Topic: So when you finally meet that someone special...
Sassier2u's photo
Wed 06/18/08 06:46 PM

Most women can get away with stayin... But most guys... including myself, don't have that luxury. Their gfs get insecure, and make them quit.
Not me, mine is staying on one of his websites also for the friends he has made there and that is why I am staying here. For the forums and the wonderfull friends I have made here flowerforyou

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Wed 06/18/08 06:46 PM
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I would think if your heart was in the right place.. you'd cancel! Or is that just me?:wink:
do you also stop talking to all your friends just because you are in a relationship?noway


Didn't think of it that wayohwell

wraithme66's photo
Wed 06/18/08 06:46 PM


Most women can get away with stayin... But most guys... including myself, don't have that luxury. Their gfs get insecure, and make them quit.


I would never make my quit! If im not gonna..why should he...it comes down to TRUST!!! :heart: flowerforyou


Thank you very much... I like youflowerforyou

izzie's photo
Wed 06/18/08 06:46 PM
i have met someone.. and we both still have our profiles up.
many of us have come to think of this as more of a social site than as a dating site..
we both still have friends here.. and both of us still communicate with them on here...
also..
i still like to chat in the threads...
keeps me entertained..

Jules0565's photo
Wed 06/18/08 06:46 PM

I would disable, it's the rite thing to do, if you don't , there would be trust issues.


There wouldnt be trust issues if each significant other had the passwords.. hey, why not?? if you have nothing to hide and they truly ARE JUST FRIENDS..right?

Sassier2u's photo
Wed 06/18/08 06:47 PM



I would tell them that I found and made ALOT of friends here..and I will keep it to keep in touch with them..thats why they have LOOKING FOR FRIENDSHIP...



Ditto that. Plus if you've found that someone here it makes this site seem all the more special. This is much more than a dating site. It is a close knit community.


Damn right Mitch!!!drinker drinker flowerforyou





Sassy! Me to girly!blushing
I am so happy for you. You will have to tell me all about him

FaithfulOne78's photo
Wed 06/18/08 06:47 PM



Most women can get away with stayin... But most guys... including myself, don't have that luxury. Their gfs get insecure, and make them quit.


I would never make my quit! If im not gonna..why should he...it comes down to TRUST!!! :heart: flowerforyou


Thank you very much... I like youflowerforyou

flowerforyou My pleasure...and i like you tooflowerforyou

awolf1010's photo
Wed 06/18/08 06:47 PM

why would I cancel? I love the people here; it doesn't mean I want to date them.


sad sad sad bigsmile flowerforyou

hikerchick's photo
Wed 06/18/08 06:47 PM



why would I cancel? I love the people here; it doesn't mean I want to date them.


drinker drinker
thank yousmokin
plus, the forums are fun..that is the only reason I am here..why should you have to give up something that you love just because you found someone?

no photo
Wed 06/18/08 06:47 PM
Nope!I have many dear friends here that I would never break contact with regardless of the site closing(I hope not)or my next relationship.It's a pkg deal or there is no relationship for there is no trust anyhow.My bearific friends are 4 keeps.Woo-Hoo!:wink: flowerforyou drinker
:heart: :wink:

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Wed 06/18/08 06:48 PM
i think as long as a person is trust worthy why not be able to stay on the site and if their not than i wouldn't be with them in the first place..of course the allure of the blue box is powerful ....:wink:

hikerchick's photo
Wed 06/18/08 06:48 PM

Most women can get away with stayin... But most guys... including myself, don't have that luxury. Their gfs get insecure, and make them quit.
Don't date insecure women. I won't date an insecure man.

wraithme66's photo
Wed 06/18/08 06:49 PM


Most women can get away with stayin... But most guys... including myself, don't have that luxury. Their gfs get insecure, and make them quit.
Don't date insecure women. I won't date an insecure man.


That lesson... Already learned.

cookiemonster2's photo
Wed 06/18/08 06:50 PM




Most women can get away with stayin... But most guys... including myself, don't have that luxury. Their gfs get insecure, and make them quit.


I would never make my quit! If im not gonna..why should he...it comes down to TRUST!!! :heart: flowerforyou


Thank you very much... I like youflowerforyou

flowerforyou My pleasure...and i like you tooflowerforyou
hey u im doin good just workn again

awolf1010's photo
Wed 06/18/08 06:51 PM
why would you worry......if your together who would have more than a min or two...just to say hi

Alterego1961's photo
Wed 06/18/08 06:51 PM
I would ask if I could stay, and give her full access to my account so she could check up on me whenever she wanted. I wouldn't consider that prying because if I had actually found "The One", then my life would be an open book to her anyway. No secrets, no lying, no sneaking around. I would consider giving her have access to my account as proof of my honesty and love. If she still insisted I deactivate I would be sad, but I know the reason she was asking that of me was probably due to being burned in the past, and that is part of who she is now. If I couldn't accept her for who she is now or in the future then she wasn't the right one for me in the first place. flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

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Wed 06/18/08 06:54 PM
What it comes down to is that JSH is much more than a dating site. Or perhaps I should say that it is unlike any dating site that I've ever been a part of. I've met some of the most amazing and wonderful people I've ever known through the forums here. JSH is like extended family to me. Do we all get along?
No!!!laugh laugh But there is something truly unique going on here. Until the day there is no one left to talk to and laugh with I'll be staying around.


love Oh, and I have found that someone...love

bigsmile And I'm still here....bigsmile

jonny63's photo
Wed 06/18/08 06:56 PM
Would have to deactivate but would be sure to say goodbye for now to everyone. A few select friends would get my personal email address. You can always reactivate to say hi.

auburngirl's photo
Wed 06/18/08 06:57 PM
I will probably stay around...just not nearly as often.

lilangel2's photo
Wed 06/18/08 06:57 PM



I would disable, it's the rite thing to do, if you don't , there would be trust issues.


WHAT??? Trust issues? nahhh...too many tattletails on here HA! Do you think Peccy and I would leave from here altogether? This is where we met...where we fell in love noway noway noway Besides, I am your MUTUAL MATCH don't leave meeeeeeee!sad sad sad


:heart: :heart: what would we do without you two??


I'm sure life would go on HA!bigsmile But, we would just love to be here amongst friends and to pester a few others bigsmile devil bigsmile