i have been talking to a guy i met off another dating site we been seeing each other for the past 2 months the other day he calls me and tells me he doesn't feel like talking i have not heard from him so i called him today and he was very short should i give up and look for someone else or should i wait to see where this is going to go with him he tells me its not me that he is going through a bad time right now the last relationship i was in the guy told me the same thing and then i cought him with another woman should i stick around need help not shure of what to do thanks for your advice

I think he has something else going on...another woman...yup...move on

heck no, there's writing on the wall, move on.

First off never put your life on hold for someone else.

If he is going threw something, then it is his issue to deal with. be supportive, but don't be a doormat.

Do what you feel in your heart, that's all anyone can really tell you.

Just give it a few days. Don't call him. The ball is now in his court.

not knowing th hole story,, but if he has lost intrest,,,,go find another maby try a different settting for what company you seek

you always think there is a "hole" story, boney HA!

Sounds like it might be time to move on

move on and stay busy with ur own life..

if its meant to be it will happen...if not WHY worry???

make him come to you from now on!!! try not being available...

Give it a few days if he doesn't contact you move on...he obviously wasn't as into you as you were him....don't let it get you down just get back on the horse and ride.... Don't take time to write....don't take time to call...time to say NEXT~

do me a favour hun give him the pink slip.NEXT!!!!!
life is to short to be wondering what if
ur beautiful and u will find the right person

If he hasn't been calling you he's probably loosing interest. Might give him a day or two if he doesn't call move on.

lern to be happy alone ..
relationships only leed to pain and heart break ..

that is so sad.....yeah,move on,but remember.....you are with friends now

thanks for the advice i have deleted his number off my phone so i won't be calling him.

way to go!!! you deserve better than that!!

Wow ... way to go, girl! *wishes she had your backbone*

now the only problem happens if the number is memorized OR he calls you...

Never be hasty...you jump to conclusions, you might get hurt. Your own feelings that is. Never assume, because you know what they say when you assume. Even the best couples have their days when they go through a gloomy period, so what is someone supposed to do, drop you like a rock and move on. No, be supportive. Be encouraging for whatever the reason. Be straightforward and talk to him and tell you need to know for your own benefit. You got a little too quick by taking peoples advice instead of listening to your heart. Now, if you didn't memorize his number and you regret what you did, how are you going to call him?
If you need to know if its another woman involved, be point blank with him and let him know you've got to know. If there's not, then offer support and let him know you are always there for him. Good luck.

(((Wolfeyes))) You are a wise man.

You can't let trust issues write the script for the way you approach present and future relationships. Every relationship is different and you have to determine your level of trust with each one individually based on their actions and behavior toward you. He says he's going through some stuff right now...then maybe that's all it is.

You want to tell him about your concerns, but not dump more issues in his lap right now. I would probably give him a few days, while letting him know my door is open...but if he didn't come to me with it after that...I would bring it up before writing it off.