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i bought my son from fort worth to austin for three weeks to visit. he is 15. we went to rent a video game and while in the car a guy called me. i answered. my son was singing to the songs on the radio. he ( the guy) said "does he ever shut up?"
hmmmmmmm i said first of all he is not talking he is singing and second he is a teen and no they never shut up. i also told him maybe we should not go out because i did not want my son to annoy him. wrong??????? did i over-react? |
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No......I would have said a lot more than that and maybe not so nice!!!
If they disrespect your children then they are disrespecting you!!!
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i bought my son from fort worth to austin for three weeks to visit. he is 15. we went to rent a video game and while in the car a guy called me. i answered. my son was singing to the songs on the radio. he ( the guy) said "does he ever shut up?" hmmmmmmm i said first of all he is not talking he is singing and second he is a teen and no they never shut up. i also told him maybe we should not go out because i did not want my son to annoy him. wrong??????? did i over-react? 
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i dont think you overreacted and yes i think he was in the wrong
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feeling rise and fall and take their course as long as we do not attach danger to them,
it's trivial 
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ohhhh I would have not been so nice.. and then hung up on him.. if he thinks that way about your son now trust me it would only get worse!
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your first reaction is usually the correct one!
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Edited by
MAKE_ME_GIGGLE
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Sat 06/14/08 09:25 AM
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you were alot nicer than I would have been
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The guy could have been joking and you took it in the wrong way... I need to hear the actual call to know for sure....
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The guy could have been joking and you took it in the wrong way... I need to hear the actual call to know for sure.... 
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Absolutely not,in fact that comment would hoist up an immediate red flag 4 me.(imo)
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Does he have children of his own? I think that he was very disrespectful and you should have hung up on him twice!
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Hmmm
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i bought my son from fort worth to austin for three weeks to visit. he is 15. we went to rent a video game and while in the car a guy called me. i answered. my son was singing to the songs on the radio. he ( the guy) said "does he ever shut up?" hmmmmmmm i said first of all he is not talking he is singing and second he is a teen and no they never shut up. i also told him maybe we should not go out because i did not want my son to annoy him. wrong??????? did i over-react? Singing is a sign of being happy and if that guy didn't like that then he needs to go |
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Absolutely not,in fact that comment would hoist up an immediate red flag 4 me.(imo)
Definitely a RED FLAG... |
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You did NOT over react.
Good for you mom 
If that S.O.B was so confident to make such a comment without thinking it was inappropriate, imagine what he would have been like around your son. Verbal abuse is still abuse. You nipped it in the bud. Your son will thank you one day and he will grow up to be a better man than that guy could ever set an example for
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The guy could have been joking and you took it in the wrong way... I need to hear the actual call to know for sure.... Keep in mind Tank, you don't mess with other peoples children.
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Joyce...
No you did not over react. What's the matter with this guy? I would not go out with a guy that is soooo insensitive to your OWN child???
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You did the right thing!
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thank you
with my sarcastic tone, i know he got the point. i am not one to get angry fast or hold a grudge or make something small into something big. in fact, i am not upset. i just think that there is no way to build any kind of meaningful relationship because my children are a huge part of my life even living miles away. and when they are with me..i want them to feel wanted and loved, not in the way! no, he does not have any children-- big problem! |
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