I have to get this off my chest and I need some advice. I was on another site and I was discovered by what I thought was a babe. She feel madly in love with me and we hit off until someone viously attacked by sending nasty e-mails about me tell her I was IMing other women. This was an untrue statement but I could not prove it as she refuses to talk to me. I am devestated. I was so into her but it seems she was easliy dupped and now has no contact with me. I need to move on but why and how do you keep this from happening and if she beleives this crap what would you do???? Do I accept my losses and move on because the mistrust thing will always be there apparantly or do I just wait and see what happens. I have no other recourse as she beleives what this vicous rumor mill has stated. Any advice anyone????

P.S. I feel like an ass now.

Move on, sometimes things just are not ment to be.

are you married or dating?
if not then why arent you allowed to be talking to other females??

Move on, if she blieves that and will not confront you on it then Dump her, she is not worth the drama

was she willing to listen to your side of the story?

i agree with patsfan

Pat you make sense. I know that with this level of mistrust it would be a nitemare.

i agree with kerbear too, lifes too short for drama, definitely when its messin with your head bro

If she was that easily duped into believing the gossip about you then she's not the one you for you. Move on.

Here's the bad thing she wont listen and refuses to talk and yet we have never met How damn stupid is that? I must be an idiot.

We all get knocked down sometimes, it sucks, but in time you will have forgoten about her. Cold one for you

because some females get jeolous too, not just guys

will this ****ty feeling go away? I feel I was left in the dirt.

(((((((((((((((Dan)))))))))))))))


Hiya, I'm so sorry!

Write her a note stating the facts.

Tell her to have them tell you who you were talking to.

& if so send her a note..
Why are all these people in others business...

She should at least give you a chance.

You haven't even met?

She appantly has a mental block. I have sent an e-mail but I am still the butt. I hate looking like an ass espcially when I didnt do anything, but I will tell you this internet **** is getting me really down.

AMEN!!!

So I am not crazy?

If you didn't do it & have nothing to hide you shouldn't feel guilty..
Give her a lil time to get over it then try & talk..