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i think if you havent been with that person ... that it cant even be lust..... that it is more fantasy or fantasy lust?  but still if you have hung out with that person and not been in a dating situation i beleive still fantasy for you never know someone till after you dated them heavily for like 6 months then love can kick in... 
I am not sure I can agree. I am sorry. I mean when you see somebody almost everyday, hang out with them, and do things with them, that one can fall for somebody.
always ok to not agree all i mean is that .... you can fantasize about being with them... but to be with them could be a whole different story.... ive had that happen to me... knew him for 5 yrs... and hung out all the time... when the proper time came tried it as a couple and all hell broke loose..... the respect dissapeared... can turn into one of the ugliest human beings you ever met....
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only if you end up playing with your lovely bunch of coconuts
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I think I am playing with fired here. Maybe it is just time to let go. But I have tried to move on. Even had a boyfriend, but I still could not get him off of my mind, and thought it was not fair to the guy. So I ended things.
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only if you end up playing with your lovely bunch of coconuts
I tried that. but then one fell on my head. And now I have a bump. 
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only if you end up playing with your lovely bunch of coconuts
I tried that. but then one fell on my head. And now I have a bump.
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I have this friend and I hate it when she said this to me but it makes you think. (And hows that working for yah.) I have a friend doesn't what to much emotions in the relationship I know why but how do you put a cap on your emotions. I know how to not go to far but still have feelings can't change that. Life Hmmm smiles
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just letting go is easier said than done...... when you have feelings of any sort for someone.,especially the unkknown>.... you have moved on to a point if you dated someone else.... but obviously that person wasnt right for you.... i say maybe its time for a try with this person you have the feelings for.....let them know and give it a whirl!!! then maybe you will find out what it was really all about it could be anything.... for a lost feeling of what you feel about this person is hard to live with... and i say lost cause you questioned it on the original post.... wondering what it really was that you were feeling.... thats all
yep time to do some talking!!! not about the weather either 
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just letting go is easier said than done...... when you have feelings of any sort for someone.,especially the unkknown>.... you have moved on to a point if you dated someone else.... but obviously that person wasnt right for you.... i say maybe its time for a try with this person you have the feelings for.....let them know and give it a whirl!!! then maybe you will find out what it was really all about it could be anything.... for a lost feeling of what you feel about this person is hard to live with... and i say lost cause you questioned it on the original post.... wondering what it really was that you were feeling.... thats all yep time to do some talking!!! not about the weather either
Like I said. He is untouchable. |
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Untouchable physically but not in your heart.
If he is in your heart, then IT IS LOVE..... Believe me, I know. Best of luck and follow your heart. By the way, when I went to look at the thread, it accidently clicked your profile, so don't think I'm weird or something whisper. LOL 
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what makes you feel he is "untouchable"?
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I think if you are already friends and the infatuation builds up within the friendship...then it's surely built of more stuff than lust. But a healthy dose of lust is always a nice start to a fresh relationship too. Teeheehee.
 
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what makes you feel he is "untouchable"? He's married. |
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Edited by
BlueskyJ
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Thu 06/12/08 08:55 AM
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Untouchable physically but not in your heart. If he is in your heart, then IT IS LOVE..... Believe me, I know. Best of luck and follow your heart. By the way, when I went to look at the thread, it accidently clicked your profile, so don't think I'm weird or something whisper. LOL
And do not worry about it. You would never show up. You are a female. |
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I have this friend and I hate it when she said this to me but it makes you think. (And hows that working for yah.) I have a friend doesn't what to much emotions in the relationship I know why but how do you put a cap on your emotions. I know how to not go to far but still have feelings can't change that. Life Hmmm smiles I can relate to this idea of putting a cap on your emotions....she was so hawt for me right away & the next week too....then the next time we saw each other she said can we back off a bit(put a cap on her emotions)....it ended up ruining the relationship....once i backed off i lost interest think it lasted maybe one more week... the OP is getting Spring Love....nothing like skipped heartbeats & dreams....i miss that
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When your heart skips a beat when you see a person, when they are always on your mind, it kills you when they are not around. When they invade your dreams, when holding them is all you want to do. Is it love? No, that's lust. |
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When your heart skips a beat when you see a person, when they are always on your mind, it kills you when they are not around. When they invade your dreams, when holding them is all you want to do. Is it love? i would say yes , or it could be infatuation. depending on the situation.
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my advice to help you get over this....
Beeno....take 2 and call me in the morning 
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what makes you feel he is "untouchable"? He's married. oh ok makes sense!!!! i wouldnt touch that either!!! well lyou either have to wait till hes not married.... and think if he is having a bad relationship is that what he gets into conversation about? i know if i were married and a man that i was with and having a bad relationship with is sharing all his feelings with another woman and not communicating them with me.. i would feel he is cheating..... not physically but mental cheating.... and on his part that is wrong.... not so much yours cause you are friends with him... but he should be spending more time with his wife rather than you....and if you were with him in the future<when his marriage over> when it wasnt going so well are you prepared for him having another woman falling for him? cause he would be spending his time with her? seems men like that dont change that sort of trait...
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if you think he has feelings for you also..... id give him the ultimatum..... and tell him you have feelings... to either end the bad marriage or that you cant get involved anymore cause your feelings are there..... if you think your up to that....
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