I am taking myself out of the game. Not completely sure how to describe exactly my thoughts/feelings on this.

I am who I am. I am confident and proud of who and what I am. But I am completely and utterly sick and tired of the BS!!!

Seems that every man I run into, they are looking for someone to take care of them. They are self centered. I have spent my last 20 years raising them and quite frankly I am sick and tired of it. When is there a point and time that it stops? I guess I am the one who must take control of it and stop it.

The idea of a partnership is to be 50/50...pfffff yeah ok...

Please, do NOT think I am on here trashing all men....that is not my point. It is the men that find me or I find them.

As I talked to Deb this morning, I find it pitiful of the men and their mind sets that think that if you are "big woman" you are just "lucky" to get anything so you will settle for whatever BS they throw out at you...oh pllllllllllease give me a break.

Yes, many "big women" have that low self esteem and may fall into that trap, but believe when I say, I am not one of them. Ive never felt desperate a day in my life and damn sure dont now.

Every man who has passed through in my life, I have had to be the caretaker, provider, supporter, etc....I am so over that I could puke! I actually had one man tell me that because I am a big woman, I should appreciate the fact that he graces me with his presence....LMFAO....GRACES? APPRECIATE? oh my!!!!!!!!!

I guess I need to take down that big flashing neon sign above my door that says "losers welcome, free parking" lmao

Just makes me sick at some people's mentality....

In a nut shell....I QUIT!!!!!

I you Kitt

I dont blame you Hon! Just keep in touch with me,Ok? Your'e my most prized angel of whom I Love deeply,and always will! Best of luck to you and hope to intensify our friendship as time goes on!



Much Love forever,



Rodster

Honey , hang in there just cause some guys are jerks doesnt make ua ALL bad!!!

Right on, sister!

It never ceases to amaze me, how many times that I hear, that so many guys are like this.
I have to think it is more in the generations below me. Hope I am right, I could never look myself in the mirror if I treated ladies in this fashion.

SORRY Ladies.

I'll miss my blood sucking pictures.

I am so sorry sweetie. I am just recently back into this dating thing and I never realized how hard it was going to be, I know you are frustrated but please don't quit. There is someone out there for you who will love and cherish you I am sure of it. Until then much love to you.

I am sick to death of being someone's personal door mat.....

when the rug gets dirty they think they can take it out and beat it lmao.....

Awwww, (((Kitt))), he's driving you nuts.

Don't ever doubt yourself. You are a very pretty lady and beautiful on the inside too. Only shallow men act the way you are describing. And who needs that kind of man, right? It's unforunate that you are meeting those type of men.

What a way to start the day, Kitt. I hope it gets better.

It's like you are saying what I am thinking. I stayed out of all this CRAP for 10 years and now I am getting reminders WHY I did it in the first place!!!

For all of the guys who have treated you thusly, I apologise. Not all of us are like minded, nor do we all treat women so unfairly. For those of us who do, shame on them, they aren't worth your time of day anyway.
Hope you find the right one someday. God Bless

Please,please,please,please,please,please,please,please,please,please,please,please,please stay

I have had that prob for years but I found a guy who can take care of himself and does not need me to baby him... they are out there just takes time to find them... have to kiss alot of frogs to find ur prince

Power to you (((Madam)))! There is not a damn thing wrong with that! You are an inspiration to us all for speaking your mind! OMG...you are awesome!

try lesbianism...

YUCK!

worked for me...!!!

I ya Kitt