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is women my age are kinda put off by me having a four year old...does it make a difference...
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If they don't have children, maybe they are not ready to take on that responsibility...
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How old are ya?
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If they don't have children, maybe they are not ready to take on that responsibility... yea either that or they dont wanna split time with a young child... |
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Seriously? It wouldn't deter me at all, unless the ex is a hag..... That's their problem and consider it pre-weeding!!!
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is women my age are kinda put off by me having a four year old...does it make a difference... |
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How old are ya? [/quote lets just say...Old...LOL 39 |
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If they don't have children, maybe they are not ready to take on that responsibility... yea either that or they dont wanna split time with a young child... it is hard when the child is young. It will be more than splitting time, taking on a responsibility, if the child lives with you. If not, then your relationship will have to take first place, if you are serious about the person. Just my thoughts... |
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I think thats wierd, becuz now a days everybody has kids. It would be more of a turn off if you had like 20 kids, or 4 different baby mama dramas. But your not like 16 have a 4yr old. Kick'em to the curb! Whats not to luv about kids...
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I'm not sure that at almost 40 I would want to take on a 4 year old myself. You can't really get mad at them. Men and woman have the right to choose whether or not they want to be in a relationship with small childre. It really changes how the relationship can go.
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people who never have or do not have children have a hard time understanding. if it makes a difference then they are not worth it.
everyone has differnet things in their life. |
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Edited by
merlin2525
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Wed 06/18/08 12:06 PM
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How old are ya? [/quote lets just say...Old...LOL 39 Wait until you get to be like me. 43 with a 6 yr old. Women will think you are the anti-christ |
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is women my age are kinda put off by me having a four year old...does it make a difference... |
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How old are ya? [/quote lets just say...Old...LOL 39 Wait until you get to be like me. 43 with a 6 yr old. Women will think you are the anti-christ OR 46 WITH A 6 YR OLD THEN YOU ARE A LEPER |
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Just move on and find someone that don't mind.Thats all you can do.Good luck!
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Well my kids are grown 23 & 25 and most my age their kids are grown as well.
But it does happen a lot and do seem to find that more and more men my age do have younger kids. Is it a factor if I date them humm no it would not make any difference. Besides I'm not out to replace anyones mom just be a friend if it is possible with them. For it would be part of the one you date. You either take them as a package or walk away. |
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Advertisement: 44 no kids.
I think you just met a few in a row that are like that. I get some questions about not having any kids so it can go both ways. Just move on. |
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