right on. but yeah sitting in jail over a drunkin brawl where I end up almost killing someone and having roughly 20,000 in bills afterward and sitting a year and a half wasn't fun. and this was all over a girl telling me to punch some guy because he grabbed her a$$. that was almost 5 years ago. I mean I still drink and party just no more booze. and ask any military man about someone telling them there gonna kill u. sorry I snapped, I regret it all but my ex loved it at the time now she is scared sh!tless of me. and no I never ever hit her or another female. well unless I'm smackin their @ss......lol

It seems that most girls are just destined to be either bored sh*tless with us nice guys or two-timed, stood up, beaten etc with jerks that they still find more attractive just because they are jerks.

I don't understand this line of reasoning at all...I know there are bad girls, and if a girl has a rough edge to her, I'm quite a bit likely to distance myself from her out of an instinctual fear that I'll get burned. I'm not in the least "bored" with a girl because she has compassion, respect, and other good qualities. So why are nice guys so boring?

Don't women understand the sheer contradiction of wanting someone who breaks all the rules, yet wanting happiness at the same time? By association, neither gender can have both, because anyone who breaks all the rules only cares about making him or herself happy, no one else.

So why is this attractive?

I don't mean to rant, but it just defies logic.

IMO, women like bad boys because they are the idealism of male, neanderthal...however you like to call it. it is the ultimate 'animal' attraction for some. of course, cavemen are..extinct, so to speak, taken over by manners and equality. but we still have our instincts of days long ago, it's in our genes