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if you think he has feelings for you also..... id give him the ultimatum..... and tell him you have feelings... to either end the bad marriage or that you cant get involved anymore cause your feelings are there..... if you think your up to that.... 
WHAT????? HE'S MARRIED... You don't tell a married man you have feelings for him... YOU WALK AWAY. Any self respecting woman would not get involved with a married man. If he'll cheat for you, he'll cheat on you. I doubt there is only one man in your town. |
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Thu 06/12/08 09:18 AM
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if you think he has feelings for you also..... id give him the ultimatum..... and tell him you have feelings... to either end the bad marriage or that you cant get involved anymore cause your feelings are there..... if you think your up to that....
WHAT????? HE'S MARRIED... You don't tell a married man you have feelings for him... YOU WALK AWAY. Any self respecting woman would not get involved with a married man. If he'll cheat for you, he'll cheat on you. I doubt there is only one man in your town. nothing wrong with having married men as friends.... but to where he lead her to have feelings for him is wrong.... that is what i was saying..... i would not of let it get that far.... never even if he is having issues would i let my mind wander to that point.... like i said to me mental is cheating it doesnt have to even be physical.... and if his wife doesnt even know about her that is really cheating! cheating and sneaking around not a man for me! i would of not spent so much time getting to know him... to have feelings... and actually not a seperated man either.... for seperated is not single rather living apart or not the ties havent been broken..... see.... to me a true friend even if it was a male female situation would not but into ones life as to be a part of a distruction of a marriage... but apparently that has already happened here.... some dont think of it that way ... jmo sounds like all this has already been done.... so for the situation to have already happened... 1 yr later hes still with his wife... ill bet that hes just a plain ole cheat is what im saying |
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I have a strict and sometimes painful rule about married men. I only befriend them if I can befriend the couple as a whole! No exceptions to that.
If I already am good friends with the man and he gets married down the road, I will lose the friendship if she does not become a close friend with me as well. Unfortunately, this rule has cost me many good friendships, as it's too natural in a new marriage to hold jealousy for the past that you share with their man...no matter how platonic and long term the friendship may appear to the bride.  Sometimes they come around later...and that is always a blessing.
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im wondering... whisper does she know about you? after a yr? and have you met her? etc.....
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if you think he has feelings for you also..... id give him the ultimatum..... and tell him you have feelings... to either end the bad marriage or that you cant get involved anymore cause your feelings are there..... if you think your up to that....
WHAT????? HE'S MARRIED... You don't tell a married man you have feelings for him... YOU WALK AWAY. Any self respecting woman would not get involved with a married man. If he'll cheat for you, he'll cheat on you. I doubt there is only one man in your town. nothing wrong with having married men as friends.... but to where he lead her to have feelings for him is wrong.... that is what i was saying..... i would not of let it get that far.... never even if he is having issues would i let my mind wander to that point.... like i said to me mental is cheating it doesnt have to even be physical.... and if his wife doesnt even know about her that is really cheating! cheating and sneaking around not a man for me! i would of not spent so much time getting to know him... to have feelings... and actually not a seperated man either.... for seperated is not single rather living apart or not the ties havent been broken..... see.... to me a true friend even if it was a male female situation would not but into ones life as to be a part of a distruction of a marriage... but apparently that has already happened here.... some dont think of it that way ... jmo sounds like all this has already been done.... so for the situation to have already happened... 1 yr later hes still with his wife... ill bet that hes just a plain ole cheat is what im saying Right, you keep it at friendship, it never should have gotten to the butterflied in the tummy sort of thing, he's married, you treat him like you would want some other woman to treat YOUR HUSBAND. I have LOTS of guy friends, some of them have girlfriends, their girlfriends do not EVER question my motives with THEIR men. There's nothing to question. |
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I have a strict and sometimes painful rule about married men. I only befriend them if I can befriend the couple as a whole! No exceptions to that. If I already am good friends with the man and he gets married down the road, I will lose the friendship if she does not become a close friend with me as well. Unfortunately, this rule has cost me many good friendships, as it's too natural in a new marriage to hold jealousy for the past that you share with their man...no matter how platonic and long term the friendship may appear to the bride. Sometimes they come around later...and that is always a blessing.
This is why you are "everyone's love"... 
I'm with you on this...
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I have a strict and sometimes painful rule about married men. I only befriend them if I can befriend the couple as a whole! No exceptions to that. If I already am good friends with the man and he gets married down the road, I will lose the friendship if she does not become a close friend with me as well. Unfortunately, this rule has cost me many good friendships, as it's too natural in a new marriage to hold jealousy for the past that you share with their man...no matter how platonic and long term the friendship may appear to the bride. Sometimes they come around later...and that is always a blessing.
This is why you are "everyone's love"...
I'm with you on this...
(((Lily))) You are a very dear friend to me.  
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Yeap BlueshyJ and I don't want that to happen I enjoy our time together. I wish he would just let me be me.
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When your heart skips a beat when you see a person, when they are always on your mind, it kills you when they are not around. When they invade your dreams, when holding them is all you want to do. Is it love? Love/obsession. Both are signs of some kind of mental illness. 
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