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Topic: friends
Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Fri 06/20/08 12:06 AM
I have friends everywhere, irrespective of gender. Gender is the LAST thing that comes into play with friendship... iF you could only read their minds...... Thank goodness I can't!!!

kk35695 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 1924	Fri 06/20/08 12:07 AM


robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Fri 06/20/08 12:08 AM
SI yo tengo muchos amigos y amigas!! Estoy tambien SI VIVA DE SPEEDY! Tranquilo por favor compadre no speedy aqui Ahorita es amigos y amigas Si? Muchisimas gracias

Spaceman2008 Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 4416	Fri 06/20/08 12:11 AM
SI yo tengo muchos amigos y amigas!! Estoy tambien SI VIVA DE SPEEDY! Tranquilo por favor compadre no speedy aqui Ahorita es amigos y amigas Si? Muchisimas gracias Yo tengo una problema....estoy hablando espanol....Y YO QUIERO HABLAR INGLES!! NO SE! AYUDA POR FAVOR!!!!

cool_guy_incognito Joined Sun 08/26/07 Posts: 643	Fri 06/20/08 12:13 AM
The politicaly correct answer is of course yes but someone usualy likes one more than the other listen to this guy cause he sounds somewhat correct, and because he's got BIG muscles! I don't want any trouble man! i kid, i kid, but yeah, it sounds right.

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Fri 06/20/08 12:13 AM
SI yo tengo muchos amigos y amigas!! Estoy tambien SI VIVA DE SPEEDY! Tranquilo por favor compadre no speedy aqui Ahorita es amigos y amigas Si? Muchisimas gracias Yo tengo una problema....estoy hablando espanol....Y YO QUIERO HABLAR INGLES!! NO SE! AYUDA POR FAVOR!!!! no problemas para me senor

Spaceman2008 Joined Mon 01/21/08 Posts: 4416	Fri 06/20/08 12:34 AM
IT'S A MIRACLE! THE CURSE HAS BEEN LIFTED! YAY!

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Fri 06/20/08 01:33 AM
Yes, I have a lot of male friends and we have never even thought about crossing the line. I have one I have been friends with for a long time and we will always be good friends. Just like men having female friends, nothing worng with it

2Btrue2One Joined Wed 06/13/07 Posts: 2447	Fri 06/20/08 02:37 AM
do you think you can have a friend of the opposite sex and neither one end up with feelings, desires, etc for the other? I had a lady roommate once, and before we ever decieded to be roommates it was understood that we would live together only as friends, but the more time that passed, I noticed changes in her towards me, she began doing things that a girlfriend would do for a boyfriend, at first I thought she was just being nice, but found out later that there was more to it than that.. she was pretty, but I didn't feel the same way about her that she did me and I told her that, and it eventually caused to many problems.. so I decided the best thing to do to preserve our friendship was to move out, sadly, because I couldn't return the feelings like she had for me, our friendship ended as well..

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Fri 06/20/08 02:45 AM
sure - hi Joyce

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Fri 06/20/08 04:38 AM
do you think you can have a friend of the opposite sex and neither one end up with feelings, desires, etc for the other? No. Not at all. Sooner or later, it happens. Especially once you have touched hands....or cybered or had phone sex for that matter.

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Fri 06/20/08 04:41 AM
No.......!!! Well maybe if they are really unattractive to me.......but as the saying goes...when harry met sally....... I agree.

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Fri 06/20/08 04:43 AM
Not to bust on men but this is true. Women can seperate friends and lovers. Men will "play" the friend role but given just the slightest of signal will more than likely act upon it I think men are horny animals....... and given the signal would sleep with us whenever we said ok!!! Friend or not..... nodding emphatically

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Fri 06/20/08 04:44 AM
The politicaly correct answer is of course yes but someone usualy likes one more than the other listen to this guy cause he sounds somewhat correct, and because he's got BIG muscles! I don't want any trouble man! i kid, i kid, but yeah, it sounds right.

buffry Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 2647	Fri 06/20/08 04:45 AM
My personal experience has been that, my friendships with men have always ended up complicated by alterior motives. On their end, lol. But that doesn't mean that all relationships with the opposite sex end that way.

Troublemaker7 Joined Sun 11/04/07 Posts: 326	Fri 06/20/08 07:27 AM
Absolutely! My boyfriend has women friends that I know are just friends and will never be more. I also tend to have lots of guys friends and neither one of us have any desire to pursue a relationship beyond what we have.

2Btrue2One Joined Wed 06/13/07 Posts: 2447	Fri 06/20/08 04:26 PM Edited by 2Btrue2One on Fri 06/20/08 04:56 PM
I think men are horny animals....... and given the signal would sleep with us whenever we said ok!!! Friend or not..... Um, believe it or not, there are a lot of women out there like that as well.. but just for the record, there are those of us men maybe not many, but we do exsist, that won't just jump in the bed with a woman even if she is a knock out... and most women that know that they are, and use that to their advantage, but won't admit it...

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Fri 06/20/08 06:59 PM
Absolutely, I have many

auburngirl Joined Fri 04/27/07 Posts: 18811	Fri 06/20/08 09:02 PM
I have male friends....they are just friends.

Christinacospgs Joined Sun 04/27/08 Posts: 6376	Fri 06/20/08 09:05 PM
I guess it depends how much they look like a cute keebler elf.