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Topic: people often say that their partners
sassylea Joined Fri 05/02/08 Posts: 116	Tue 06/17/08 05:28 PM
i've gone through that too.

feistybaby Joined Fri 04/25/08 Posts: 2422	Tue 06/17/08 05:31 PM
My ex husband was involved in an accident that completely changed his personality. He changed from my prince charming to my worst nightmare almost over night.

Serchin4MyRedWine Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 3483	Tue 06/17/08 05:35 PM
exactly why i say live together first...then get married (if you're so inclined). you never know someone until you live with them. I had a good friend who lived with his girlfriend for 10 years...they were always so happy (at least from what I could tell) ...then they decided to get married.....they were filing for divorce after one year of marriage....LOL Whats up with that

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Tue 06/17/08 05:36 PM
Part of the situation is that we tend to see others how we want to see them, not as who they actually are. bingo

seahawks Joined Thu 01/11/07 Posts: 16735	Tue 06/17/08 05:38 PM
exactly why i say live together first...then get married (if you're so inclined). you never know someone until you live with them. I had a good friend who lived with his girlfriend for 10 years...they were always so happy (at least from what I could tell) ...then they decided to get married.....they were filing for divorce after one year of marriage....LOL Whats up with that me and my xwife.!!

bastet126 Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 15553	Tue 06/17/08 05:40 PM
exactly why i say live together first...then get married (if you're so inclined). you never know someone until you live with them. I had a good friend who lived with his girlfriend for 10 years...they were always so happy (at least from what I could tell) ...then they decided to get married.....they were filing for divorce after one year of marriage....LOL Whats up with that well, that blows that theory, or maybe it's just a testament to marriage.

symbelmyne Joined Mon 01/14/08 Posts: 5356	Tue 06/17/08 05:42 PM
people tend to change over time, as a couple you either grow closer together or further apart..and I do agree that initially we see what we want to see..and show only that which we want others to see...

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Tue 06/17/08 05:46 PM
exactly why i say live together first...then get married (if you're so inclined). you never know someone until you live with them. I had a good friend who lived with his girlfriend for 10 years...they were always so happy (at least from what I could tell) ...then they decided to get married.....they were filing for divorce after one year of marriage....LOL Whats up with that Its like this. I like volks Wagon You like volks wagon but yours may be nothing like mine see?

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Tue 06/17/08 05:49 PM
people tend to change over time, as a couple you either grow closer together or further apart..and I do agree that initially we see what we want to see..and show only that which we want others to see... replace change with evolve you will be a lot more accurate

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Tue 06/17/08 05:54 PM
My ex-wife started out normal but became more and more stiflingly and suffocatingly overpossessive as time went on. She also seemed to lose 20-30 IQ points every month. As a matter of fact, seems like almost everyone I've ever been involved with has been exactly the same way....