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were great at first and then changed into a completely different person over time. someone who they say they did not even recognise.
have you had this experience and what was it like? 
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Part of the situation is that we tend to see others how we want to see them, not as who they actually are.
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It happened to my ex, but only after our divorce.
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When people marry at such a young age, their views, opinions and the things they want out of life change as they get older and wiser.
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All a matter of vegetation and brain surgury
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That's exactly how my ex boyfriend was. When we first started dating he was amazing. He was so sweet and caring. Probably the most amazing guy I had ever met-and then after a few months, he completly changed. It seemed like he cared more about himself than anyone else. He started using me and abusing me, taking me for granted, he would talk down to me, and make me feel worthless. I definitely did not recognize the person he had become.
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Edited by
robert1652
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Tue 06/17/08 05:18 PM
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there is always two sides to a point of view
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That's exactly how my ex boyfriend was. When we first started dating he was amazing. He was so sweet and caring. Probably the most amazing guy I had ever met-and then after a few months, he completly changed. It seemed like he cared more about himself than anyone else. He started using me and abusing me, taking me for granted, he would talk down to me, and make me feel worthless. I definitely did not recognize the person he had become. Thats because you got played! |
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maybe they are not the only one that has changed though....we all change as the months and years to by....
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exactly why i say live together first...then get married (if you're so inclined). you never know someone until you live with them.
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yes i have many times. my fiance and i are going through it right now. we have been together for a year and about 2 months. and we're both already starting to change
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me never again married take it or leave it.
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we dont believe in marriage so we probably wont' go down that road.
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 Shack up! That way if you wake up with a stranger you can ask them to leave. 
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yes i have many times. my fiance and i are going through it right now. we have been together for a year and about 2 months. and we're both already starting to change |
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thats very true. we have evolved but sometimes that can be a bad thing
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i am shacked up in a way but i would never ask him to leave. lol
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It happened to my ex, but only after our divorce. She changed, then she left, and then showed me just how ugly she could get. She said I changed too, though. I don't think people really change all that much, they just show you a different side to them, what they're willing to and what they want to show you changes over time. |
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true true.
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good or bad depends upon ones perspective
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