can kids be a factor in a parson new relatinship

Yes it can be a big factor if you have kids you must find someone that
likes kids and your kids get along with them also. Kids can make or
break a relantionship. Myself I would date the person for 2-3 months
before my kids meet them and then would hope that they got along kids
see things differnt than we do and most of the time you can learn alot
about a person by the reaction of the kids. It is a packaged deal so
don't ignore the way your kids feel about whom ever you are dating.

yes they can. I love and want kids so not a big issue for me.
nor is the issue if she already has children from a previous
relationship.

yeah i agree wit both u and its hard to try to love that woman or man
but sometimes u have to sacrefice your relationship or the love of your
kids in order to be happy

you cannot sacrifice the love of your children or their happiness for a
relationship, they are part of your and soul

Very well said silly.

thank you Kojack
*takes a bow*

if u said it that way all the relationships would be perfect ucan be
right cus am young and u have more experience

just remember a pat on the back is only a few inches from a kick in da
reaar LOL.


Wait until you meet me before you bow

*kicks ya back in da butt*
smartazz

hahahaha

i feel old right now

you wouldn t want me any other way and that was proven with my call
interuptions...

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Not only can they be, they ARE a factor.

am going to take jeanc out

well one thing you never do is sarafice your kids for any relantionship
kids should always be your first and foremost thing in mind for they are
you and there feelings should be condidered also. Relantionships come
and go your kids do not. But now it can also be a big factor for those
that still want more kids of there own if the other one has either
already had kids or no desire to have kids. So kids do play a very big
factor in relantionships.

i undertand thatand i love kids i wish i could have a girl right now i
agree u shouldnt sacrifice you kids but i know people who have done that
and doent everybody have the right to be happy

Yeah I have known of others that have done that too but what about your
kids being happy, my kids are grown now so now I see that I can go for
my happiness now yeah it was a sarifice I gave while they were growing
up but the rewards will far outway what I gave up we all deserve to be
happy but you can't figure your happiness is worth more than your kids
happiness. For that turns in to a cycle that is hard to break then they
will grow up thinking of only themselves and never of others. Well that
is my thoughts on it anyway it is not easy putting your kids first but
them life is not easy. But at least now I do know my kids will be there
for me later for I was there for them when they needed me the most.

i agree and godbless u