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Edited by
shoesmonkey
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Thu 06/12/08 07:22 AM
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pretty iritated. I met a guy back in April from here. I've seen him twice. He's comming this weekend. I've waited a month for this visit. Nearly every time we talk, which is every day, he mention's his ex gf. I'm fed up!!!!!!!!!!!! I do not mention my ex's at all. I'm about ready to tell him to CALL HER! Is he baiting me? Is he testing me?
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Yeah, I'd hate that too.
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Tell him you don't want to hear about her anymore..that's its not doing your relationship any good. Sorry your goin thru this
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may be
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Might be replacing her with you. Sound like you need to talk to him. Not always easy. Let us know how it goes.
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Dump him.
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Sounds like he's still hung up on her and having a hard time letting go...which would mean he's not quite ready for a new relationship. Just talk to him about it, try to be as up front and honest as you can as to how it makes you feel and let him know that you want him to be honest as well: is he ready for a relationship with you or does he need more time?
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i've done that unintentionally. i was still hung up on mine so don't get in too deep until you talk & get it cleared up. proceed with caution
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looking for sympathy maybe?
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Tell him you don't want to hear about her anymore..that's its not doing your relationship any good. Sorry your goin thru this hey lil lady, how ya doin? 
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Ohhh dear. This sounds like a big issue. Much bigger than your justified irritation.
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so start talking about all your ex s.......just leave me out!
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Tell him you don't want to hear about her anymore..that's its not doing your relationship any good. Sorry your goin thru this hey lil lady, how ya doin? Hey handsome...i'm okay...yourself?
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looking for sympathy maybe? |
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you don't need him! you have a beautiful doggie!!
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you don't need him! you have a beautiful doggie!! |
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Scinn is right. This clown hasn't gotten over her yet. I understand, from experience no less, that it takes time to move on from a loving relationship, but it is unfair to you if he can't give you the love and loyalty you deserve because he is still grieving his old flame. Tell him to call you back when he is ready to move on. Now is not the time.
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Scinn is right. This clown hasn't gotten over her yet. I understand, from experience no less, that it takes time to move on from a loving relationship, but it is unfair to you if he can't give you the love and loyalty you deserve because he is still grieving his old flame. Tell him to call you back when he is ready to move on. Now is not the time. yeah....i think you have it....when someone spends too much time talking about an Ex it usually means they are not over it....then where is the room for me?.... |
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pretty iritated. I met a guy back in April from here. I've seen him twice. He's comming this weekend. I've waited a month for this visit. Nearly every time we talk, which is every day, he mention's his ex gf. I'm fed up!!!!!!!!!!!! I do not mention my ex's at all. I'm about ready to tell him to CALL HER! Is he baiting me? Is he testing me? He's not done dealing with it, and probably not ready for the real deal. YMMV. |
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Talk to him. Some people are just clueless about how they come off to the other person.
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