Topic: What not to do.
Moondark's photo
Wed 06/11/08 07:23 PM
Send a first email and write an essay about everything wonderful about yourself, like you are applying for a job.

Comes across way too strong. Comes across as desperate. More likely to make a person run, not talk.

Winx's photo
Wed 06/11/08 07:24 PM

Send a first email and write an essay about everything wonderful about yourself, like you are applying for a job.

Comes across way too strong. Comes across as desperate. More likely to make a person run, not talk.


That is the truth!!!!!drinker drinker

Peccy's photo
Wed 06/11/08 07:25 PM
Edited by Peccy on Wed 06/11/08 07:27 PM
true, I save that for my profile.....Also try to be witty, funny, and a wee bit cocky. Not too much though.

kk35695's photo
Wed 06/11/08 07:25 PM
Yep.
Hi girls!bigsmile :wink:

PATSFAN's photo
Wed 06/11/08 07:25 PM
smokin I agreesmokin

Marley's photo
Wed 06/11/08 07:26 PM

Send a first email and write an essay about everything wonderful about yourself, like you are applying for a job.

Comes across way too strong. Comes across as desperate. More likely to make a person run, not talk.


Very insightful. Your comments are duly noted.

markc48's photo
Wed 06/11/08 07:34 PM
What is cowgoth?

markc48's photo
Wed 06/11/08 07:39 PM

Send a first email and write an essay about everything wonderful about yourself, like you are applying for a job.

Comes across way too strong. Comes across as desperate. More likely to make a person run, not talk.
I read you profile and I'm confused what is cowgoth?
a gothic cowbow?

no photo
Wed 06/11/08 08:40 PM
send an email that is basically a copy and paste of your profile.

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 06/11/08 10:13 PM

Send a first email and write an essay about everything wonderful about yourself, like you are applying for a job.

Comes across way too strong. Comes across as desperate. More likely to make a person run, not talk.
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 06/11/08 10:13 PM

true, I save that for my profile.....Also try to be witty, funny, and a wee bit cocky. Not too much though.
:tongue:

Winx's photo
Wed 06/11/08 10:21 PM

send an email that is basically a copy and paste of your profile.


noway

kk35695's photo
Wed 06/11/08 10:22 PM


send an email that is basically a copy and paste of your profile.


noway


bigsmile laugh laugh laugh laugh bigsmile

Winx.... my girlie...bigsmile

no photo
Wed 06/11/08 10:24 PM
I gave up on sending first e-mails over a year ago.

Had better luck sprinkling armadillo blood on a 1963 Buick. Seriously, try it. You'll be surprised. Or not.


brooke007's photo
Wed 06/11/08 10:25 PM

Send a first email and write an essay about everything wonderful about yourself, like you are applying for a job.

Comes across way too strong. Comes across as desperate. More likely to make a person run, not talk.


im sorry!!laugh flowerforyou flowerforyou

Winx's photo
Wed 06/11/08 10:38 PM



send an email that is basically a copy and paste of your profile.


noway


bigsmile laugh laugh laugh laugh bigsmile

Winx.... my girlie...bigsmile


Are you flirting everytime, KK?laugh flowerforyou

Moondark's photo
Thu 06/12/08 03:33 PM


Send a first email and write an essay about everything wonderful about yourself, like you are applying for a job.

Comes across way too strong. Comes across as desperate. More likely to make a person run, not talk.
I read you profile and I'm confused what is cowgoth?
a gothic cowbow?


The rare goth person who actually enjoys country music. But it has to be real country. Not this crossover pop/rock/country you hear most of the time anymore.

SomebodyinChico's photo
Mon 06/16/08 03:57 PM
Moondark is right. You can and should write a first email, but not make it that strong. On the same token, you should write from the heart, at all times.