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Topic: okay...question
grneyedldy1967's photo
Sat 06/14/08 09:38 AM

thank you
with my sarcastic tone, i know he got the point.

i am not one to get angry fast or hold a grudge or make something small into something big.
in fact, i am not upset.
i just think that there is no way to build any kind of meaningful relationship because my children are a huge part of my life even living miles away. and when they are with me..i want them to feel wanted and loved, not in the way!

no, he does not have any children-- big problem!



Him not having children pretty much means he has no idea about anything that concerns being a parent... my ex had no children and he basically treated my son as if he did not exist... part of the reason why he is now my EX...

no photo
Sat 06/14/08 09:38 AM
I wouldn't have been that nice.

Tazz42's photo
Sat 06/14/08 09:39 AM

thank you
with my sarcastic tone, i know he got the point.

i am not one to get angry fast or hold a grudge or make something small into something big.
in fact, i am not upset.
i just think that there is no way to build any kind of meaningful relationship because my children are a huge part of my life even living miles away. and when they are with me..i want them to feel wanted and loved, not in the way!

no, he does not have any children-- big problem!

I have three children, dating men with no children can have some problems, since they don't understand being a parent is a full time job. I had to drop them as "boyfriends". MY son is now 23 and he respects women who raise thier children alone! Children learn what they live! That guy is a looser!
Good luck to you!flowerforyou





nurjoyce's photo
Sat 06/14/08 09:40 AM


thank you
with my sarcastic tone, i know he got the point.

i am not one to get angry fast or hold a grudge or make something small into something big.
in fact, i am not upset.
i just think that there is no way to build any kind of meaningful relationship because my children are a huge part of my life even living miles away. and when they are with me..i want them to feel wanted and loved, not in the way!

no, he does not have any children-- big problem!



Him not having children pretty much means he has no idea about anything that concerns being a parent... my ex had no children and he basically treated my son as if he did not exist... part of the reason why he is now my EX...


yes-- i think that was lound and clear!! a huge problem when you are not use to children.

No1sLove's photo
Sat 06/14/08 09:40 AM
I would have said, "He is very quiet from your house!" indifferent

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Sat 06/14/08 09:41 AM
Men should never piss off a MOTHER BEAR!!!:angry:

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sat 06/14/08 09:41 AM


wrong??????? did i over-react?


Not if you're thinking that guy's something serious. One exception might be if you didn't teach your kid manners, but otherwise, next.

DJCodeMoney's photo
Sat 06/14/08 09:42 AM
no way, if somebody is going to talk rude to your kid screw them

boneyjoe's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:02 AM
they are 2 sides to every story,,an for now,,every one has responded to what you said about th guy on th other end of your phone,,,ok you say your kid is 15 an you only get him a couple weeks at a time or short periods,,,(dosen't matter) but if you kids was playing th radio very loud an trying to sing with th music,,it could of ben very annoing to th guy on th phone,also depending on th volum of th radio,,,could of ben illeagel,,,there is a noise level law here in florida,,,,,,,but we only heard you side of th story,so we base that th guy was being an a** hole maken smart remarks to your son,,,,,,,,we are not paul harvy an we don't know th rest of th story,,,,,,but good luck an enjoy th company with your son:smile: :smile:

nurjoyce's photo
Sat 06/14/08 11:16 AM

they are 2 sides to every story,,an for now,,every one has responded to what you said about th guy on th other end of your phone,,,ok you say your kid is 15 an you only get him a couple weeks at a time or short periods,,,(dosen't matter) but if you kids was playing th radio very loud an trying to sing with th music,,it could of ben very annoing to th guy on th phone,also depending on th volum of th radio,,,could of ben illeagel,,,there is a noise level law here in florida,,,,,,,but we only heard you side of th story,so we base that th guy was being an a** hole maken smart remarks to your son,,,,,,,,we are not paul harvy an we don't know th rest of th story,,,,,,but good luck an enjoy th company with your son:smile: :smile:


my son use to live with me..he now lives with his dad. i do not have a set schedule to have him visit. BTW I have a 16 yo daughter and 18 yo son also. All are very well-behaved! I get constant compliments from people about my children. In fact on the way down from Fort Worth to Austin, everytime we stopped at a gas station etc. my 15 yo son would open my car door for me to get in and out-- more then some adult guys do!!! The radio was not extremely loud-- he was not singing to the top of his voice-- and if he was..... do you not think that because I only have him for a limited time he could have said it in a different way. I would have said "I'm having a hard time hearing you, can I call you back later?" or something like that. No need to be rude!

oldsage's photo
Sat 06/14/08 02:20 PM
Good call Joyce, let him walk away talking to himself.

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