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(((Wolfeyes))) You are a wise man.  You can't let trust issues write the script for the way you approach present and future relationships. Every relationship is different and you have to determine your level of trust with each one individually based on their actions and behavior toward you. He says he's going through some stuff right now...then maybe that's all it is. You want to tell him about your concerns, but not dump more issues in his lap right now. I would probably give him a few days, while letting him know my door is open...but if he didn't come to me with it after that...I would bring it up before writing it off. Thanks Roe, just the voice from someone who is always giving and forgiving. Just too hasty of a decision to write him off instead of trying to be concerned. It reminds me of my poem, If I Lost... |
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(((Wolfeyes))) You are a wise man. You can't let trust issues write the script for the way you approach present and future relationships. Every relationship is different and you have to determine your level of trust with each one individually based on their actions and behavior toward you. He says he's going through some stuff right now...then maybe that's all it is. You want to tell him about your concerns, but not dump more issues in his lap right now. I would probably give him a few days, while letting him know my door is open...but if he didn't come to me with it after that...I would bring it up before writing it off. Thanks Roe, just the voice from someone who is always giving and forgiving. Just too hasty of a decision to write him off instead of trying to be concerned. It reminds me of my poem, If I Lost...  Lovely!
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mmm..those two above me make alotta sense!!
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(((Wolfeyes))) You are a wise man. You can't let trust issues write the script for the way you approach present and future relationships. Every relationship is different and you have to determine your level of trust with each one individually based on their actions and behavior toward you. He says he's going through some stuff right now...then maybe that's all it is. You want to tell him about your concerns, but not dump more issues in his lap right now. I would probably give him a few days, while letting him know my door is open...but if he didn't come to me with it after that...I would bring it up before writing it off. Thanks Roe, just the voice from someone who is always giving and forgiving. Just too hasty of a decision to write him off instead of trying to be concerned. It reminds me of my poem, If I Lost... Lovely! Maybe if she went and read it, she would be a little more compassionate. Thanks for re-evaluating Brooke. |
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Just give it a few days. Don't call him. The ball is now in his court.  It will quickly become clear if his are in another court, too. 
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he called lastnight we talked for 2 hours he said he was sorry and wanted to know if i still wanted to be with him i said yes.and i told him i would be here for him any time he needed me.together we could get through what ever it is he is going through.
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WoW...Now that sounds great....positive direction....hope it works out for the two of you...
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me 2 i called him this morning to see how he was doing he said he was ok. we talked about what he is going through i told him no matter what i would always be here any time he needed me.we all go through things in our life its how we handle them that counts some people deal with things alone while other people talk to someone about them.all you can really do is be here for them.
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Nice ending
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You should first, find out, if the reason he's upset, and doesn' feel like talking, has anything to do with you or something you did. If it doesn't, and he still doesn' talk to you, then something else is wrong, and you might be better off finding another. But if it does, get him to talk to you about it, some how, before you do anything (relationship wise) no matter how you do it. Then take care of the amtter, even if you have to ask him what he wants you to do and do it, no matter what.
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