Topic: what i am finding
Beavis31's photo
Wed 06/18/08 11:55 AM
is women my age are kinda put off by me having a four year old...does it make a difference...

lcjw's photo
Wed 06/18/08 11:56 AM
If they don't have children, maybe they are not ready to take on that responsibility...

Babygirl's photo
Wed 06/18/08 11:57 AM
How old are ya?

Beavis31's photo
Wed 06/18/08 11:58 AM

If they don't have children, maybe they are not ready to take on that responsibility...


yea either that or they dont wanna split time with a young child...

no photo
Wed 06/18/08 11:59 AM
Seriously? It wouldn't deter me at all, unless the ex is a hag..... That's their problem and consider it pre-weeding!!! :angry:

Jill298's photo
Wed 06/18/08 11:59 AM

is women my age are kinda put off by me having a four year old...does it make a difference...
Same thing with guys. It just depends on the person...

Beavis31's photo
Wed 06/18/08 11:59 AM

How old are ya?
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lets just say...Old...LOL

39

lcjw's photo
Wed 06/18/08 12:01 PM


If they don't have children, maybe they are not ready to take on that responsibility...


yea either that or they dont wanna split time with a young child...

it is hard when the child is young. It will be more than splitting time, taking on a responsibility, if the child lives with you. If not, then your relationship will have to take first place, if you are serious about the person. Just my thoughts...

Babygirl's photo
Wed 06/18/08 12:02 PM
I think thats wierd, becuz now a days everybody has kids. It would be more of a turn off if you had like 20 kids, or 4 different baby mama dramas. But your not like 16 have a 4yr old. Kick'em to the curb! Whats not to luv about kids...

Jill298's photo
Wed 06/18/08 12:03 PM
I'm not sure that at almost 40 I would want to take on a 4 year old myself. You can't really get mad at them. Men and woman have the right to choose whether or not they want to be in a relationship with small childre. It really changes how the relationship can go.

nurjoyce's photo
Wed 06/18/08 12:05 PM
people who never have or do not have children have a hard time understanding. if it makes a difference then they are not worth it.
everyone has differnet things in their life.

merlin2525's photo
Wed 06/18/08 12:06 PM
Edited by merlin2525 on Wed 06/18/08 12:06 PM


How old are ya?
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lets just say...Old...LOL

39


Wait until you get to be like me.
43 with a 6 yr old.
Women will think you are the anti-christ

no photo
Wed 06/18/08 12:06 PM

is women my age are kinda put off by me having a four year old...does it make a difference...
i dont see why it should matternoway

FETTS61's photo
Wed 06/18/08 12:08 PM



How old are ya?
[/quote

lets just say...Old...LOL

39


Wait until you get to be like me.
43 with a 6 yr old.
Women will think you are the anti-christ


OR 46 WITH A 6 YR OLD
THEN YOU ARE A LEPER

no photo
Wed 06/18/08 12:14 PM
Just move on and find someone that don't mind.Thats all you can do.Good luck!drinker

TxsGal3333's photo
Wed 06/18/08 12:20 PM
Well my kids are grown 23 & 25 and most my age their kids are grown as well.

But it does happen a lot and do seem to find that more and more men my age do have younger kids.

Is it a factor if I date them humm no it would not make any difference.

Besides I'm not out to replace anyones mom just be a friend if it is possible with them.

For it would be part of the one you date.

You either take them as a package or walk away.bigsmile

DestinysDream's photo
Wed 06/18/08 12:36 PM
Advertisement: 44 no kids. :wink:



I think you just met a few in a row that are like that. I get some questions about not having any kids so it can go both ways. Just move on.