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Topic: friends
nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Thu 06/19/08 11:26 PM
do you think you can have a friend of the opposite sex and neither one end up with feelings, desires, etc for the other?

thumper95 Joined Tue 08/07/07 Posts: 33316	Thu 06/19/08 11:27 PM
yep,, i know i can,, i lived with a girl,, and never once thought of doing anything with her

kerbear73 Joined Wed 01/02/08 Posts: 3884	Thu 06/19/08 11:27 PM
Yes, I have them

IndigoIllusions Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 5625	Thu 06/19/08 11:28 PM
Yes, I've had a male friend for over 25 years-completely platonic, and are each other's best friend.

justkev08 Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 1897	Thu 06/19/08 11:28 PM
The politicaly correct answer is of course yes but someone usualy likes one more than the other

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Thu 06/19/08 11:28 PM
yep,, i know i can,, i lived with a girl,, and never once thought of doing anything with her she does not ever think of doing anything with you? do you know that for sure?

1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8559	Thu 06/19/08 11:28 PM
I would think wicked thoughts.

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Thu 06/19/08 11:29 PM
The politicaly correct answer is of course yes but someone usualy likes one more than the other i agree

Dopey180 Joined Thu 04/03/08 Posts: 583	Thu 06/19/08 11:29 PM
that is all i have is guy friends and never have nor will do anything with them most of them act like my big brothers so that would be weird

chevylover1965 Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 43370	Thu 06/19/08 11:29 PM
yes, most of my freind's are women .

thumper95 Joined Tue 08/07/07 Posts: 33316	Thu 06/19/08 11:29 PM
yep. i know that for a fact. she likes guys completely diffrent from me. i dont get down with women unless i have something like a true feeling for them. thats the way i am

jonny63 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 5229	Thu 06/19/08 11:30 PM
No, but you must respect the situation for what it is. I firmly believe that sex can ruin a great friendship. Are you willing to risk that?

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 06/19/08 11:30 PM
No.......!!! Well maybe if they are really unattractive to me.......but as the saying goes...when harry met sally.......

nvrsaynvr Joined Tue 06/12/07 Posts: 5283	Thu 06/19/08 11:31 PM
I think certain people can, but not all. Depends on the situation and the people.

1956deluxe Joined Thu 12/06/07 Posts: 8559	Thu 06/19/08 11:31 PM
No.......!!! Well maybe if they are really unattractive to me.......but as the saying goes...when harry met sally....... Yup!

UplandHunter Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 8066	Thu 06/19/08 11:32 PM
I have several that will always be friends, but some I might not. To that I have no control...but would never cross the line where it was not appropriate.

IndnPrncs Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 58420	Thu 06/19/08 11:32 PM
I have a few male friends.. have had some in the past surprise me but for the most part my male friends have always been gentlemen in every way...

justkev08 Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 1897	Thu 06/19/08 11:33 PM
Right back at you. Its human nature.. The politicaly correct answer is of course yes but someone usualy likes one more than the other i agree

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Thu 06/19/08 11:34 PM
I have a few male friends.. have had some in the past surprise me but for the most part my male friends have always been gentlemen in every way... i am sure they are gentlemen or you would not have picked them as friends...but do you think that they might have thoughts?

nurjoyce Joined Thu 01/04/07 Posts: 10283	Thu 06/19/08 11:35 PM Edited by nurjoyce on Thu 06/19/08 11:35 PM
Right back at you. Its human nature.. The politicaly correct answer is of course yes but someone usualy likes one more than the other i agree okay....because if you were my friend, even your age...i might be tempted (esp with those arms)