2 Next
Topic: guys...
jisytg14's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:06 AM




confuse me....one day they say that you are beautiful and they want to meet you. The next day they won't respond to your emails. What gives?huh grumble noway :cry: brokenheart


i think some people put up fake pictures of themselves... and are just on here looking for attention.. and then when you actually get close and wanna meet .. they realize they can't.. cuz they don't look at all like you think they do hahaha... but maybe that's just what i tell myself laugh laugh laugh


No I think you are right on with that one.


really?huh what makes people do that kinda stuff? I just don't get it. I'm me. what you see is what you get. I can't stand deceitfulness. It drives me nuts.grumble noway


i don't think its malicious.... i think some people just have low self esteem and want a little TLC... so they come on an online site.. talk to a few girls or guys that tell them they are awesome.. and that's all they want.. they don't really want to have to face anyone... thats just what i think

Neurofriction's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:06 AM
Edited by Neurofriction on Sat 06/14/08 10:08 AM




confuse me....one day they say that you are beautiful and they want to meet you. The next day they won't respond to your emails. What gives?huh grumble noway :cry: brokenheart


i think some people put up fake pictures of themselves... and are just on here looking for attention.. and then when you actually get close and wanna meet .. they realize they can't.. cuz they don't look at all like you think they do hahaha... but maybe that's just what i tell myself laugh laugh laugh


No I think you are right on with that one.


really?huh what makes people do that kinda stuff? I just don't get it. I'm me. what you see is what you get. I can't stand deceitfulness. It drives me nuts.grumble noway


I can't stand being played either. I'm not here for games it is what some ppl find as fun I guess. Must have less a life than me to do things like that...lol

boneyjoe's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:08 AM
i have no idea,,,,but i'm sure there is some dumb reason,,i like th one about having a fake picture,,,,,,i seen a lot on here that should be telling th truth about there self,,,,,,,,goood luck with your quest,,,hope you find your answer

catchme_ifucan's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:09 AM
It the season, everybody is busy doin life..
Look how slow it's been on here
Hardly anybody is even online on yahoo..\

I've hardly had any mail latelyohwell

Feeling all neglected! sad

Godschosengirl's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:09 AM
thank you.

Neurofriction's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:09 AM





confuse me....one day they say that you are beautiful and they want to meet you. The next day they won't respond to your emails. What gives?huh grumble noway :cry: brokenheart


i think some people put up fake pictures of themselves... and are just on here looking for attention.. and then when you actually get close and wanna meet .. they realize they can't.. cuz they don't look at all like you think they do hahaha... but maybe that's just what i tell myself laugh laugh laugh


No I think you are right on with that one.


really?huh what makes people do that kinda stuff? I just don't get it. I'm me. what you see is what you get. I can't stand deceitfulness. It drives me nuts.grumble noway


i don't think its malicious.... i think some people just have low self esteem and want a little TLC... so they come on an online site.. talk to a few girls or guys that tell them they are awesome.. and that's all they want.. they don't really want to have to face anyone... thats just what i think


Ok but all the good things said to them are based on lies so there good feelings are all shallow just like themselves.

YourLove1's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:11 AM

It the season, everybody is busy doin life..
Look how slow it's been on here
Hardly anybody is even online on yahoo..\

I've hardly had any mail latelyohwell

Feeling all neglected! sad
we love you

poohbearface19's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:12 AM
you know what girl exaclly my point several guys have done that to meeee.........heck i had even talk ed too a guy one from here on phone..........we talked but as soon as he asked about lakers and i was clueless..he never called bakc so i called back and he siad uu ill clal u back .nevr did.......its been over like i say two months asshole........... or another theyone siad yeah liek u and all....real nice guy the ni see him,,,,,,,,,, talking oto other girls and asking for there number when he never called me and ........... he is asking otherzs for ther number............dran.......why is it i like who i cant have and dont like whos right at hte palm of my hand.........yyyyyyyyyyyy now i only have one person i nmy mind................ we been talking he is so freakin far......sight oh well i jsut say..........iam goign oto be a old fart with tne cats......ahaha i have 4 already 1 dog two birds and turtle

