suppose you can fall in love with certain aspects of a person, and not even realize the respect is not there until later? Or did you think there was respect which turned out to be a deception? i wanted to be in love when i meet her every thing was just right. but like they say you don't know a person untill you spend quality time together. well in that time my respect for her faded. Are you saying that in the first date before you know the person you decide you will fall in love first and then go to the date? you win !!! hope i made your nite!!!

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Fri 06/20/08 09:19 PM
Have you ever fallen for someone whom you did not respect? What was it that attracted you to them despite this? And how did that work out for you? badly she was very beautiful and curvy. that would be lust not love sorry and you dont need no respect to lust someone then it was 8 months of lust with 3 months of heart ache getting over her. I suppose you can fall in love with certain aspects of a person, and not even realize the respect is not there until later? Or did you think there was respect which turned out to be a deception? i wanted to be in love when i meet her every thing was just right. but like they say you don't know a person untill you spend quality time together. well in that time my respect for her faded. Are you saying that in the first date before you know the person you decide you will fall in love first and then go to the date? you win !!! hope i made your nite!!! I dont want to win I want you win and not hurt next time

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Fri 06/20/08 09:21 PM
I respect everyone until they prove they dont deserve it. now thats a loaded question for me.. so I have to answer no.. I always respect each and every person I meet. Do you extend this (everyone starts class with an A) to people who you know have committed acts you would not respect if done to you as well though? Do you make them prove to you personally that they do not deserve your respect? Is that it?

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Fri 06/20/08 09:22 PM
funny you ask that ,i had someone i disrespected but i kept seeing her cause she was a freak in bed, now she is still just a booty call So you would not say you fell FOR her, as much as ON her I spose?

lov2fish Joined Wed 06/11/08 Posts: 549	Fri 06/20/08 09:24 PM Edited by lov2fish on Fri 06/20/08 09:25 PM
I respect everyone until they prove they dont deserve it. now thats a loaded question for me.. so I have to answer no.. I always respect each and every person I meet. Do you extend this (everyone starts class with an A) to people who you know have committed acts you would not respect if done to you as well though? Do you make them prove to you personally that they do not deserve your respect? Is that it? No.. actions speak much louder than words when it comes to respect.. IMO

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Fri 06/20/08 09:25 PM
funny you ask that ,i had someone i disrespected but i kept seeing her cause she was a freak in bed, now she is still just a booty call So you would not say you fell FOR her, as much as ON her I spose?

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Fri 06/20/08 10:29 PM
No, I need to be able to respect the person, or I find it impossible to fall for them. I quickly fall out of love and lose interest in them if I find I can no longer respect them, in fact.