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why is it so hard to find a good woman when u r a single dad and am new to this dating thing i have not done this in years. now i feel like giving up. is it this hard when your no a parent?
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Its hard no matter who you are.
But when your a parent, it tends to make it tougher. Most people want children of their own only. Or, they dont like kids. But there are those who dig kids or have some themselves, so dont give up. 
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why is it so hard to find a good woman when u r a single dad and am new to this dating thing i have not done this in years. now i feel like giving up. is it this hard when your no a parent? I am there with you blue 
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Its hard no matter who you are. But when your a parent, it tends to make it tougher. Most people want children of their own only. Or, they dont like kids. But there are those who dig kids or have some themselves, so dont give up. |
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beats the sh*t outta me...no one online wants to date me
 and it's the time issues we have created by the kids...i've never used a sitter to go on a date...only go out when all 3 have plans at the same time...which basically never happens...you'll have fun and meet lots of ladies here if you post in the forums...welcome, have fun and i hope you find who/what you're looking for ... b
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Edited by
jochanni
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Sun 06/15/08 01:18 AM
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Posting here was not a good idea!
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Edited by
stylishdotcom
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Sun 06/15/08 01:16 AM
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why is it so hard to find a good woman when u r a single dad and am new to this dating thing i have not done this in years. now i feel like giving up. is it this hard when your no a parent? Ive been through this myself, I gave the man 7 years of my life...I was on standby...kids and ex wife always priority...which is correct ofcourse, but I wanted a bit more then being a substitute Dont give up though...there are female single parents out there too...just like me...but try and get both sets of kids to mingle and make friends...similar ages helps. My kids were too old for his, Mine are on the verge of leaving home...his were just starting out at secondary school...I felt...well Heavens I cant step back in time like this and begin all over again |
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Not only that, I'm having a hard time just making friends. It seems people respond better if you act like a maniac. I usually spend more time alone than with others, and I'm not sure why. I smile, I care, I'm compassionate, I'm fun....blah...blah...blah...but for some reason, nobody calls my cellphone. I don't know what I'm doing wrong. Maybe I'm putting out bad vibes, but I'm beginning to believe nobody likes me and it might be better to hate than to love! nope...no way...btw i lost your # that's why i haven't called |
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beats the sh*t outta me...no one online wants to date me and it's the time issues we have created by the kids...i've never used a sitter to go on a date...only go out when all 3 have plans at the same time...which basically never happens...you'll have fun and meet lots of ladies here if you post in the forums...welcome, have fun and i hope you find who/what you're looking for ... b |
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beats the sh*t outta me...no one online wants to date me and it's the time issues we have created by the kids...i've never used a sitter to go on a date...only go out when all 3 have plans at the same time...which basically never happens...you'll have fun and meet lots of ladies here if you post in the forums...welcome, have fun and i hope you find who/what you're looking for ... b not really a problem...i'd rather spend time w/them anyway...that's why i love this site...one day they'll all be grown and gone and i'll have all the me time i can stand |
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Edited by
stylishdotcom
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Sun 06/15/08 01:22 AM
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beats the sh*t outta me...no one online wants to date me and it's the time issues we have created by the kids...i've never used a sitter to go on a date...only go out when all 3 have plans at the same time...which basically never happens...you'll have fun and meet lots of ladies here if you post in the forums...welcome, have fun and i hope you find who/what you're looking for ... b not really a problem...i'd rather spend time w/them anyway...that's why i love this site...one day they'll all be grown and gone and i'll have all the me time i can stand Thats my point...Ive done all that...now its time for me Ive 5 Grandchildren...fantastic...but I can hand them back at the end of day
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i have one and my son has custody and they moved back in w/me...i'm too old to have a baby
 she'll be 2 next wk and is the light of our lives...my kids are my world...
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why is it so hard to find a good woman when u r a single dad and am new to this dating thing i have not done this in years. now i feel like giving up. is it this hard when your no a parent?   Hey bro, life is hard. So finding love is about half that hard,lol Many faces to see and many conversations to share...and then its still all a chance click that works from its beginning to just grow more each day and you will know it when ya find-it..or it find you. Me,,still looking and still trying. Going on about two years HERE NOW,,"WHATS" that tell ya?? Welcome here and meet some people and call some your friends....have fun and share your smile..   Just let your words be seen and maybe a great she will find you her guy.. 
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iam4u...well said and Happy Father's day.
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I don't have kid's but no luck yet
no one has wrote me. just call me true,blue i just can't seem to get it right but i have not given up i was a few times but try other sites to this is one of te goodone's to make friends |
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why is it so hard to find a good woman when u r a single dad and am new to this dating thing i have not done this in years. now i feel like giving up. is it this hard when your no a parent? You've written on post and you're giving up already? |
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i dont know.... for me i wouldnt date anyone myself who never had children of course if they could not have a child i would.... my reasoning is im done having children and would be looking for the same.... if i was looking to date
welcome to just say hi...
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I know what you are talking about.
I'm a single Dad. My little girl is six. It seems that all the ladies around my age, already have grown children.And not interested in someone with children so young. Or they have never had children and don't want any kids around them. I have talked to some ladies that are younger than me. They have no problem with someone that has children. But they would like to have some themselves. That's not a real big problem. But I think it would be unfair to the new born child. As far as me being as old as I am. I'm 43. If we started now. I would be 50 when the child started school. I would be in my early 60's when the child graduates High school. Children have it bad enough nowadays. And I don't want to do anything to make it worse on someone that would be family. Well, anyway welcome. There are some very sweet people here.
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