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Topic: Bad Deal
chopperdan's photo
Mon 06/16/08 04:33 PM
Well I dont know if it's worth the pain.

BOO2786's photo
Mon 06/16/08 04:35 PM
maybe she's been burned to many times. but she should still listen to what you have to say and give you a chance to explain. good luck with how ever you move forward.

chopperdan's photo
Mon 06/16/08 04:36 PM
No she is just really flighty. I have given it evey chance and now it's in the ole **** can.

chopperdan's photo
Mon 06/16/08 04:36 PM
Just now decided it isnt worth the bs

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Mon 06/16/08 04:39 PM

So I am not crazy?


no, you are not crazy.

chopperdan's photo
Mon 06/16/08 04:40 PM
Tulsa Thank you pretty lady.

BOO2786's photo
Mon 06/16/08 04:41 PM
Then it's time to move on and find someone else to converse with. The pain will go away but you'll look at the next one alot differently.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Mon 06/16/08 04:47 PM

Tulsa Thank you pretty lady.


You are welcome.
It may hurt now but in the long run someone that closed minded and lacks the ability to communicate will only lead to a long term pain. flowerforyou

chopperdan's photo
Mon 06/16/08 04:49 PM
God you make sense but yes it does hurt when your branded an asshole for someting you had no control over.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Mon 06/16/08 04:52 PM

God you make sense but yes it does hurt when your branded an asshole for someting you had no control over.


YOU know you did nothing wrong. If she won't talk to you and have an adult converstion then I don't think you are the ass.

chopperdan's photo
Mon 06/16/08 04:54 PM
I thought it was the one but I was wrong. Hows come it still hurts.

TheShadow's photo
Mon 06/16/08 04:57 PM

Here's the bad thing she wont listen and refuses to talk and yet we have never met How damn stupid is that? I must be an idiot.


I know it sucks, but move on. You'll be wasting your time trying to work around somone that don't want to listen and to think about it. if she is that easily influence, then how is it going to be if you two get really close and start dating? Think about it...

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Mon 06/16/08 04:57 PM

I thought it was the one but I was wrong. Hows come it still hurts.


It may hurt for a while but you will get past it. No one has ever died of a broken heart.

no photo
Mon 06/16/08 04:58 PM
you ain't crazy---it's something you learn every day on the things people do to other--so ride on, bro--

Redshirt's photo
Mon 06/16/08 04:58 PM

I thought it was the one but I was wrong. Hows come it still hurts.


Because you put yourself into the relationship. Only way to prevent getting hurt is never to reach out. JMOP - would rather run the risk of being hurt.

Hang in the bro'. Lots of nice level headed women here.

flowerforyou flowerforyou For the Ladies of JSH.

feistybaby's photo
Mon 06/16/08 05:05 PM
I have to ask alot of questions about this one...were you suposedly exclusive with this person? Did she have proof or was it rumor? If in fact you were talking to other women were you just chatting or were you hitting on them? All these things may have been huge factors in the lady deciding not to talk with you further...I'm just saying...i won't condemn her out of hand she may have felt she had ample reason to terminate the relationship

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