Godschosengirl's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:16 AM
I really liked one who seemed very interested. We emailed all the time for a few days. Talked on the phone for over 2hrs. (but he called me with a restricted phone number, mind you so I could never call him...grumble ) and now...Nothing.

catchme_ifucan's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:17 AM


we love you


:wink: Thanks!

poohbearface19's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:18 AM
thats y u tell me u call dont call private i dont answer u nver well go thru....trust me theyll call unblocked.........

no photo
Sat 06/14/08 01:02 PM

I really liked one who seemed very interested. We emailed all the time for a few days. Talked on the phone for over 2hrs. (but he called me with a restricted phone number, mind you so I could never call him...grumble ) and now...Nothing.


Sounds like he's got something else at home or close by.
Could be intimidated by a woman who is attractive, intelligent, and Spirit Filled.

Godschosengirl's photo
Sat 06/14/08 06:08 PM


I really liked one who seemed very interested. We emailed all the time for a few days. Talked on the phone for over 2hrs. (but he called me with a restricted phone number, mind you so I could never call him...grumble ) and now...Nothing.


Sounds like he's got something else at home or close by.
Could be intimidated by a woman who is attractive, intelligent, and Spirit Filled.


never thought about it that way...thanksbigsmile :smile: happy

Blaze1978's photo
Sat 06/14/08 06:32 PM


confuse me....one day they say that you are beautiful and they want to meet you. The next day they won't respond to your emails. What gives?huh grumble noway :cry: brokenheart


i think some people put up fake pictures of themselves... and are just on here looking for attention.. and then when you actually get close and wanna meet .. they realize they can't.. cuz they don't look at all like you think they do hahaha... but maybe that's just what i tell myself laugh laugh laugh


This one always scares me.sick

(we need a scared, squiggly little smiley)

wendynhouston's photo
Sat 06/14/08 06:36 PM


I really liked one who seemed very interested. We emailed all the time for a few days. Talked on the phone for over 2hrs. (but he called me with a restricted phone number, mind you so I could never call him...grumble ) and now...Nothing.


Sounds like he's got something else at home or close by.
Could be intimidated by a woman who is attractive, intelligent, and Spirit Filled.


I agree he's got something closer to home.

Sir_Galahad's photo
Sat 06/14/08 07:08 PM
How many people were they looking to meet?

Being single, I might contact a number of people that seem interesting to me...and if something works with ONE of them, I'm not going to pursue the other ones aggressively ALSO.

I guess there's a "ratings" system going on in my head. But if I'm talking to two people, and one responds immediately...but soon goes MIA, then shouldn't I give the other person a chance? And IF the first one comes back, I should continue to give her just as much hope for an ongoing relationship--considering I still haven't met her?

Perhaps it is seen that the GUY has to make the first move, but some "flow" has to go both ways. Reciprocation. If the GUY is always making all the effort, how fair is that? I'm waiting for people to contact me...if they like my profile, and I like theirs, there will be continuing contact.

At least here on JSH, I can respond with an email...for free...without having to PAY for the privilege. And if I'm not interested, I can explain what qualities in the person "turn me off". Maybe it's distance, maybe it's that she has kids. Maybe she's out of my age range...

no photo
Sat 06/14/08 07:15 PM

confuse me....one day they say that you are beautiful and they want to meet you. The next day they won't respond to your emails. What gives?huh grumble noway :cry: brokenheart


It's simple. You scared them. Men are quite skiddish, you know? laugh

damnitscloudy's photo
Sat 06/14/08 07:17 PM
a woman just has to look at me funny and i run the other way. I can't read them at all! Now if you put me in a room full of wild kittens and cats i could tame them in a day, but talking to a woman is like the end of the world O_O

2 Next